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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Until you unfriend someone.

Classic

I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.

They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:

Hey how are you

Have I upset you

Why are we not friends anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until you unfriend someone.

Classic

I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.

They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:

Hey how are you

Have I upset you

Why are we not friends anymore

"

Wank over your friend pics babe most likely haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until you unfriend someone.

Classic

I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.

They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:

Hey how are you

Have I upset you

Why are we not friends anymore

"

Yes I get this too.. Only notice your not friends anymore when they can't wank over your pics

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Shusssshhhhhh!

You'll let everyone who's on your friends list know they're at risk and they'll screenshot your pics!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most my friends do not come on the forum so I am safe.

I have dropped 10 friends in 2 days, and a few have messaged lol

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I can't imagine why they wouldn't respond to you, they'd be lucky to be friends with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People get bored. Especially on a site for variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 26/02/20 01:19:03]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't imagine why they wouldn't respond to you, they'd be lucky to be friends with you "

Awww ty

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Anyone I’ve ever removed has never contacted me again

Oh well #fablife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can relate to it.

Hence I now no longer chase endlessly, if you want to meet me, you better start grafting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed from friends list at 26/02/20 01:19:03]"

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Anyone I’ve ever removed has never contacted me again

Oh well #fablife"

Billy no mates

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"Anyone I’ve ever removed has never contacted me again

Oh well #fablife

Billy no mates "

Definitely... although they only want me for one thing then discard me after like a used condom

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Anyone I’ve ever removed has never contacted me again

Oh well #fablife

Billy no mates

Definitely... although they only want me for one thing then discard me after like a used condom "

It's all you're good for

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"Anyone I’ve ever removed has never contacted me again

Oh well #fablife

Billy no mates

Definitely... although they only want me for one thing then discard me after like a used condom

It's all you're good for "

Ok ok - out your claws away.... just because I turned you down, you don’t have to get all upperty sonny Jim

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Anyone I’ve ever removed has never contacted me again

Oh well #fablife

Billy no mates

Definitely... although they only want me for one thing then discard me after like a used condom

It's all you're good for

Ok ok - out your claws away.... just because I turned you down, you don’t have to get all upperty sonny Jim "

Turned me down eh? So you're not coming for a visit soon?

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"Anyone I’ve ever removed has never contacted me again

Oh well #fablife

Billy no mates

Definitely... although they only want me for one thing then discard me after like a used condom

It's all you're good for

Ok ok - out your claws away.... just because I turned you down, you don’t have to get all upperty sonny Jim

Turned me down eh? So you're not coming for a visit soon?"

Hahah.... well maybe - or maybe

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Anyone I’ve ever removed has never contacted me again

Oh well #fablife

Billy no mates

Definitely... although they only want me for one thing then discard me after like a used condom

It's all you're good for

Ok ok - out your claws away.... just because I turned you down, you don’t have to get all upperty sonny Jim

Turned me down eh? So you're not coming for a visit soon?

Hahah.... well maybe - or maybe "

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I can't imagine why they wouldn't respond to you, they'd be lucky to be friends with you "

This

You look stunning in your pics, damn being 48 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until you unfriend someone.

Classic

I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.

They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:

Hey how are you

Have I upset you

Why are we not friends anymore

"
i find its a two way street if the other person is messaging others and maybe more keen on the others they are messaging then they have less time for you, if i sense that i move away if they put status up bragging about upcoming excitement i move away to its great that youre excited but why brag about it its not a great feeling for the other person keep what you do to yourself, we all get to chat to a few and some with a view to meeting but even though we know that and look forward to it we don't want to hear about your conquests or see the pics involved, well not all of us do, i think a lot of women will agree with this

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs


"Most my friends do not come on the forum so I am safe.

I have dropped 10 friends in 2 days, and a few have messaged lol"

I did this and not one have messaged me to ask, but then they didn't message me In the 2 weeks leading up to the drop so I'm not surprised tbh

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I just dont add people as friends unless I actually see them as friends. Solves the issues

Checked I'm still on the op friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until you unfriend someone.

Classic

I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.

They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:

Hey how are you

Have I upset you

Why are we not friends anymore

i find its a two way street if the other person is messaging others and maybe more keen on the others they are messaging then they have less time for you, if i sense that i move away if they put status up bragging about upcoming excitement i move away to its great that youre excited but why brag about it its not a great feeling for the other person keep what you do to yourself, we all get to chat to a few and some with a view to meeting but even though we know that and look forward to it we don't want to hear about your conquests or see the pics involved, well not all of us do, i think a lot of women will agree with this "

Agree. That’s the only downside to this place, the seeing what goes on. I’d rather not know!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

If we don't speak then we're not friends.

I'm not arsed if my friends are sleeping with the entire site, good on them and I hope they are smiling!

I give a lot of leeway before unfriending, but if I've not spoken to someone in a month on here or elsewhere then I assume there is no longer any interest there and I delete them.

As with the OP, in spite of them not responding to a message for a month that's normally when I get a "hey, you unfriended me" message. It's not that they can't see my friends only pictures because I don't have any - I was hoping removing them would decrease the volume of random friend requests but it hasn't.

I value my friends and have few of them, but the few I have I keep in touch with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Until you unfriend someone.

Classic

I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.

They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:

Hey how are you

Have I upset you

Why are we not friends anymore

i find its a two way street if the other person is messaging others and maybe more keen on the others they are messaging then they have less time for you, if i sense that i move away if they put status up bragging about upcoming excitement i move away to its great that youre excited but why brag about it its not a great feeling for the other person keep what you do to yourself, we all get to chat to a few and some with a view to meeting but even though we know that and look forward to it we don't want to hear about your conquests or see the pics involved, well not all of us do, i think a lot of women will agree with this "

Well I guess you are not a swinger then and not someone I would have on my friends list.

Each to their own but I am a swinger and do not put up with jealousy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just dont add people as friends unless I actually see them as friends. Solves the issues

Checked I'm still on the op friends list "

Of course you are, you actually message

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

This is one of the reasons why I only friend people I've met most of the time.

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

South West and North West


"Until you unfriend someone.

Classic

I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.

They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:

Hey how are you

Have I upset you

Why are we not friends anymore

"

In that case i best get messaging my friends on here then

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By *quirell2015Man
over a year ago

somewhere nearby


"I can't imagine why they wouldn't respond to you, they'd be lucky to be friends with you "

Have to agree here wow you look amazing

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

My friends pics don't contain any nudes, so I don't think it'd be missed if I removed people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I unfriend everyone, every so often. Unless I speak to them, then 0 need for them to view my friend-only pictures etc......

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

It’s a balance tbh. I get that women on here get inundated so I’d imagine any suggestion that they are keen can often get pounced upon and men can get really intense ... and pouty... I need to take some off my friends list as clearly after the initial exuberant messaging its gone really quiet between us... but knowing most are there to message and say hi to without pressure is what it’s all about. I also think that only talking about sex is off putting for a large number of women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until you unfriend someone.

Classic

I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.

They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:

Hey how are you

Have I upset you

Why are we not friends anymore

"

Its the feeling of rejection and abandonment, people cant deal with it.

Ps. Your pics are great x

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