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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Age is a number but it gets to a point where it feels wrong mines 28

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

About the same here, 28 and even then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early 40’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here for the cougars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is a number but it gets to a point where it feels wrong mines 28"

Over 30s really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

26

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

I like younger guys but wouldn't go younger than 25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think mines 30 to 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be 40 now 35 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Observes with high interest

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

32 would be my youngest although he would need to be mature and hold good conversations.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’m late 30s but I’ve bent it a few times to early to mid 30s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id potentially have no upper or lower age limit.

Our other third is 8 years younger than us. Our relationship works perfectly.

Age is unimportant.

Connection is all that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m late 30s but I’ve bent it a few times to early to mid 30s "

Sugar mama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer a mature lady in my age range, but frankly, if a person is of legal age, able to give consent and interested in me...I'd be happy.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I’m late 30s but I’ve bent it a few times to early to mid 30s

Sugar mama"

not sure about that, but sometimes it’s hard to say no, tis the eyes that draw me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age isn’t just a number

30s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m late 30s but I’ve bent it a few times to early to mid 30s

Sugar mama

not sure about that, but sometimes it’s hard to say no, tis the eyes that draw me in "

I hear ya!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Generally 35, but I have made the odd exception if I feel that someone is mature enough....or pretty enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life younger than on here, here it's 40 but there is an exception to the rule and he knows it can't wait for the summer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently had a meet with someone who was 24 years younger than me. I had ummed and ahhhhed about it, but the chap in question was incredibly mature for his age. It was such a great meet, in fact I met him a couple of times. I think it was a lot to do with him, his personality, his outlook on life rather than his age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have went younger but generally stick with guys in my own age group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

28

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

38 at a push.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think mines 30 to 50"

Gutted

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm 28 but they’d have to be pretty awesome. I did meet someone who said they were 28 but turned out they were 22

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think mines 30 to 50

Gutted "

My child is older than you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is a number but it gets to a point where it feels wrong mines 28"

Half my age plus 7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually only a couple of years younger. I've met guys at socials that I've thought ok. They don't seem as young as their years so may possibly go younger but generally prefer around my age or older

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I met a 26 year old last year, and I'd probably go for someone younger than that, depending on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 34, this lad recognised me off fab, gave me his number when I was out shopping he's 22.

Tempted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I think I’ve been lucky. Intelligence and being able to hold conversations is key I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age isnt a number, it's a word

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

I generally seem to go for men around my own age although have been chatting to a lovely man who is a good bit older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go as low as 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not as young as my kids, that would be just wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I act about half my age so I believe I could have fun with an 18 year old

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Surely it’s all about the connection over age x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't meet anyone under 30 tnh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally not younger than myself. But with women I'd maybe go down to 23-24.

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By *omesticflightMan
over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

What are we talking about here, actual sex, or socially meeting/chatting with online-a club?

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By *enuine_guy_46Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

30 but do prefer women same age or older

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Age is just a number.

But if they're in their 20s and still living with their parents, probably too young.

Somebody of the same age who is independent, might be a lot more mature.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I had to check. My filter is set at 28 but it’s a guideline not a rule.

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I would never drop my age limit from 33/34/35 on Fab.

BUT BUT BUT.... Finn from love island is fit as fook... there's something about him I would throw the rule book out of the window if he dropped into my DM.

#givingmefannyflutters *Mrs

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Got to be a connection and that's meant I generally go for guys my age or a little older. I did have a relationship with someone 14 years younger and 22 years older so I'd have to say age probably isnt totally relevant

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

Mines 35 but I've sunk to 24

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

I (Lincslady) prefer men to be older than me.. youngest would probably be 30

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I use age as a guideline as there are always exceptions that may catch you off guard.

I don't actively search for an 18 year old but if it feels right on all other levels why not? Seems silly to pass on something potentially great. It may be harder to find that connection but certainly not rule it out.

Same applies to older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use age as a guideline as there are always exceptions that may catch you off guard.

I don't actively search for an 18 year old but if it feels right on all other levels why not? Seems silly to pass on something potentially great. It may be harder to find that connection but certainly not rule it out.

Same applies to older. "

Fuck yeah I could be in luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just here to see who the cougars are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30...these younger ladies wear my old ass out!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Under 25 would be odd as our eldest is 25.

Age is a number and really doesn't make a difference its the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my lower limit set at 30, but in reality I don't think I've ever been tempted by anyone younger than me. Probably just psychological, I don't want to be the oldest person in the bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

37

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Early/mid 20s for me. But it depends on maturity.

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By *elly72Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

No minimum really but late 20s early 30s is preferred

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Mid 30s, definitely no lower than 30

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

It's just a number. I usually go for a mature mind and outlook on life. I've met people (men and women) in their 40's+ who seem to be immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's set to 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years either side of my age ..younger & older

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

18.0

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Around 25 - ten(ish) years younger than us.

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By *man013Man
over a year ago

Derby

I'll poke my head in here and wait till the fabled person who actually sticks to there are range which has 18-_ appears ahahah

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Ours is 5 years either way of our ages so currently 33 to 48 but we are flexible

J x

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

If something clicks, it clicks. Age doesn’t really come into it, higher or lower.

Having said that, if I was looking for a long term relationship it would have to be someone I could share social circles with and a big age gap can sometimes make that more difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

40

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

i Currently have a 25 year old and a 43 year old on my books but generally would go for 30’s and 40’s, some early 50’s on here just look amazing too so I wouldn’t say no to them either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies 25 and over for me

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil


" I like younger guys but wouldn't go younger than 25 "

Same here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 is my lower limit unless they have an outstanding personality and sense of understanding.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideally not younger than myself. But with women I'd maybe go down to 23-24."

I would say you were too young for me, your age bracket. But it's a conundrum.

If a beautiful woman your age like yourself offered I think it would be hard to refuse.

This is hypothetical, by the way.

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

16 for both of us, around 2 years ago

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

As my daughters are 35 never anyone younger that my kids so we basically have age limit of 45 plus .k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to say no younger than my kids +5 yrs but most of the ladies who actively flirt with me are younger. I may have to revise that policy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 plus (soba me)

Anything legal (d*unk me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Queenie’s age minus 1 month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think a twenny-something would be fun... But if anyone less than 47 contacts me i tend to think how impertinent, or why haha... So hmmm... So maybe my age or older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

20(ish)

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"25 plus (soba me)

Anything legal (d*unk me) "

HaHa brill, like your honesty

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

Between 33 n 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think a twenny-something would be fun... But if anyone less than 47 contacts me i tend to think how impertinent, or why haha... So hmmm... So maybe my age or older "

Haha yes me too, I like guys my age or about 10 years older.

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

23. 43 is the oldest I've ever gone but that's very rare for me.

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

We're 33 and 37 and we kinda like the younger model! We've played with quite a lot of people who are between 18 & 30!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

35 I think...

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideally not younger than myself. But with women I'd maybe go down to 23-24."

At last someone else that would meet younger women than men. Guys 27ish girls 23ish

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

22 is the youngest I’ve gone, there was good intellectual chemistry. She was intelligent and had great chat. I saw no reason not to.

The youngest i’d knowingly look for is probably 25.

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

It's hard to say really. I'd like to say not much younger than me I'm 30 but dont look it. Unless I've had a rough night probably 25ish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21 as I am only 26

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By *T90eeMan
over a year ago

croydon

21-22

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By *man013Man
over a year ago

Derby


"25 plus (soba me)

Anything legal (d*unk me) "

Wouldn't mind getting to know d*unk you aha

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"I recently had a meet with someone who was 24 years younger than me. I had ummed and ahhhhed about it, but the chap in question was incredibly mature for his age. It was such a great meet, in fact I met him a couple of times. I think it was a lot to do with him, his personality, his outlook on life rather than his age."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few I chat to as young as 24

I wouldn't rule out going younger completely but I take each person as they come

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Around the 25ish age, the youngest so far was 27.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would depend on the person, but I'd probably say it's about 21ish that I'd ideally go to.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

You can get some very mature 21 year olds and some very immature older people. Judge everyone on how I find them

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I've gone 20 years younger. If you you connect that's all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is a number but it gets to a point where it feels wrong mines 28"

Lucky I am over 28 then, eh?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18!

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Looking through this thread and there's so many liars! A ton of people saying 28-35 have actually messaged us in the past

I just turned 26 that's it guys, you stick to your preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking through this thread and there's so many liars! A ton of people saying 28-35 have actually messaged us in the past

I just turned 26 that's it guys, you stick to your preferences "

I think people are more lenient when it comes to ladies

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By *ixen500Couple
over a year ago

some where near shropshire

28... but bent that rule slightly one or two times

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Age is a number but it gets to a point where it feels wrong mines 28"

Mines 30

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"18."

18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Mine is probably 35, I'm not delusional about myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is probably 35, I'm not delusional about myself! "

What is delusional?

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm only 21 so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22 for me

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

18.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Over 35....

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Well dating and swinging are different, if I'm dating then I'd say no younger than 40. Swinging I'd go younger, not that I ever have lol.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

18 for me but why an 18 year old would want to ride an old fart is beyond me.

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Mr would go as young as 18 in a swinging scenario but Mrs would only go to 35 ish but that has been broken in a club environment

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I the jackhammer would do anyone 18+ if it felt right. We only swing in clubs though

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