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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m going through a spell of just being bored with life in general, I know they say only boring people get bored but is that really true? I’m not seeking attention just trying to get out of this rut

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Meeting some ‘interesting females’ might help.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Then get off of FAB and go and do something more exciting instead !!

Mountain climbing is not boring x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There aren’t any mountains in Norfolk

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Bit of a hill that norwich castle is built on !! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bored/boring is a state of mind tbh and with what you've been/going through I'm not surprised ... but only you can change it. Take up a new hobby? You have to make yourself coz only you can change it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join a club or take up a new hobby. Club might be better as itll get you out and in the company of others

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Can you maybe rescue a dog or walk a friends. They make great companions and get you out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can you maybe rescue a dog or walk a friends. They make great companions and get you out."

Fabulous idea as I can’t have a dog of my own

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Bit of a hill that norwich castle is built on !! X "

Just a little one I see it everyday at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a website called borrow my doggy?

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Agree - you can never be bored with a dog!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Chin up, tomorrow is another day with new possibilities.

Be good to yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cinnamon trust are always looking for people to walk the dogs of the elderly and terminally ill. It's a great charity if you fancy doing a bit of volunteering.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I’m going through a spell of just being bored with life in general, I know they say only boring people get bored but is that really true? I’m not seeking attention just trying to get out of this rut "

I learnt to kite surf in Norfolk x

I must say , honestly I think only boring people post about their boredom on public forums x

I genuinely do not have enough time left in my life to think about and do all the things that pacify my brain

Are you seriously suggesting you know everything there is to know ? For if not Google something you do not understand and try to understand it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m restricted in what I can do physically due to being involved in an accident and as an active person it’s difficult to accept.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I’m restricted in what I can do physically due to being involved in an accident and as an active person it’s difficult to accept. "

Have total and utter empathy for this. I took up crochet and joined a club the last time I went through a spell of very restricted activity. The club was purely social so sitting listening to invited speakers and then tea and biscuits and sometimes a game or craft activity. It wasn't my usual idea of fun but I met some lovely people. Can you find a crafty hobby you can do at home, order the bits you need for home delivery?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I’m restricted in what I can do physically due to being involved in an accident and as an active person it’s difficult to accept. "

Boredom is not amusing the brain? I suggested researching questions you find fascinating by using the internet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From someone whos experienced it, sounds like your depressed, id suggest taking a break from here for starters, focusing on you. Im not sure how restricted you are from your accident but yoga is gentle on the body and good for the mind, its helped me loads. Go speak to your doctor too and remember its okay to not be okay x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I’m restricted in what I can do physically due to being involved in an accident and as an active person it’s difficult to accept.

Boredom is not amusing the brain? I suggested researching questions you find fascinating by using the internet?

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You also suggested that he's a boring person for feeling bored and pointed out how little time you have to be bored. Which is lovely, but when you have a physical restriction, especially a new one, you become depressed and lose interest in things you might previously have enjoyed. Unless you've experienced it, you might struggle to empathise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m restricted in what I can do physically due to being involved in an accident and as an active person it’s difficult to accept.

Boredom is not amusing the brain? I suggested researching questions you find fascinating by using the internet?

You also suggested that he's a boring person for feeling bored and pointed out how little time you have to be bored. Which is lovely, but when you have a physical restriction, especially a new one, you become depressed and lose interest in things you might previously have enjoyed. Unless you've experienced it, you might struggle to empathise. "

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By *jloversCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Totally get this...

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"I’m going through a spell of just being bored with life in general, I know they say only boring people get bored but is that really true? I’m not seeking attention just trying to get out of this rut "

Yep I’m exactly the same

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

Hope you're feeling better now. Not nice feeling that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQfidTOTsLo

Watch this and try and copy their moves. You'll soon cheer up.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you like reading or making things? Can you do stuff like gardening? I don't mean landscaping huge areas but growing some herbs, sowing some tomato seeds or some flowers for the spring.

Do you want to do something completely diff from your usual or previous activities.

When I had a long period of inactivity I admit that I watched a lot of telly but also Mr N used to load me in the car and take me on the road with him

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