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What’s your age limit on here

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

So when ever I’ve come on here, I’ve always gone with the age band between 30-40.

I personally just prefer guy older than me but a few years younger doesn’t really matter.

I’ve been thinking whether I’m missing out on talking to rare gems that are 40+

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"So when ever I’ve come on here, I’ve always gone with the age band between 30-40.

I personally just prefer guy older than me but a few years younger doesn’t really matter.

I’ve been thinking whether I’m missing out on talking to rare gems that are 40+

"

No comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when ever I’ve come on here, I’ve always gone with the age band between 30-40.

I personally just prefer guy older than me but a few years younger doesn’t really matter.

I’ve been thinking whether I’m missing out on talking to rare gems that are 40+

"

Set your limit 5/10 years and leave it a month, see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is set in stone

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By *man013Man
over a year ago

Derby

As you can tell I don't have one but I go down that route as younger I don't really have a choice aha but older I prefer too have the option to see everybody and let them see me so I can judge if I'm attracted to them. Realistically my soft limit would probably be more mid 50's-60 but I don't filter as I'm used to age being used against me so I don't use it against others. If that makes sense

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Nothing is set in stone "

Fossils

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

A just a little over forty rare gem right here! ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23-63 but I tend to meet people younger than me. Only once did I meet someone older than me.

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"So when ever I’ve come on here, I’ve always gone with the age band between 30-40.

I personally just prefer guy older than me but a few years younger doesn’t really matter.

I’ve been thinking whether I’m missing out on talking to rare gems that are 40+

Set your limit 5/10 years and leave it a month, see what happens. "

Sounds like a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 to 99, I wont let a silly thing like age stop me from having a wonderful time with someone I could have the best connection with

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"A just a little over forty rare gem right here! ..."

I’m sure you are

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

18 to 70

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By *enn68Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"So when ever I’ve come on here, I’ve always gone with the age band between 30-40.

I personally just prefer guy older than me but a few years younger doesn’t really matter.

I’ve been thinking whether I’m missing out on talking to rare gems that are 40+

"

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when ever I’ve come on here, I’ve always gone with the age band between 30-40.

I personally just prefer guy older than me but a few years younger doesn’t really matter.

I’ve been thinking whether I’m missing out on talking to rare gems that are 40+

"
40+ should try them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our preference is 40+ but its not set in stone.

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"18 to 99, I wont let a silly thing like age stop me from having a wonderful time with someone I could have the best connection with "

No that’s true, I’d still like a certain limit though.

Will try 5 years plus for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when ever I’ve come on here, I’ve always gone with the age band between 30-40.

I personally just prefer guy older than me but a few years younger doesn’t really matter.

I’ve been thinking whether I’m missing out on talking to rare gems that are 40+

"

No doubt. We're totally amazing human beings

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By *pril86Woman
over a year ago

chester

Oh I love an older guy! I’ve set 34+ but do love silver foxes and bald guys

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

I’ll sit here and wait for all the 40+ awesomeness to come my way then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

75 is my upper limit.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I’ll sit here and wait for all the 40+ awesomeness to come my way then "

Apart from the quality ones do not send the messages

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We have 49 as the upper on ours but have played with slightly older so not set in stone but find if you filter it cuts down on messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have 49 as the upper on ours but have played with slightly older so not set in stone but find if you filter it cuts down on messages "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm. I like an older woman. So mainly 30-55.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

35-55, I basically set it as 10 years above/below my age when I joined. Generally I go for men my age or older though.

Ultimately I'm just not interested in anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parent.

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"I’ll sit here and wait for all the 40+ awesomeness to come my way then

Apart from the quality ones do not send the messages "

I’ve never actually been the first to message on here.

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"35-55, I basically set it as 10 years above/below my age when I joined. Generally I go for men my age or older though.

Ultimately I'm just not interested in anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parent. "

That makes sense. I think it’s more me looking for a mature chat but that doesn’t always mean that the older guys have that and most certainly doesn’t mean that the younger guys can’t carry that out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"35-55, I basically set it as 10 years above/below my age when I joined. Generally I go for men my age or older though.

Ultimately I'm just not interested in anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parent. "

Oh...I'm in your age bracket....and your local area!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

37-63

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"35-55, I basically set it as 10 years above/below my age when I joined. Generally I go for men my age or older though.

Ultimately I'm just not interested in anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parent.

Oh...I'm in your age bracket....and your local area! "

Send her a message Mr Bants

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"So when ever I’ve come on here, I’ve always gone with the age band between 30-40.

I personally just prefer guy older than me but a few years younger doesn’t really matter.

I’ve been thinking whether I’m missing out on talking to rare gems that are 40+

"

I (Luke) am a rare gem (Hannah will vouch for that) but you're not interested in couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's on my profile, but it's not a hard and fast rule, unlike my sex life

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"It's on my profile, but it's not a hard and fast rule, unlike my sex life "

Lol I hear you.

Well hopefully the ones that are hard to find come by our way soon

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"So when ever I’ve come on here, I’ve always gone with the age band between 30-40.

I personally just prefer guy older than me but a few years younger doesn’t really matter.

I’ve been thinking whether I’m missing out on talking to rare gems that are 40+

I (Luke) am a rare gem (Hannah will vouch for that) but you're not interested in couples. "

Playing with couples is another thing that’s not crossed my mind.

Who knows hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines at 58 but have played with older at parties so can't say it's set in stone though don't have much interest in the messages I've recieved from the over 52/3s to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's set to 18-99 but I would go older

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I've always found it strange, being attracted to the age of an adult, be it younger or older.

Somebody could lie about there age and potentially you would be none the wiser. I know people younger than me that look older than I do. I generally look younger than my age.

In some cases age doesn't even dictate personality traits. There are older generations that just can't gel with those younger, while some younger are extremely immature. Or the reverse.

But there are plenty of all ages that drift from these "stereotypes".

I say if you find somebody physically attractive and their personality is also attractive to you then it shouldn't matter on their age (within legal limits of course!) the attraction and connection should be all that matters. Don't limit an option in such a way.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've set mine 5 years younger than me to ten years older than me.

As with everything, there is some wiggle room for someone I click with. It's highly unlikely I'm going to click with a 25 year old though - we've just not enough in common.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m betting very few men have an age limit but most of the ladies will.

I have an upper limit but tend to go for those in their 40s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m betting very few men have an age limit but most of the ladies will.

"

That's because men are less likely to be ageist.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I prefer people around my age, but there will always be exceptions to this so it isn't an immovable limit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have quite a broad age range, because you never know who you might click with.

Change it and give it a trial run and see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m betting very few men have an age limit but most of the ladies will.

I have an upper limit but tend to go for those in their 40s"

All these threads are of women saying they wouldn’t sleep with anyone younger and men saying they’d go as young as 18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always older. Not a fan of guys my age or younger.

F.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did say before it felt wrong I personally would feel like a peado if I went below 28

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’d go above 52 ... preference etc but saying that I was adamant I wouldn’t go younger than 40

If someone is attractive to me and they tick my boxes - I don’t think I’ll worry too much about age now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"69"

Make of that what you will..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm looking I go as high as 50 as I prefer older men generally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines 35 to 49, I did lower it only yesterday to 30 but woke up to so many messages and some really immature. I know its only a minority but it put me off and I had to higher the age limit again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when ever I’ve come on here, I’ve always gone with the age band between 30-40.

I personally just prefer guy older than me but a few years younger doesn’t really matter.

I’ve been thinking whether I’m missing out on talking to rare gems that are 40+

"

Of course you are, but there is still hope for you yet..

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By *unkhouser72Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester

Are there any 99 year olds on here, seems a high limit but fair play to them if they're still at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing is set in stone "

This

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