FabSwingers.com forum: Friends list

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what’s the average/ideal amount of friends to have on your list?

I have 5 but obviously I’m a new member, do some people have 100s?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 21

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've got about 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 2, tend not to accept friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 27 but only not met 4 of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have around 25. And no randomers either, they are either people I have met or plan too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots on mine

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By *oungnwilling_18Man
over a year ago

coventry

I have 6 I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve about 12

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

9. I’m not worth befriending it would appear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got 0 friends on mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah ok to it’s quite a low key thing.. probably best way rather than lots of ransoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 on mine but would say theres no limits on friendships op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 friends but not all the ladies I chat to are on my friends list..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 3

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have lots on my friends list. Most I've met. The ones I haven't I've either been speaking to them for ages or I plan to meet them x

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Usually only have people on our friends list that we have met so not a huge amount on there.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

16 on mine. Some I’ve met some I’d like to meet.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

5 I had a clear out before my holibobs. I chat to my fab friends on other platforms

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Slightly shocked at 25

,...blimey

A few haven't been on in a while like tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is at 21. I only friend people I chat with regularly and cull it frequently.

Am not a friend collector.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have a few; either those I have met, built a good raport with to chat occaisionally, and a few forum pen-pals (who, yes, geography aside, would love to if I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 1

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We have 9. It’s only those people we have been intimate with and staying in touch for further meets. There’s no point to virtual fiends or sharing intimate pictures with strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have more friend requests than I have friends....3/1

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

50...some I've met, some I've met just socially, some I plan to meet, some I just enjoy chatting to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had another clear out

7 now

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

I have about 30 some i have already met and others im hoping to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 50, but they're all people I've met in the club, and one I plan to meet.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I've a few not sure how many but most I've met thro clubs and socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 on mine, which is more than I thought.

I have only met one of them. Some I talk to on here all the time.

Some I would like to meet one day.

Some just because they are absolutely fantastic, warm human beings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"50...some I've met, some I've met just socially, some I plan to meet, some I just enjoy chatting to"

51?....

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"So what’s the average/ideal amount of friends to have on your list?

I have 5 but obviously I’m a new member, do some people have 100s?"

I have none and i been here just under a year. Think its personal preference about having a friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I currentlyhave 44, I regularly clear out those I dont talk to, most are club friends too

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I have quite a few, not sure how many exactly, and room for more, anyone there is there for a reason and not just randomly...as Lily said, some I've met, others I hope to meet, and others are people I just enjoy being in contact with either regularly or occasionally.

But then I'm someone that doesn't think it isn't possible to be friends with someone via the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't always depend on how long you been on the site

I've been on here over 10 years and still have zero friends.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Over 80

Yes, i'm a social person

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

17 just now. 3 are female friends.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"It doesn't always depend on how long you been on the site

I've been on here over 10 years and still have zero friends."

Why dont u have any friends on your list

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I have four on mine

Don't add many unless we've met or chatted a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

37 and met them all either socially or otherwise except 2 ladies but that’s due to distance etc

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

We only have people who we have actually met in person on out friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn’t realise I had 16 a few of them don’t even come online anymore

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 30 odd, but a few are long term absentees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 15

Mostly through forum 'add a friend' threads

I have met 2..I will have met another 4 by end May

I talk to a different subset of 4 regularly lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I currentlyhave 44, I regularly clear out those I dont talk to, most are club friends too"

44 is more than most on here, but you are stunningly gorgeous so it’s no surprise

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

On my old account I had over 300 which I dwindled down to 200 then down to 100 over time keeping only those who actually chatted to me. But I used be on the chatrooms a lot. Now if I haven't met a person and rarely speak they don't go on my friends list.

I don't have friends only pics anymore either, which keeps the requests down. There are guys who will chat to you then finally add them as friend they stop they reached their goal of seeing friends only pics. Unfriend them suddenly they message it's oh why did you unfriend.

If I want keep track of people I add them to hotlist now and I suggest to people who ask to be added as friend to hotlist me. Saves me removing them from friendslist down the line. Because I will tell you fab needs a check box for mass deletion of people on because removing them individually is a royal pain in the ass the page refreshes and have to scroll down to the next ones. Tick tick tick delete would work so well. Accidental deletes happen while individually deleting people so makes little difference when mass deleting. Accidents happen if it's important they can message asking about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 22. Only 2 that I've not met but have spoke to lots

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

Is there somewhere that gives you a total number of friends you have? Or do you have to count them? We have too many to count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just counted, I have 24!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cull mine all the time. I have 9, people i want to meet or have and would again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just counted and only have 16 which I thought was a lot!

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

"On my old account I had over 300 which I dwindled down to 200 then down to 100 over time keeping only those who actually chatted to me. But I used be on the chatrooms a lot. Now if I haven't met a person and rarely speak they don't go on my friends list.

Totally agree and I have just started using our Hotlist to it's full potential, also.

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

"Is there somewhere that gives you a total number of friends you have? Or do you have to count them? We have too many to count."

Have to count them

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over a year ago

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We only keep people we have met or plan to meet

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

More than I thought! But I don’t accept every request

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

I have 0 friends

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have 29.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 21 on mine, and I only have people I know and chat to. I regularly sort it to get rid of people I haven’t spoken to in a while.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

One, but I’m pretty sure she just added me to look at the pics. Which I don’t mind, but she could have just messaged and asked.

Not really interested in collecting a friends list though.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

More than we realised but less than we had a week ago. They are people we’ve either met or speak to regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't always depend on how long you been on the site

I've been on here over 10 years and still have zero friends.

Why dont u have any friends on your list"

Because I've never had a friend invite

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I have almost enough!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

56 a mixture of men and women. Some I’ve met sexually, some I’ve chatted to at socials and some I haven’t met yet

It gets culled every so often

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I only have 4 on my list and three of those I have known for 10 years or more

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I have almost enough! "

Almost

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"I have 15

Mostly through forum 'add a friend' threads

I have met 2..I will have met another 4 by end May

I talk to a different subset of 4 regularly lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just counted and only have 16 which I thought was a lot! "

Do you want to make it 17 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 15

Mostly through forum 'add a friend' threads

I have met 2..I will have met another 4 by end May

I talk to a different subset of 4 regularly lol

Get yourself to a social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"I have 15

Mostly through forum 'add a friend' threads

I have met 2..I will have met another 4 by end May

I talk to a different subset of 4 regularly lol

Get yourself to a social! "

You know me

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

,77

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

I have known some of them for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

",77 "

Should have 78

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 1

That many?

Wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

68.. Too many?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"68.. Too many?

May as well go for the 69 ey

Ps... didn’t mean me lol

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have 7 and have met or intend to meet all but one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13.

Eleven I've met, two I hope to.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I have a few.... And as Lily White states, a couple of them I've met, most I've met at socials, some I'd like to meet and some I just enjoy chatting to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m still a virgin when it comes to meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just 10 now; had a bit of a clear out. I realise just how private I've become these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 5 but I can't call them friends, because I never hear from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Around 5 but I can't call them friends, because I never hear from them "

Awwwwww that’s sad Mickey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently 49 and I’ve only met 6 people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19 people and a few clubs

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By *he Little Fuck MachineMan
over a year ago

Co.Antrim

I have 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got 7 on my list. Some I speak to fairly regular and would like to meet someday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"68.. Too many?

May as well go for the 69 ey

Ps... didn’t mean me lol"

Dirty boy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv got 20, used to have 45 on old profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 on mine. The only ones I haven’t met and had a laugh with are the 3 men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 19 ...which is way more than I thought.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I have one and that's the way it's staying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Around 5 but I can't call them friends, because I never hear from them

Awwwwww that’s sad Mickey"

I know right

I would have more on my friends list but some women say they only accept friends who they have met.

It's usually just a fob off though.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Ooh that crept up. I have 25. I usually have maybe a dozen or so and regularly delete those I don't interact with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 5

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Over 60.

But some don't chat to me so maybe I need to review the list.

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)

My friend list is very short but my hot list is endless

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