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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’ve only got a few on my list but they never talk even though they’ve been online, some proper ignoring going off.. anyone else have friends that don’t seem to chat?

Or am I just boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete them and make new ones

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"So I’ve only got a few on my list but they never talk even though they’ve been online, some proper ignoring going off.. anyone else have friends that don’t seem to chat?

Or am I just boring "

No, we’ve all got them... you either chat elsewhere or they wanted to see your friends photos....

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

do you talk to them and they don't reply?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I’ve only got a few on my list but they never talk even though they’ve been online, some proper ignoring going off.. anyone else have friends that don’t seem to chat?

Or am I just boring

No, we’ve all got them... you either chat elsewhere or they wanted to see your friends photos.... "

Ye true, but there not rude just more face ones

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Dont take it personally.

They're more than likely having chats elsewhere and not actively ignoring you.

Think how long it takes to type things out compared to a normal spoken conversation and also think of this place along the lines of a busy social venue, you speak to a local of people on and off so one on one chats can be few and far between.

It doesnt mean they've left you behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its compulsory? You can always reach out first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"do you talk to them and they don't reply?"

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve only got a few on my list but they never talk even though they’ve been online, some proper ignoring going off.. anyone else have friends that don’t seem to chat?

Or am I just boring "
a friend in need is a f&@#&2g nuisance

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

If we don’t chat then we’re not friends

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

This bakes my brain, so I took the tough luck road and deleted all of them before my fab break, chasing them all the time becomes tiresome and friendship is not a one way street

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I’ve only got a few on my list but they never talk even though they’ve been online, some proper ignoring going off.. anyone else have friends that don’t seem to chat?

Or am I just boring a friend in need is a f&@#&2g nuisance "

Oh I’m not one of them nuisances that message constantly just a “ hello how’s has your day been” kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we don’t chat then we’re not friends "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably quite guilty of this. I tend to come on for the forums mainly these days

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"If we don’t chat then we’re not friends "

Awwwwwww, we've never chatted, does this mean we cant be friends

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Me. I don’t much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate, forget Fab...I got family like this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate, forget Fab...I got family like this! "

My god, definitely true. X

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By *ixen500Couple
over a year ago

some where near shropshire


"So I’ve only got a few on my list but they never talk even though they’ve been online, some proper ignoring going off.. anyone else have friends that don’t seem to chat?

Or am I just boring "

No youre not the only one ...i think im going to go through my friends list

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Mate, forget Fab...I got family like this! "

Lucky you

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"If we don’t chat then we’re not friends

Awwwwwww, we've never chatted, does this mean we cant be friends "

It definitely doesn’t mean that

What I meant was if I have people on my friends list but we never chat then I don’t really think they’re friends.

I always have room for new friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever added them or just random adds?

Maybe seen pictures and not taken there fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only add people we've met as friends, so yes we speak to a lot of em.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we don’t chat then we’re not friends

Awwwwwww, we've never chatted, does this mean we cant be friends

It definitely doesn’t mean that

What I meant was if I have people on my friends list but we never chat then I don’t really think they’re friends.

I always have room for new friends "

You don’t because you’ve hidden your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m about to have a tidy up of mine for exactly this reason.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"If we don’t chat then we’re not friends

Awwwwwww, we've never chatted, does this mean we cant be friends

It definitely doesn’t mean that

What I meant was if I have people on my friends list but we never chat then I don’t really think they’re friends.

I always have room for new friends

You don’t because you’ve hidden your profile "

That doesn't stop her from having new friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you ever added them or just random adds?

Maybe seen pictures and not taken there fancy "

Then they should unfriend surely... anyway it’s not the end of the world and I still have my health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair the majority of the time I come on line I come in the forums and I don’t even look at messages or message anyone.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"If we don’t chat then we’re not friends

Awwwwwww, we've never chatted, does this mean we cant be friends

It definitely doesn’t mean that

What I meant was if I have people on my friends list but we never chat then I don’t really think they’re friends.

I always have room for new friends

You don’t because you’ve hidden your profile "

I’m just having a bit of quiet time, it doesn’t mean I won’t be friendly

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I have friends that I don't always talk to.

I also don't like having to start a conversation first all the time.

But this is fab, so just enjoy what you have and have fun.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"To be fair the majority of the time I come on line I come in the forums and I don’t even look at messages or message anyone. "

But you're a lovely friend to have and generally you catch up..... Eventually.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I have friends that I’ve not spoken to in ages because I’m just popping on and off and not feeling my best. Most know that I come and go so aren’t offended by the fact I don’t chat much at the mo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have friends that I don't always talk to.

I also don't like having to start a conversation first all the time.

But this is fab, so just enjoy what you have and have fun. "

Yes I totally agree with the always starting the conversation bit,

Makes you seem desperate which I’m am not, just being nice like

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I have friends that I don't always talk to.

I also don't like having to start a conversation first all the time.

But this is fab, so just enjoy what you have and have fun.

Yes I totally agree with the always starting the conversation bit,

Makes you seem desperate which I’m am not, just being nice like "

.

Me too. I don't like feeling like I'm being a pest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have friends that I don't always talk to.

I also don't like having to start a conversation first all the time.

But this is fab, so just enjoy what you have and have fun.

Yes I totally agree with the always starting the conversation bit,

Makes you seem desperate which I’m am not, just being nice like "

If they want you let them do the chasing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have friends that I don't always talk to.

I also don't like having to start a conversation first all the time.

But this is fab, so just enjoy what you have and have fun.

Yes I totally agree with the always starting the conversation bit,

Makes you seem desperate which I’m am not, just being nice like

If they want you let them do the chasing "

Yes I’m learning that... at 40 I should already know this

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I have friends that I don't always talk to.

I also don't like having to start a conversation first all the time.

But this is fab, so just enjoy what you have and have fun.

Yes I totally agree with the always starting the conversation bit,

Makes you seem desperate which I’m am not, just being nice like

If they want you let them do the chasing "

But there shouldn’t be any need for ‘chasing’ if you’re friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have friends that I don't always talk to.

I also don't like having to start a conversation first all the time.

But this is fab, so just enjoy what you have and have fun.

Yes I totally agree with the always starting the conversation bit,

Makes you seem desperate which I’m am not, just being nice like

If they want you let them do the chasing

But there shouldn’t be any need for ‘chasing’ if you’re friends. "

Also very true.. and definitely no ignoring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and they r too hot to remove

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete them and make new ones "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and they r too hot to remove "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I messsge all the time, but get ignored.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks admin for removing that person,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what difference showing my face would make ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Do you mean friends on a fab list or people you have actually met , have spent some time with, have had life experiences with and are close to ?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’ve friends in real life that don’t talk to me never mind on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthermore, you been on here a week, are you expecting daily updates from each of them?

How you get so many friends in a week, do share, for the lads

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have a very select group of friends

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I have a very select group of friends "

And me.

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"do you talk to them and they don't reply?

Yep "

Doesn't sound like they're friends worth keeping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve only got a few on my list but they never talk even though they’ve been online, some proper ignoring going off.. anyone else have friends that don’t seem to chat?

Or am I just boring "

I have quite a few and in fact deleted many recently. Some people don't like chat unless a meet is involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete them and make new ones "
I second that

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I've got loads of people on the list, it just got bigger over the years.

I hardly ever delete them.

They are all people I've had good interaction with but don't necessarily talk too.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"I've got loads of people on the list, it just got bigger over the years.

I hardly ever delete them.

They are all people I've had good interaction with but don't necessarily talk too.

"

I'm finding mine is growing quicker than I can keep up with both it and the people on there.

It would be far easier in a pub or by spoken word instead of typing every damn letter out

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I have many friends on my list and I don’t expect to speak to them all the time, we all have lives to live and I’d hope they respect that

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place


"do you talk to them and they don't reply?

Yep "

Remove them...

Move on

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