FabSwingers.com forum: The fab curse

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it me or is the fab curse real.

Since being on here I've met a couple of people yes but I'm also chatting to a few wonderful people who I'd love to meet and even just be friends with yet we live Miles apart is this the fab curse

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Nope. I'm cursed too. Lol

Life isn't meant to be simple.

You're very lucky to find a prospective meet that local. IMO.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No, it’s Geography.

You can control who you chat to, you don’t HAVE to interact with folk who live far, far away.

But because you do, you’re in control of that. So it’s not a curse.

It’s just you self sabotaging your chances of getting a local shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When meeting - I choose a distance of say ‘20 miles’ from postcode.

If they’re outside of that, I don’t really interact with them. Unless I’ve seen them on the forums or they’ve directly contacted me...

Otherwise you’ll find yourself in that situation a lot and may be disheartened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the hotter they are the further away they are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, it’s Geography.

You can control who you chat to, you don’t HAVE to interact with folk who live far, far away.

But because you do, you’re in control of that. So it’s not a curse.

It’s just you self sabotaging your chances of getting a local shag

While I agree with you I'm glad I have spoken to people far and wide as there are people on here that I enjoy talking to that yes I wish I lived closer to but lifes more than just a shag as you put it

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

It's called sods law

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is the hotter they are the further away they are "

Yep I agree with you there

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

A lot of the people I've connected with are pretty far away yes. Though I have one rather wonderful person I've met through here that I could probably just about walk to at a push

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same boat here. 20 mile radius and got next to nothing. Come on the forums and I've been chatting a to a few nice women that I'd love to keep chatting with too. The distance is crazy though! Soda law right enough.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"It is the hotter they are the further away they are

Yep I agree with you there

Well that's true. You're 290 away. Blimey.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

There's a saying & I often find it applies on here too -

Where there's a will, there's a way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is the hotter they are the further away they are

Yep I agree with you there

Oi you we live close!!!! Haha

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Love is in the air......

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I fell in love with someone I met online who lived 360 miles away. Been together now for 18 years, married and two kids. Sometimes you can't let distance get in your way x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I fell in love with someone I met online who lived 360 miles away. Been together now for 18 years, married and two kids. Sometimes you can't let distance get in your way x"

Congrats x

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not cursed, just picky

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

"It is the hotter they are the further away they are "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't interact with people so far away, we don't as we'd never meet them so no point.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I fell in love with someone I met online who lived 360 miles away. Been together now for 18 years, married and two kids. Sometimes you can't let distance get in your way x

Congrats x"

Thanks.

It would be a long way to go just for a quickie though

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I fell in love with someone I met online who lived 360 miles away. Been together now for 18 years, married and two kids. Sometimes you can't let distance get in your way x

Congrats x

Thanks.

It would be a long way to go just for a quickie though

Just a tad. Lol

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"It is the hotter they are the further away they are

This. "

Certainly true in your case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking this was about woman on rag week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt call it a curse lol but yes, it is a bollix not being able to meet up a certain someone so easily, but then if you both want to meet badly enough you will find a way. Planes, trains and automobiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I live in the wrong city

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I think I live in the wrong city

Come to Hull.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I chat to people all over the place (world). Some it'd be nice to meet sexually, almost all I'd at least meet socially. It might never happen, but I've chatted to some lovely people and continue to do so. It's not all about a quick fuck.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

You are as far apart as you want to be, this is why I like going to the fab socials. I get to meet lots of people from that area on just a social basis and can go from there, if we click we click but I'm not travelling 200 miles to meet just one new person for a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a 205 diesel dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a curse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, it’s Geography.

You can control who you chat to, you don’t HAVE to interact with folk who live far, far away.

But because you do, you’re in control of that. So it’s not a curse.

It’s just you self sabotaging your chances of getting a local shag

Or a Welsh one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see it as a curse. If I really like someone I quite enjoy the whole adventure of going to a new city

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I don’t see it as a curse. If I really like someone I quite enjoy the whole adventure of going to a new city

This ^ it’s good to have plans to look forward too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curse?

Count your blessings that you get to interact with these people in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a saying & I often find it applies on here too -

Where there's a will, there's a way. "

Exactly, distance is not the barrier but is used as an excuse

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

It is what it is.. you learn to love travel

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"It is what it is.. you learn to love travel

I always travel to you

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"It is what it is.. you learn to love travel

I always travel to you

I’m worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah just needs a bit of planning and stars to align

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"It is what it is.. you learn to love travel

I always travel to you

I’m worth it

Nice coffee and some fury things to stroke

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Think women are far more out off bu location by men, probably to do with men being outnumbered and women being able to be far more selective and have far more choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is what it is.. you learn to love travel

I always travel to you

I’m worth it

Nice coffee and some fury things to stroke

Patiently waiting for invite...

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

If the fab curse is being far away from the ones you fancy then I'm eternally cursed! The scenery makes up for it though

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It's not a curse, it's all part of the adventure and excitement - weekends away exploring new places as well as each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is definitely a fab curse

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

"There is definitely a fab curse "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is lol I believe in the curse also!

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

"It's not a curse, it's all part of the adventure and excitement - weekends away exploring new places as well as each other

Absolutely this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv traveled quite some distance to meet people.

Including the man that is now the love of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or is the fab curse real.

Since being on here I've met a couple of people yes but I'm also chatting to a few wonderful people who I'd love to meet and even just be friends with yet we live Miles apart is this the fab curse "
life is what you make it if you put obstacles in the way then they are obstacles for the right people surely travelling to them is an exciting prospect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not a curse, it's all part of the adventure and excitement - weekends away exploring new places as well as each other

I agree 100%. putting time, attention and the imagination will leave the meet explosive in released tension..

or the distance is to far to spend a wham bam time..

Travel, explore and be deviantly filthy...

Just saying...

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

The day I arrive anywhere on holiday is the day the perfect meet is flying home from the same location.

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