FabSwingers.com forum: Do you fab expectations match your fab experiences/reality?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you joined you may have had expectations about what joining Fab would be like or what you wanted to achieve by joining.

Has this come to fruition? Have you added more things to the ‘to-do’ list?

When i joined i wanted to explore the unicorn niche. I achieved that and now my tastes have changed.

I’d like to hear others opinions and experiences please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expected a line of MILFs, Cougars, Hotwives and the younguns to be lining up to my Inbox.

I was 99.999979% wrong.

#crusheddreams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's turned out to be way better than I expected and I've done things I never imagined I would

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm not sure what my expectations were to be honest.

I didn't expect it to be as social as it is, and I love that. I get messed around a lot more than I ever have been on any other site, and that's not much fun.

In terms of finding what I'm looking for, well that's not happened. I suspect I'll look elsewhere for my elusive FBs and use this site more for the social aspect.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I've had fun but discovered that alot of single guys talk a good game but turn out to be incredibly selfish!!

Have also had one quite recently who, despite knowing I was very vanilla, abused that & left me with some bruises.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I've had fun but discovered that alot of single guys talk a good game but turn out to be incredibly selfish!!

Have also had one quite recently who, despite knowing I was very vanilla, abused that & left me with some bruises. "

Sorry to read that. Hope you are ok. Big hugs.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I've had fun but discovered that alot of single guys talk a good game but turn out to be incredibly selfish!!

Have also had one quite recently who, despite knowing I was very vanilla, abused that & left me with some bruises.

Sorry to read that. Hope you are ok. Big hugs."

Thank you so much xx

He had the kind of look on his face that made me not want to make a fuss! I actually wanted to punch him in the face, but chose not to make it worse or string it out any longer!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I joined to get some decent sex and fufil my sexual desires. All i get is men who send really lame/arrogant/insensitive messages and meets that end up ghosting before and afterwards. Lasting 40 seconds with a hand job doesn't constitute to good sex in my eyes. So fab definitely hasn't met my expectations. However i learnt a lot of sex terminology like figging

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I came on with no expectations because these things won't necessarily work out. I did have hopes though and we are getting closer to meeting them.

What has exceeded my expectations is how lovely some of the people we have/will meet are. I think we have been very fortunate.

Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must confess, I came here for purely sexual reasons and maybe definitely a confidence boost.

But I’ve met some wonderful pals on here who’ve made sure my fab experience has been better than I hoped.

11/10- would visit again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fab-min sucks a bit. But overall our expectations have been smashed to bits. We’ve been brought to a totally new reality. A very positive and confidence inducing this swinging thing is, for us at least.

Long may it last

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By *ass and kinkWoman
over a year ago

kinxville

Its absolutely exceeded my expectations over and over again, but lately I'm finding it such a disappointment ,its probably my own fault because my expectations are high and I cannot find anyone who excites me with anything new ...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I can honestly say my expectations since setting up this profile have been well and truly surpassed - but that is possibly because my expectations were low bordering on the negative beforehand.

I honestly didn't think people would want to meet me, let alone anything else. Didn't expect to find people (of both genders) who I could genuinely call friends, and didn't expect I would still be here three and a half years later.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I joined to have a look and see what my fb was spending so much time on, 9 months later and I spend more time than him on here and am enjoying some serious road trips with socials and clubs being my current interest, I have things I want to try and skills to indulge in with lots of people on my want to meet list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came on here to have some fun and to fulfil some unmet desires with interesting people. Having been in the scene before with my ex-wife I had an expectation of what it would be like but it’s way harder as a single guy.

As such neither has happened so my expectations have gone through the floor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you joined you may have had expectations about what joining Fab would be like or what you wanted to achieve by joining.

Has this come to fruition? Have you added more things to the ‘to-do’ list?

When i joined i wanted to explore the unicorn niche. I achieved that and now my tastes have changed.

I’d like to hear others opinions and experiences please

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i think i have been very realistic about the whole thing i view it as a website where you can hopefully meet people and for me that has been the reality its all part of life in the 21st century the internet is our meeting point

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By *antrelWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham/Cardiff

"I've had fun but discovered that alot of single guys talk a good game but turn out to be incredibly selfish!!

Have also had one quite recently who, despite knowing I was very vanilla, abused that & left me with some bruises.

Sorry to read that. Hope you are ok. Big hugs.

Thank you so much xx

He had the kind of look on his face that made me not want to make a fuss! I actually wanted to punch him in the face, but chose not to make it worse or string it out any longer! "

That sounds like an awful experience! I’m really sorry to read that you went through that, I hope you’re OK x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said no the last time but have since thought about this and it actually has matched my expectations. I've had meets, socials and made some great friends. Those things weren't exactly expected when I joined but I had hoped for them and am lucky that I've had a good time so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely surpassed my sexualy experiences, sexuality, body confidence etc have completely sored and I have had sooo much fun

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I joined to 'find myself' whatever that meant. I guess at the time, having come out of a sexless relationship, it meant to realise I was indeed a sexual being.

It's actually opened up a whole new reality within myself - psychologically, emotionally and physically. I've learned so much more about myself (and I thought I knew myself pretty well before) and my wants, desires and needs, and I've met some amazing people along the way too.

It's been a Wow! moment, far exceeding my expectations. It's changed my life forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined to 'find myself' whatever that meant. I guess at the time, having come out of a sexless relationship, it meant to realise I was indeed a sexual being.

It's been a Wow! moment, far exceeding my expectations. It's changed my life forever."
well how sex evaded you is a conundrum but life throws up its eccentricities and of course so do relationships, this meeting point has worked for you

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Being a single fella I knew it wouldn't be easy.

But over time I've had some awesome meets, experienced great things and hopefully there's more to come.

So yes, it's everything I thought it would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had no expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I migrated to fab from another site, I was already immersed in the community so I had no expectations.

But I didn't expect to find so many people I class as close friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I migrated to fab from another site, I was already immersed in the community so I had no expectations.

But I didn't expect to find so many people I class as close friends. "
thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have reduced my expectations in the face of reality...

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By *D900Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Been on here for about 18 months now & it's been a great journey so far & we have learnt so much from our meets. We normally go for a social first to check that we all get along & some attraction is there & then arrange the naughty stuff. We've made some great friends & had some amazing experiences! One couple in particular have become really close friends & we've had a lot of fantastic meets with them including our first party which we will both never forget,Desi in particular! More meetings to plan & hopefully more friends to make!

Dave.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I didn’t have any expectations so my entire fab experience has been literally fucking awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expected tumble. Got tumble. Presuming I didnt really get my profile right. Was I missing a cock pic?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

When I joined I had high expectations tbh, which in most ways were met. It didn't take me long to lower them though ~ less disappointment that way!

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I've had fun but discovered that alot of single guys talk a good game but turn out to be incredibly selfish!!

Have also had one quite recently who, despite knowing I was very vanilla, abused that & left me with some bruises.

Sorry to read that. Hope you are ok. Big hugs.

Thank you so much xx

He had the kind of look on his face that made me not want to make a fuss! I actually wanted to punch him in the face, but chose not to make it worse or string it out any longer!

That sounds like an awful experience! I’m really sorry to read that you went through that, I hope you’re OK x"

Thank you so much. I'm not upset or distressed by it..just pissed off with him!! Ahh well..live & learn xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very new and have no expectations but loving it so far.

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