FabSwingers.com forum: Don’t you hate it when...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

... someone on here is just so f*cking hot you can’t resist! But they’re ages away and you’re out their age range.

Sad face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... someone on here is just so f*cking hot you can’t resist! But they’re ages away and you’re out their age range.

Sad face."

Situation normal!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Happens all the time, the distance bit x

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Happens all the time, the distance bit x"

Distance, age, hates tea, can't stand biscuits...

Damn you Fab, damn you!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

The distance is more of a pain.

So many friends are so far away.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

It's a pain when you spend the night at a club fucking with someone , then go to add them on here and you can't because you the wrong sex or to old !! I was good enough for you to Fuck, I will inform them the next time they think they are going to climb aboard!! X

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Happens all the time....well unless you're cheeky enough to say something in the threads and then they message you anyway, it's been working for me up to now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... someone on here is just so f*cking hot you can’t resist! But they’re ages away and you’re out their age range.

Sad face."

I haven't seen my equivalent to someone so hot I can't resist on here, unfortunately as of yet.

But no, I don't get excited enough to be disappointed on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens all the time, the distance bit x

Distance, age, hates tea, can't stand biscuits...

Damn you Fab, damn you! "

I keep apologising for the tea and biscuits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s never happened to me

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By *dinSon99Man
over a year ago

East Northants

Message any way!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Happens all the time, the distance bit x

Distance, age, hates tea, can't stand biscuits...

Damn you Fab, damn you! "

I like biscuits, tea is ok I suppose. Just saying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens all the time....well unless you're cheeky enough to say something in the threads and then they message you anyway, it's been working for me up to now

This and if they haven't got any filters up DM them

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Happens all the time, the distance bit x

Distance, age, hates tea, can't stand biscuits...

Damn you Fab, damn you!

I keep apologising for the tea and biscuits

It's fine. You make up for it in other ways

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

"Message any way!"

Yes this. I was pleasantly surprised when something amazing ended up happening despite distance. Now I'm pushing my luck hoping for a 2nd round

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Distance is only an issue if you make it one, if they were that great I would find a way, it may take time and planning but would think it worth it

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Happens all the time, the distance bit x

Distance, age, hates tea, can't stand biscuits...

Damn you Fab, damn you!

I like biscuits, tea is ok I suppose. Just saying x

That's fine, at least you didn't say tea is evil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t allow myself to get excited until we’re communicating off the site. If I can’t message them because of an age restriction then they’re not even a consideration & if it’s just a matter of them being ‘ages’ away, I’d travel an age or two for something worthwhile.

Hate is such a strong emotion, not worth investing in this situation

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Happens all the time....well unless you're cheeky enough to say something in the threads and then they message you anyway, it's been working for me up to now

This and if they haven't got any filters up DM them

They've had their filters up so usually a cheeky message in the threads is all it needs.....I know very well why my kind is often filtered out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Message any way!"

You cannot message if the filters do their jobs right. Can you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gotten a lot more chat out the forums from girls that live hundreds of miles away than I ever got from girls close to me!

I'm actually considering moving!

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

There's quite a few forum dwellers I'd give my right bollock to meet up with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens all the time, the distance bit x

Distance, age, hates tea, can't stand biscuits...

Damn you Fab, damn you! "

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's quite a few forum dwellers I'd give my right bollock to meet up with.

Would you get a false bollock to replace the right one or just leave the sack dangling in an odd sort of way?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Happens all the time, the distance bit x

Distance, age, hates tea, can't stand biscuits...

Damn you Fab, damn you!

Definitely this

The ones who can't stand marmite too!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes, we find this frustrating. The north east seems to have a distinct lack of swingers that catch our eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes happens a lot

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By *dinSon99Man
over a year ago

East Northants

"Message any way!

You cannot message if the filters do their jobs right. Can you? "

Do you know that their filters will screen you out due to distance?

I’ve had messages from people miles & miles away.

Gotta be worth a shot, what’s the downside?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens all the time....well unless you're cheeky enough to say something in the threads and then they message you anyway, it's been working for me up to now

This and if they haven't got any filters up DM them

They've had their filters up so usually a cheeky message in the threads is all it needs.....I know very well why my kind is often filtered out

I have no filters up. If someone is kind enough to want to message then let them do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens all the time, the distance bit x

Distance, age, hates tea, can't stand biscuits...

Damn you Fab, damn you!

Definitely this

The ones who can't stand marmite too!

I don't like marmite either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Happens all the time....well unless you're cheeky enough to say something in the threads and then they message you anyway, it's been working for me up to now

This and if they haven't got any filters up DM them

They've had their filters up so usually a cheeky message in the threads is all it needs.....I know very well why my kind is often filtered out

I have no filters up. If someone is kind enough to want to message then let them do so

If you’re not too busy!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Happens all the time....well unless you're cheeky enough to say something in the threads and then they message you anyway, it's been working for me up to now

This and if they haven't got any filters up DM them

They've had their filters up so usually a cheeky message in the threads is all it needs.....I know very well why my kind is often filtered out

I have no filters up. If someone is kind enough to want to message then let them do so

I have my male filter up just to stop the dick pics....I can see one any time I like just by looking down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's quite a few forum dwellers I'd give my right bollock to meet up with.

Do you hold your right one in higher regard than your left?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age no but definitely distance!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Its the special Fab software.

Keeps you hunting.

They live just around the corner really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens all the time....well unless you're cheeky enough to say something in the threads and then they message you anyway, it's been working for me up to now

This and if they haven't got any filters up DM them

They've had their filters up so usually a cheeky message in the threads is all it needs.....I know very well why my kind is often filtered out

I have no filters up. If someone is kind enough to want to message then let them do so

I have my male filter up just to stop the dick pics....I can see one any time I like just by looking down

Now you are just showing off

I like the anticipation of is it going to be eye watering, gag inducing (sick not tonsil tickling), something that should be in a medical textbook or on the rare occasion something not too bad to look at

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Happens all the time....well unless you're cheeky enough to say something in the threads and then they message you anyway, it's been working for me up to now

This and if they haven't got any filters up DM them

They've had their filters up so usually a cheeky message in the threads is all it needs.....I know very well why my kind is often filtered out

I have no filters up. If someone is kind enough to want to message then let them do so

I have my male filter up just to stop the dick pics....I can see one any time I like just by looking down

Now you are just showing off

Erm....it was commented on over the weekend having been seen on CCTV

I wasn't unhappy with the remarks but dont see it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we should have a special FAB charabang that loops around the country every weekend to make it easier to get to all the people we want to meet who are miles away.

That or ask Yo Sushi to install a massive conveyor belt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh a lot of people are outta my range! Doesn’t mean I can’t not put them on the hotlist & just appreciate what they post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... someone on here is just so f*cking hot you can’t resist! But they’re ages away and you’re out their age range.

Sad face."
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Surely if you are out of their age range,it doesn't matter how far away or how close they are

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"... someone on here is just so f*cking hot you can’t resist! But they’re ages away and you’re out their age range.

Sad face."

Always , but been lucky to catch one ladies attention a while ago and she messaged me and we've seen eachother many times since

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

There is one on here who is stunning and in my local are think I am a year out of her age range I would love to meet she is sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"... someone on here is just so f*cking hot you can’t resist! But they’re ages away and you’re out their age range.

Sad face..

Surely if you are out of their age range,it doesn't matter how far away or how close they are

That is a very, very good point!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Age no but definitely distance!"

Distance is definitely a passion killer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep it seems all the hot guys are over 75 miles away.

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

If you’re interesting enough age and distance can be overcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd bide my time, book a flight to Scotland, book a hotel room for the weekend and invite her over...

...well, it's worked so far! lol

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Yep it seems all the hot guys are over 75 miles away."

And many the hot ladies are down south.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age no but definitely distance!"

Yes your bloody miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men put pictures up which clearly show it isnt their penis??

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Happens to me all the time. Sorry everyone!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"If you’re interesting enough age and distance can be overcome

Curious as to how you can overcome age if filters prevent you from messaging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens all the time, the distance bit x

Distance, age, hates tea, can't stand biscuits...

Damn you Fab, damn you!

Definitely this

The ones who can't stand marmite too!

That too

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

"If you’re interesting enough age and distance can be overcome

Curious as to how you can overcome age if filters prevent you from messaging?"

If you see someone on a forum post that’s out of your preferred age range but seems interesting there’s nothing to stop you messaging them.

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

When someone looks at your profile & doesn’t wink or message but has a go at you when you look at their profile back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standard thing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... someone on here is just so f*cking hot you can’t resist! But they’re ages away and you’re out their age range.

Sad face."

Until you said about age range I hoped you meant me..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The nicest ones are always far away.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’re interesting enough age and distance can be overcome

Curious as to how you can overcome age if filters prevent you from messaging?

If you see someone on a forum post that’s out of your preferred age range but seems interesting there’s nothing to stop you messaging them. "

You cant message them if you are out of their age range

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If you wrote this in a book, no one would believe you.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

"... someone on here is just so f*cking hot you can’t resist! But they’re ages away and you’re out their age range.

Sad face.

Until you said about age range I hoped you meant me..lol"

You are so out of my league! Your on my hot list and I am always stunned by your beauty, I have even messaged you before as I think your stunning, sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... someone on here is just so f*cking hot you can’t resist! But they’re ages away and you’re out their age range.

Sad face.

Until you said about age range I hoped you meant me..lol

You are so out of my league! Your on my hot list and I am always stunned by your beauty, I have even messaged you before as I think your stunning, sorry x "

Aww thank you. Wish I could see it tho

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I've gotten a lot more chat out the forums from girls that live hundreds of miles away than I ever got from girls close to me!

I'm actually considering moving!"

I heard Manchester is nice this time of the year

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"If you’re interesting enough age and distance can be overcome

Curious as to how you can overcome age if filters prevent you from messaging?

If you see someone on a forum post that’s out of your preferred age range but seems interesting there’s nothing to stop you messaging them. "

We do this, but it's hard to overcome the distance around work and family etc. We're chatting with some abs gorgeous guys but who are eons away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes being far away is a good thing. This logic is completely fucked up but the only time I’d entertain having a one off fuck is if the person is miles away. Easier to pretend distance is the issue rather than them simply not wanting to see you again. I’d never agree to a one off with someone local. Had one last year with a guy in Oxford which I believe is just over two hours drive away although he does still ask on WhatsApp to meet again, he doesn’t like anything in his bum though which ruins things for me.

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

"If you’re interesting enough age and distance can be overcome

Curious as to how you can overcome age if filters prevent you from messaging?

If you see someone on a forum post that’s out of your preferred age range but seems interesting there’s nothing to stop you messaging them.

You cant message them if you are out of their age range"

I meant that the forums are your opportunity to attract those that have the filters on.

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over a year ago

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Don't you just love it when you see the lady of your dreams, lives not too far away, has a great sense of humour, ages are a fit, sexy as hell and an amazing personality?

I haven't found her yet, but.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens all the time....well unless you're cheeky enough to say something in the threads and then they message you anyway, it's been working for me up to now

This and if they haven't got any filters up DM them

They've had their filters up so usually a cheeky message in the threads is all it needs.....I know very well why my kind is often filtered out

I have no filters up. If someone is kind enough to want to message then let them do so

If you’re not too busy!

I do have to pretend to do some work occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If something’s worth having even if it’s just for a one time experience then distance shouldn’t be a problem. Life’s too short to limit yourself from having experiences.

I’ve driven to Ikea many a time just to eat meatballs and I fucking hate driving to Cardiff, but I do it, for the meatballs

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"... someone on here is just so f*cking hot you can’t resist! But they’re ages away and you’re out their age range.

Sad face."

There's nobody on here I can't resist. I have self control. But I take your point. There are some extraordinary people on here I would live to meet but probably never will and it does make me a little bit sad. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a job that gives me a fuel card so I had unlimited fuel. Actually my uncle works for British transport police and he gets all his train tickets free. Wonder if that can be passed to family members, anyone know? I’ll have to ask him when I see him.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"If something’s worth having even if it’s just for a one time experience then distance shouldn’t be a problem. Life’s too short to limit yourself from having experiences.

I’ve driven to Ikea many a time just to eat meatballs and I fucking hate driving to Cardiff, but I do it, for the meatballs

You know you can buy the meatballs, gravy and lingonberry jam to take home with you to have any time you like?

Now I need to go to IKEA again.....thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If something’s worth having even if it’s just for a one time experience then distance shouldn’t be a problem. Life’s too short to limit yourself from having experiences.

I’ve driven to Ikea many a time just to eat meatballs and I fucking hate driving to Cardiff, but I do it, for the meatballs

You know you can buy the meatballs, gravy and lingonberry jam to take home with you to have any time you like?

Now I need to go to IKEA again.....thanks

Yeah I get the frozen ones to bring home but still like having them there, the gravy you need to put cream in it and I wouldn’t eat it if I prepared it myself cos I don’t like cream! Makes no sense I know!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"If something’s worth having even if it’s just for a one time experience then distance shouldn’t be a problem. Life’s too short to limit yourself from having experiences.

I’ve driven to Ikea many a time just to eat meatballs and I fucking hate driving to Cardiff, but I do it, for the meatballs

You know you can buy the meatballs, gravy and lingonberry jam to take home with you to have any time you like?

Now I need to go to IKEA again.....thanks

Those powdered sachets of the cream sauce are a bloody nightmare to make. #lumpycrap

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