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Should blokes always make the first move?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see a lot of profiles saying this, yet equal rights and all that. So isn’t it a two way street?

Just saying

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d rather the lady did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of profiles saying this, yet equal rights and all that. So isn’t it a two way street?

Just saying "

Anyone should feel free to make the first move ... it's down to what people feel comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!!! I love making the first move. All part of the chase

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Some men like women to make the first move, some women like men to make the first move, some men like other men to make the first move, some women like other women to make the first move...

You see where I'm going with this?

Mrs TMN x

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Tbf in this scene it'd be so much safer that way round a lot of the time. Generally I tend to be the one moving us all forwards, which can make me feel a bit sleazy still.

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By *B..Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I would make the first move, but I like confident men so would hope they contacted me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always ends better when I make the first move

I don't half react badly to most of what finds its way to the inbox when filters are lifted.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I hunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Equal rights hey, let she who cast the first flirty message take my penis

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I see a lot of profiles saying this, yet equal rights and all that. So isn’t it a two way street?

Just saying "

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some men like women to make the first move, some women like men to make the first move, some men like other men to make the first move, some women like other women to make the first move...

You see where I'm going with this?

Mrs TMN x"

No?

Of course I do. Ha

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No they shouldn't. I think doing away with societal ideas surrounding men "chasing" and daft rules is great - if I like someone and I want to talk to them I will (poor sods).

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I love women making the first move, I know exactly where I stand that way

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I love women making the first move, I know exactly where I stand that way "
I agree. I can’t get the hang of flirts properly.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Equality or not, if I waited for a lady make the first move on here, I’ll grow a lonely old man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love women making the first move, I know exactly where I stand that way I agree. I can’t get the hang of flirts properly. "

I’m a terrible flirt. And I don’t mean that in the way, that I do it with every woman. I actually am shit at it.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"I love women making the first move, I know exactly where I stand that way I agree. I can’t get the hang of flirts properly. "

I love the flirts but never know if its jokey flirts or real ones hoping I pick up on it.....just tell me you want to sit on my face and I'll gladly let you

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I usually make the first move, but then again i'm naturally proactive

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It works both ways, why shouldn’t we say what we like.

If I see someone I like, I’ll go for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It works both ways, why shouldn’t we say what we like.

If I see someone I like, I’ll go for it "

Cracking boob shot spursy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my female friends in here have come from them messaging me first. I don’t clog up women’s boxes with unsolicited messages and dick pics and I don’t feel any frustration about not getting replies. Winner-winner chicken dinner.

However if I suspect there might be interest but they are unlikely to make a first move and I fancy them, I tell them. I’m getting too old now to pussyfoot around.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"It works both ways, why shouldn’t we say what we like.

If I see someone I like, I’ll go for it

Cracking boob shot spursy "

Cheers ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No they shouldn't. I think doing away with societal ideas surrounding men "chasing" and daft rules is great - if I like someone and I want to talk to them I will (poor sods). "

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointed.

Thought this would be a salsa thread.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I love women making the first move, I know exactly where I stand that way I agree. I can’t get the hang of flirts properly.

I’m a terrible flirt. And I don’t mean that in the way, that I do it with every woman. I actually am shit at it. "
ooooh! I’d say not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It works both ways, why shouldn’t we say what we like.

If I see someone I like, I’ll go for it

Cracking boob shot spursy "

It's a fitting tribute to Spurs season. Tits up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send messages first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy to make the first move but if a confidant man does it first, it certainly gets my attention quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often make the first move. It's more productive than waiting for men I'm attracted to, to find me

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"It works both ways, why shouldn’t we say what we like.

If I see someone I like, I’ll go for it

Cracking boob shot spursy

It's a fitting tribute to Spurs season. Tits up. "

It’s not over until the final whistle let’s see how it stands in a couple of months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's it got to do with equal rights?

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

It's often the Mrs that does the flirting and chasing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't think there were rules over this kinda thing... although many do things completely differently to me.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I love messaging and seeing the response from said victim...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I love messaging and seeing the response from said victim... "
what would you say to me?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Not at all - I will and have made the first move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will quite happily message first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve messaged first on more than one occasion. I don’t see it as a problem

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

I prefer to watch my interests on here and lay out trails to attract what I am looking for, I use winks to show interest but I don't cold message people I find attractive, much prefer the slow game.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"I love messaging and seeing the response from said victim... what would you say to me? "

I’d whip that pineapple away and let’s eat it together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll approach first by way of sending a first message and I’ll float the idea of a meet but won’t go too hard. Just think with guys if they think something is too easy it’s not worth having.

I’d love someone to go in hard for me, by that I mean pursue me hard!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I love messaging and seeing the response from said victim... what would you say to me?

I’d whip that pineapple away and let’s eat it together "

That’s got me going!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to hunt for myself when the mood takes

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I have messaged first, if I've found someone I really want!! I haven't done it often & I'm fully prepared for a knockback, because I'm not going to be many men's object of desire!! I generally prefer to wait for messages

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

I have plenty of times.

If I want something why wait for a guy to get round to it?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"I like to hunt for myself when the mood takes "

Nooooo, really

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