FabSwingers.com forum: Mind games

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it that people like to play mind games instead of being honest?

ie Going to bed now......yet they stay in chat and dont chat no more???

I prefer people who can be honest rather than play games!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it cos they r bored of chat n action 2 follow ...so they luk else ware ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a common trait in some people, especially on a free site but keep plugging away there's a lot of genuine people out there too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes i say i am going to bed then i change my mind, then i get an intresting message or see some good pictures to look at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And it takes several minutes for it to show on a profile that they have logged out when they do, I know that from when I have sent my friend a message; it clearly showed him on line yet when he rings me, he has logged off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the net is cyber land and thats alot of mind games for some thats why thay love it can hide behind the net.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm .... for what its worth if they have an i phone it can stay logged in for ages

Does it matter though ?? Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well the net is cyber land and thats alot of mind games for some thats why thay love it can hide behind the net."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The chat room thing was just an example!

Main question was why do people have to play mind games instead of being honest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The chat room thing was just an example!

Main question was why do people have to play mind games instead of being honest?

In my experience most mind gamers are users out to exploit people. Keep alert is the only way and tread on their heads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The chat room thing was just an example!

Main question was why do people have to play mind games instead of being honest?

On here as in everywhere you get players .... they will chat with you ..tell you that you are the best thing ever then someone else catches their eye and they move on

The blow hot and cold technique .... I personally don't understand it but its an ego boost for some on here.

It happens everywhere not just on here - just go to a nightclub on a Sat night !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a fun site for adults. Many are looking for different things. Please don't get hung up if someone is behaving in a way your not used to, move on. It should suggest to you that the person is not who you would enjoy fun with.

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

Nothing is real in cyberland, keep that in mind and take everything with a pinch of salt until you know for sure.

I speak from experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The chat room thing was just an example!

Main question was why do people have to play mind games instead of being honest?

I am always honest.. I just quickly know how to mess with someone if I wanted too.. although in my defence I usually only do this AFTER they start TRYING to play games with me..

I just have a short attention span and love them thinking they are playing games when Master and I are laughing about it later on that evening.

This is normally the guys that try to tell me that what master doesnt know wont hurt him..

Everyone plays mind games, intentional or not... some do it to hurt on purpose, others do it just because its how they are.. we all like to have the upper hand.. and I think that cyberspace enables people that wouldnt normally have the confidence to do it to actually have a go.

cali

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

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"Why is it that people like to play mind games instead of being honest?

ie Going to bed now......yet they stay in chat and dont chat no more???

I prefer people who can be honest rather than play games!"

perhaps not a game, perhaps they just didnt want to chat to you and were looking for a polite way to say you bore me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is it that people like to play mind games instead of being honest?

ie Going to bed now......yet they stay in chat and dont chat no more???

I prefer people who can be honest rather than play games!

perhaps not a game, perhaps they just didnt want to chat to you and were looking for a polite way to say you bore me?"

As I said that was just an example!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

give us another one then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok another mind game people like to enjoy.....After meeting them they say that they want to meet again, they send mail saying they still want to meet but never seem to be free to meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok another mind game people like to enjoy.....After meeting them they say that they want to meet again, they send mail saying they still want to meet but never seem to be free to meet!

Sometimes people have commitments and swinging isn't something they always have time for

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