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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?"

I often wonder the same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?"

Maybe it's just that they like your figure and assume your face matches xxx

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Whatever happened to Gorgeous?

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

I’ve never had that question to worry about lol

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha "

That's brilliant lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It IS meaningless...generally a cut and paste message that’s sent to every female within a 200 mile radius...don’t take it personally and don’t take offence...take everything on here with a huge pinch of salt....just have fun and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I just disregard those type of compliments, unless I’ve actually sent a face pic or have one public then it’s just like yeah I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called a 'I want to get in your pants message' not something I send, I'm a good lad me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better we assume your gorgeous than call you ugly before you reject us no?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha "

Same, but I say hippo!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I think exactly the same. Some men will say anything to get inside a woman's knickers.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"I think exactly the same. Some men will say anything to get inside a woman's knickers. "

OMG you are gorgeous

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I say I fell out the ugly tree, hit every branch on the way down and landed on my face x

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yeah I just disregard those type of compliments, unless I’ve actually sent a face pic or have one public then it’s just like yeah I know "

Haha this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called they want you to drop your knickers, sweetie, so will flatter you in their attempts to empty their balls.

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"Whatever happened to Gorgeous?"

He got a ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think exactly the same. Some men will say anything to get inside a woman's knickers. "
yep agree with you too many men will say anything to get what they want nothing wrong with paying a compliment etc but most of the time it's mostly crude and this ruins it for those genuine ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever happened to Gorgeous?

He got a ban"

But he came back ?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Silhouettes almost get the same but if someone finds you right and you like them, it's a good starting point.

Don't take everything here too seriously, just take the steps that seem right, one at a time.

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I just find it bizarre. Maybe they think my butt is gorgeous and don't actually care what my face looks like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?"

Yep - I get emails telling me what a great body I have and how my profile stood out. Ffs!!

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"Whatever happened to Gorgeous?

He got a ban

But he came back ?"

He did but they got wind of it and banned that profile too

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"I just find it bizarre. Maybe they think my butt is gorgeous and don't actually care what my face looks like lol"

You have a face???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever happened to Gorgeous?

He got a ban

But he came back ?

He did but they got wind of it and banned that profile too"

Oh ay. I kinda liked him.

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough


"I just find it bizarre. Maybe they think my butt is gorgeous and don't actually care what my face looks like lol

You have a face??? "

Somewhere on my body lol

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Yep, so many guys seem to think a woman will drop her knickers in response to an empty, generic compliment. It sometimes feels like they don't credit us with any intelligence at all

I generally just completely ignore those kinds of messages.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"I just find it bizarre. Maybe they think my butt is gorgeous and don't actually care what my face looks like lol

You have a face???

Somewhere on my body lol"

Show off x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No you're not over thinking, you're totally right. I get messages like that and just go Zzzzzzzzzz

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I just take all compliments as being insincere. Even after I have shown them a face pic. I believe very little I am told on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re not overthinking this OP. A compliment can’t be worth anything if it can’t be sincere.

I say you upload a picture of a member of the Addams family so people either don’t use the compliment so loosely or you can ask them if they’re referring to said member of the Adams family when they do.

- ooops I’ve overthought this

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I think exactly the same. Some men will say anything to get inside a woman's knickers.

OMG you are gorgeous "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha "

You’re wearing Kukuro! It’s on my list to get! It’s stunning!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

To be honest, OP, from what is on show in your gallery I would also say you look extremely nice. Luke

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think every woman on here get the 'WOW you are Stunning message' at some point, sorry to burst your bubble, but we all get them and they are meaningless!

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"Whatever happened to Gorgeous?

He got a ban

But he came back ?

He did but they got wind of it and banned that profile too

Oh ay. I kinda liked him. "

He was good fun and livened up the forums. Shame he’s gone really

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By *inxy300Woman
over a year ago

nottinghamshire


"It IS meaningless...generally a cut and paste message that’s sent to every female within a 200 mile radius...don’t take it personally and don’t take offence...take everything on here with a huge pinch of salt....just have fun and good luck "

Everything she just said

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Totally with you on that. It’s a delete message. They’re just full of shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?"

I think someone can have a gorgeous body. They can have a gorgeous bum. They can have a gorgeous face and, indeed, many other parts.

Gorgeous is not limited to your face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I just disregard those type of compliments, unless I’ve actually sent a face pic or have one public then it’s just like yeah I know "

Well when it was public the other day, guess what, you are gorgeous

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough


"To be honest, OP, from what is on show in your gallery I would also say you look extremely nice. Luke "

Awww thanks but would a face like Lurch put you off lol

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

You’re wearing Kukuro! It’s on my list to get! It’s stunning! "

Haha a women with taste (and too much money haha) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha "

You are bloody gorgeous though so technically they're not wrong

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?

I think someone can have a gorgeous body. They can have a gorgeous bum. They can have a gorgeous face and, indeed, many other parts.

Gorgeous is not limited to your face."

This is true.

It does help if you dont look like a cross between Boris Johnson and Shrek above the neck though.

And that's just the women of course.....

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to chat with a lady on another app who was told this all the time and she didn't even have a picture!

She once refused to give a guy her phone number and he replied with..

"I would of loved you with all my heart" he didn't even see her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

You’re wearing Kukuro! It’s on my list to get! It’s stunning!

Haha a women with taste (and too much money haha) x"

Their underwear range is stunning!

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?"

Most guys are not looking at the mantle piece while poking the fire

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

You are bloody gorgeous though so technically they're not wrong "

Awww as are you. You’re a dream

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

You’re wearing Kukuro! It’s on my list to get! It’s stunning!

Haha a women with taste (and too much money haha) x

Their underwear range is stunning! "

And insanely expensive but I can’t resist

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Yes must be copy and paste as I get it all the time. I get them begging me to sleep with them without asking for a face photo. Then they ask if they're my type when all they show is cock only photo. Meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

You’re wearing Kukuro! It’s on my list to get! It’s stunning!

Haha a women with taste (and too much money haha) x

Their underwear range is stunning!

And insanely expensive but I can’t resist "

And you look stunning. Unfortunately my kids take up most of my cash , primary undies for moi

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

You’re wearing Kukuro! It’s on my list to get! It’s stunning!

Haha a women with taste (and too much money haha) x

Their underwear range is stunning!

And insanely expensive but I can’t resist "

Where can you get thd cheap knock off versions? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

You’re wearing Kukuro! It’s on my list to get! It’s stunning!

Haha a women with taste (and too much money haha) x

Their underwear range is stunning!

And insanely expensive but I can’t resist

Where can you get thd cheap knock off versions? Lol "

Lots of places do very similar, not as good quality but for wearing occasionally will do the trick

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

i get these messages too, except i have no public pics at all, plenty pics loaded up and set to private but it amazes me how often those messages are there. Automatic delete every time x

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

They must be platinum members. Platinum members can see the part of the pics that you cropped out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a man with no pics is chatting with a woman for 2mins and asks her is she would have sex with him.

Wtf are they thinking.

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

You’re wearing Kukuro! It’s on my list to get! It’s stunning!

Haha a women with taste (and too much money haha) x

Their underwear range is stunning!

And insanely expensive but I can’t resist

And you look stunning. Unfortunately my kids take up most of my cash , primary undies for moi "

Ah mines grown up now. But I still can’t really justify the cost ha x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"To be honest, OP, from what is on show in your gallery I would also say you look extremely nice. Luke

Awww thanks but would a face like Lurch put you off lol"

Not surprisingly I'd prefer you to look like Kelly Brook than Bernard Manning, but my point is you have enough shown in your gallery for the term "gorgeous" to be completely legit. If you then displayed a face that looks like Pauline ftom The League of Gentlemen then I'm sure we'd take that into consideration, but I doubt that's the case and it it doesn't change the fact that the rest of you is top notch and that's all we can see. I personally think somebody telling you that you ate gorgeous is completely justified on given visuals.

That's not to say that copy/pasters have anything of value to offer, but I personally can imagine at least some people write it because they mean it and I don't blame them.

If you are worried that you might look like Lurch then if you like PM me a face pic and I'll give you my opinion on the complete works.

Luke

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I always think this too!! I think it makes men seem desperate..that they'd have you whatever you look like! I KNOW I'm not gorgeous. I'm a realist & don't need the phoney ott flattery!!

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

You should reply saying "omg thank you! No one has said that to me since the accident..."

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"You should reply saying "omg thank you! No one has said that to me since the accident...""

Pmsl!!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?"

I’m sure you’d block and delete if they called you Quasimodo in their first message hence the gorgeous comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without sounding funny i think m9st men message the same thing to anyone with a fanny

I'm gay and only have one leg puc up showing on my profile and i get the same too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here.

I get told I am stunning/beautiful/gorgeous/best looking woman on fabs, bla bla bla.

I delete them as it is clearly a C&P

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By *tticusukMan
over a year ago

Formby


"Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?"

Maybe they find beauty in the fact that you can express yourself sexually.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Same here.

I get told I am stunning/beautiful/gorgeous/best looking woman on fabs, bla bla bla.

I delete them as it is clearly a C&P"

I think you look absolutely stunning, Ivy, and there's no copying and pasting going on here.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?"

Nope it's silly. Unlikely to be engaging at all

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Same here.

I get told I am stunning/beautiful/gorgeous/best looking woman on fabs, bla bla bla.

I delete them as it is clearly a C&P"

Well you're pics are stunning, there's no disputing that!

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By *tticusukMan
over a year ago

Formby


"Same here.

I get told I am stunning/beautiful/gorgeous/best looking woman on fabs, bla bla bla.

I delete them as it is clearly a C&P"

Would you rather message saying, your bra’s to small and your corset should be tighter?

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Same here.

I get told I am stunning/beautiful/gorgeous/best looking woman on fabs, bla bla bla.

I delete them as it is clearly a C&P

Would you rather message saying, your bra’s to small and your corset should be tighter? "

Haha you been looking at my pics?

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Everyone is beautiful !!!

Apart from me when I wake up looking like Ronald McDonald with smudged makeup !! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?"
you are putting too much thought into it its just a compliment or a wish on the person who said its behalf that you are, its conversation but having said that are you gorgeous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should reply saying "omg thank you! No one has said that to me since the accident...""

I just pissed myself reading that... I will try this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my mate created a profile on fab, she got messages about how sexy and beautiful she was. She had nearly nothing in her profile and no picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my mate created a profile on fab, she got messages about how sexy and beautiful she was. She had nearly nothing in her profile and no picture.

"
its weird but i get messages like this all the time but i take it on the chin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my mate created a profile on fab, she got messages about how sexy and beautiful she was. She had nearly nothing in her profile and no picture.

its weird but i get messages like this all the time but i take it on the chin "

I don't envy you all the attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my mate created a profile on fab, she got messages about how sexy and beautiful she was. She had nearly nothing in her profile and no picture.

its weird but i get messages like this all the time but i take it on the chin

I don't envy you all the attention "
i can see how you wouldn't

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

Because people will tell you anything on here to get in your knickers I just laugh and delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because people will tell you anything on here to get in your knickers I just laugh and delete. "
damn it didn't work then........ back to drawing board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because people will tell you anything on here to get in your knickers I just laugh and delete. "

Exactly this. Do they not realise we’ve heard it a million times on here already and they’re not original.

I’ve noticed some men do it on the forums too, so bloody cringey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because people will tell you anything on here to get in your knickers I just laugh and delete.

Exactly this. Do they not realise we’ve heard it a million times on here already and they’re not original.

I’ve noticed some men do it on the forums too, so bloody cringey "

Haha all the time, it's embarrassing how some guys grovel on here in a hope of a sniff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha "

Love the idea of the human with a moose head lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?

Maybe it's just that they like your figure and assume your face matches xxx"

And they have special software that can see through flashes

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

Love the idea of the human with a moose head lol"

Wanna see my moose pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've probably messaged about 3 women in a year so probably not beat placed to comment here but like said above there are loads of arse licking compliments on the forum blatantly aimed to flatter someone into bed.

Intrigued to know what a guy is supposed to say to a pictureless profile tho on here. There are loads without face pics or body pics and with minimal bios which often have multiple veris (often in double figures). Quite often demanding a face pic just to get a response. Personally I just assume they're fake and move on as even if they are legit it's defo double standards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just believe that you are. Gorgeous on the inside, gorgeous on the outside.

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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago

In The Gym


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha "

You are gorgeous though. I've seen for myself! The moose pic sounds funny though! Lol

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

Love the idea of the human with a moose head lol

Wanna see my moose pic?"

I do! Curious now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should reply saying "omg thank you! No one has said that to me since the accident...""

excellent come back!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's meaningless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone woman who replied on this thread has more or less said its pointless to tell them they look good, even thought half of them upload images of them trying to...look good.

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

Love the idea of the human with a moose head lol

Wanna see my moose pic?

I do! Curious now "

I wanna see it lol

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough


"

Everyone woman who replied on this thread has more or less said its pointless to tell them they look good, even thought half of them upload images of them trying to...look good.

"

It's nice when someone says great pics or you look great but when they say you're gorgeous/beautiful/pretty or whatever it comes off really false. How can anyone know that someone is pretty without seeing their face? They're just assuming or praying that I'm more Kelly Brooks less Fester Adams lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because too many guys on here kiss ass to get a meet, even if they don't find the lady in question attractive (there opinion) and to there taste **some** guys on here will say anything to get a meet.

I would only meet someone on here that I would consider to be a long term partner...my real life standards and desires are the same as they are on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Everyone woman who replied on this thread has more or less said its pointless to tell them they look good, even thought half of them upload images of them trying to...look good.

It's nice when someone says great pics or you look great but when they say you're gorgeous/beautiful/pretty or whatever it comes off really false. How can anyone know that someone is pretty without seeing their face? They're just assuming or praying that I'm more Kelly Brooks less Fester Adams lol"

Haha i get it but isnt beauty in the eye of the beholder & all that malarkey. So if they say you look amazing, gorgeous, stunning...maybe they just mean that what ever you got on show looks all those things to them? Some folks are easily pleased

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By *iglittleoneMan
over a year ago

B76 is home

In my opinion a woman doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous it's down to sex appeal whether it be eyes,hair,boobs,legs,clothes it can be anything

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"

Everyone woman who replied on this thread has more or less said its pointless to tell them they look good, even thought half of them upload images of them trying to...look good.

"

Not really. It's more, the compliments you get on here mean nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just an icebreaker really. I’ve made effort in an initial message and been ignored too many tines. That can affect your creativity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s just an icebreaker really. I’ve made effort in an initial message and been ignored too many tines. That can affect your creativity "

Exactly! You know how much good material we waste on this bloody site & all we get is this snotty nose attitude of ‘its not good enough’ or ‘it don’t mean nothing to me’ ffs

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border


"Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?"

You’re putting way too much thought into it except that you are what people are saying it’s lovely to get a compliment you should enjoy them and smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I can see from your profile pic, nice ass and tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s just an icebreaker really. I’ve made effort in an initial message and been ignored too many tines. That can affect your creativity

Exactly! You know how much good material we waste on this bloody site & all we get is this snotty nose attitude of ‘its not good enough’ or ‘it don’t mean nothing to me’ ffs

"

It wasn’t a complaint

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

Everyone woman who replied on this thread has more or less said its pointless to tell them they look good, even thought half of them upload images of them trying to...look good.

"

That's not so. What I believe most are saying, and certainly what I say, is that the compliments we get when we are showing nothing of ourselves are so insincere it's ridiculous. And I really mean showing nothing, I've received messages saying how gorgeous I am when I have zero pictures visible.

I also receive messages saying how great my profile is and then they go on to ask or say things I've specifically said I don't like, revealing that that haven't even read the first few lines.

All we're saying is treat us with respect, stop the scattergun C&P approach to messages.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s just an icebreaker really. I’ve made effort in an initial message and been ignored too many tines. That can affect your creativity

Exactly! You know how much good material we waste on this bloody site & all we get is this snotty nose attitude of ‘its not good enough’ or ‘it don’t mean nothing to me’ ffs

"

Shrug. I was being called the most stunningly beautiful woman on Fab when I had nothing but an avatar. You get jaded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the event of no pics then saying it would be weird, but some men think your body is gorgeous and someone tried to compliment it.

I find it's very difficult to gain a response from most women on here. It's hard to gauge what they want from a first message.

Some want polite conversation, about yourself etc,

Some like humour,

Some like filth.

Determining which each individual wants seems tough.

Also, I've noticed women with very naughty profiles wondering why men get filthy with them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're even thinking about this you're overthinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're even thinking about this you're overthinking "

I saw there were words you typed but I couldn't take my eyes off that bum.

Am I allowed to say its gorgeous?

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

Love the idea of the human with a moose head lol

Wanna see my moose pic?

I do! Curious now

I wanna see it lol"

I can’t message you. Filters

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough


"Hahaha. I ask myself the same question. I tell them I look like a moose. They say oh no surely not ... I have a pic especially for this purpose. Human with a moose head haha

Love the idea of the human with a moose head lol

Wanna see my moose pic?

I do! Curious now

I wanna see it lol

I can’t message you. Filters "

Doh! Lol

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Moose been sent to anyone who asked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same here.

I get told I am stunning/beautiful/gorgeous/best looking woman on fabs, bla bla bla.

I delete them as it is clearly a C&P

Would you rather message saying, your bra’s to small and your corset should be tighter? "

You can pay a compliment without pretending to have seen my face lol.

Nice figure, great lingerie etc are just fine, or actually reading my profile and trying to make conversation.

Oh, and if my corsets got any tighter I would probably black out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men on here will say anything for a shag.

If no photos on profile I think the worst

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Ok, so my main profile doesn't show any face photos and yet I get so many messages telling me how gorgeous and sexy I am. I could look like a member of the addams family for all anyone knows and yet they still call me gorgeous. I don't get it and it just feels so meaningless. Am I putting too much thought into this?"

From someone that looks like uncle Fester, I'm hopelessly attracted to the weird and wonderful.

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