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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Do you find the females or males you're attracted to in real life are not attracted to you and the ones you arent attracted to immediately or at all seem to find you attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

If I wasn't attracted to someone it wouldn't make a difference if they were attracted to me as I wouldn't settle.

And luckily most of the guys I've been interested in, here and real life I've not found much resistance from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont notice when someone attracted to me, I just think they're being nice and a friendly person, I never pick up on the signs so I wouldnt know

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I dont notice when someone attracted to me, I just think they're being nice and a friendly person, I never pick up on the signs so I wouldnt know "

Lol that's me too IRL. So many lost opportunities because women assume all men can read subtle signals. 1 signal miss read and all hell breaks loose lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont notice when someone attracted to me, I just think they're being nice and a friendly person, I never pick up on the signs so I wouldnt know "

I see a girl smile at me and I instantly think shes wanting pumped! Haha

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
over a year ago

SA3


"I dont notice when someone attracted to me, I just think they're being nice and a friendly person, I never pick up on the signs so I wouldnt know

Lol that's me too IRL. So many lost opportunities because women assume all men can read subtle signals. 1 signal miss read and all hell breaks loose lol"

Yup me too. I’m thoroughly useless. I usually find out years later. Not that it happens often. Also I’d be so mortified to be seen as a creep I rarely show any signs I’m interested either. I was crap at being single!

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I dont notice when someone attracted to me, I just think they're being nice and a friendly person, I never pick up on the signs so I wouldnt know

Lol that's me too IRL. So many lost opportunities because women assume all men can read subtle signals. 1 signal miss read and all hell breaks loose lol

Yup me too. I’m thoroughly useless. I usually find out years later. Not that it happens often. Also I’d be so mortified to be seen as a creep I rarely show any signs I’m interested either. I was crap at being single! "

Same here! If a female smiles at me I think I'm in there. If she talks to me I think I'm in there.

Usually they're not.

The ones that are i haven't either noticed or been attracted to lol

And yes the fear of being called a creep freaks me out too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Story of my life on here especially lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Story of my life on here especially lately. "

Same here, or they’re only interested in one of us, or only one of us is interested in them. Definitely not interested in the “any hole is a goal” brigade (women can sometimes be as bad) and if I don’t feel like I’ve been respected there’s no way in hell will I meet- I don’t settle, I’m selective x Viv x

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Story of my life on here especially lately.

Same here, or they’re only interested in one of us, or only one of us is interested in them. Definitely not interested in the “any hole is a goal” brigade (women can sometimes be as bad) and if I don’t feel like I’ve been respected there’s no way in hell will I meet- I don’t settle, I’m selective x Viv x "

oh absolutely respect is paramount!!

I dont entertain being stereotyped nor lack of respect and nobody should.

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Story of my life on here especially lately. "

what about in real life there too?

so you females have it too cos I thought it was mostly us guys that never or seldomly get the types we want and get the ones we dont want or notice wanting us lol

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By *tticusukMan
over a year ago

Formby

You just need to assume everyone wants you until they tell you they don’t. It’s a confidence game, it’s a numbers game, and what have you got to loose?

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"You just need to assume everyone wants you until they tell you they don’t. It’s a confidence game, it’s a numbers game, and what have you got to loose?"

true thats the way I used to play it then had 1 experience where I dont know for sure but felt as if I may be classified as creepy and so after that left it.

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