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Have you ever fallen for a FAF message?

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Be honest ladies, have any of you EVER fallen for a "fncy fk bbe?" message?!

My understanding is that 95% of m to f messages are faf messages. Have any of you ever actually gone for a guy who sends shit messages?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d have to ask why he felt the need to miss out certain letters in words , does sender have an aversion to vowels and then a no

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester


"I’d have to ask why he felt the need to miss out certain letters in words , does sender have an aversion to vowels and then a no"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I did when I first signed up in Dec_mber. Tbh they were both average at best!!! I think it proved to me if they can’t be arsed to put effort into messages clearly they can’t be arsed in bed. Not had a meet off here since just 100s of messages. But I do think partly because my time is limited.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Nope. In fact usually they're instantly deleted. If someone isn't prepared to put a bit effort into writing a decent message, that shows they've read my profile, I'm very unlikely to respond let alone want to meet them.

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Lol

That made me laugh

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Yeah I did when I first signed up in Dec_mber. Tbh they were both average at best!!! I think it proved to me if they can’t be arsed to put effort into messages clearly they can’t be arsed in bed. Not had a meet off here since just 100s of messages. But I do think partly because my time is limited. "

What?!? So it can work?!?

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yeah I did when I first signed up in Dec_mber. Tbh they were both average at best!!! I think it proved to me if they can’t be arsed to put effort into messages clearly they can’t be arsed in bed. Not had a meet off here since just 100s of messages. But I do think partly because my time is limited.

What?!? So it can work?!?"

Apparently so......

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Never, but I've sent a few

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Yeah I did when I first signed up in Dec_mber. Tbh they were both average at best!!! I think it proved to me if they can’t be arsed to put effort into messages clearly they can’t be arsed in bed. Not had a meet off here since just 100s of messages. But I do think partly because my time is limited.

What?!? So it can work?!?"

If anyone on this thread fancies a fk then hit me up. Cant be bothered msging individually tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I fall for everything. I actually believe I’m the sexiest, most stunning person on fab because everyone says so and people don’t lie on fab, and that I only don’t like things because I haven’t tried it with them. I can barely get my head through doors these days!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yeah I fall for everything. I actually believe I’m the sexiest, most stunning person on fab because everyone says so and people don’t lie on fab, and that I only don’t like things because I haven’t tried it with them. I can barely get my head through doors these days! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I did when I first signed up in Dec_mber. Tbh they were both average at best!!! I think it proved to me if they can’t be arsed to put effort into messages clearly they can’t be arsed in bed. Not had a meet off here since just 100s of messages. But I do think partly because my time is limited.

What?!? So it can work?!?

If anyone on this thread fancies a fk then hit me up. Cant be bothered msging individually tbf"

Oh man!!!! Have I seriously started this lazy man attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I only reply to messages that looks like a bit of effort has gone into. ‘Fancy a fuck?’or ‘Fuck now?’ Just get ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, but I've sent a few "

Think a woman sending a FAF message is different and I’d find it hot.

I always make effort with mine if I like the look of someone or just want to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I did when I first signed up in Dec_mber. Tbh they were both average at best!!! I think it proved to me if they can’t be arsed to put effort into messages clearly they can’t be arsed in bed. Not had a meet off here since just 100s of messages. But I do think partly because my time is limited. "

Fancy a fuck

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

Nope, they just get deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I did when I first signed up in Dec_mber. Tbh they were both average at best!!! I think it proved to me if they can’t be arsed to put effort into messages clearly they can’t be arsed in bed. Not had a meet off here since just 100s of messages. But I do think partly because my time is limited.

Fancy a fuck "

You definitely know I would!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I fall for everything. I actually believe I’m the sexiest, most stunning person on fab because everyone says so and people don’t lie on fab, and that I only don’t like things because I haven’t tried it with them. I can barely get my head through doors these days! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to try new things

I may try a few FAF messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, but I've sent a few "

And had a favourable response that you've followed through with to a satisfactory conclusion... from your point of view

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I once had a FaF message, to which I answered no. but I'll buy you a coffee... We are still seeing each other 9 months later

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"I need to try new things

I may try a few FAF messages"

The success rate for women is considerably higher than for men! It’s very very sexist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather pull my teeth out.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Would rather pull my teeth out. "

But you’re so fuckable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would rather pull my teeth out.

But you’re so fuckable! "

Even without teeth

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Instantly deleted and blocked x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Would rather pull my teeth out.

But you’re so fuckable!

Even without teeth "

Hmmm I’ve never had a gummy blow job but it doesn’t sound bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. It's a multi message.

No effort, take whatever. Setting low standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, but I've sent a few "

not to me...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Never, but I've sent a few

not to me... "

I did, you didn't want to make the 9 hour journey rem_mber

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

I expect at least a generic copy/paste comment about how beautiful my body is (they can't see half of it), how we've talked a lot before (we haven't) and a picture of a dick lined up next to a Lynx can - anything less just suggests zero effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this question is greatly loaded to the females, and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to work out, as a tactic, it's as fruitful as trying to grow potatos in a carpark! but on the only two occasions I was 'lucky' enough to be gifted such an offer ....I turned an ran away as quickly as possible! #HowDesperate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I did when I first signed up in Dec_mber. Tbh they were both average at best!!! I think it proved to me if they can’t be arsed to put effort into messages clearly they can’t be arsed in bed. Not had a meet off here since just 100s of messages. But I do think partly because my time is limited.

Fancy a fuck "

I laughed at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolouetly not. Always a social first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I did when I first signed up in Dec_mber. Tbh they were both average at best!!! I think it proved to me if they can’t be arsed to put effort into messages clearly they can’t be arsed in bed. Not had a meet off here since just 100s of messages. But I do think partly because my time is limited.

Fancy a fuck

I laughed at that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect at least a generic copy/paste comment about how beautiful my body is (they can't see half of it), how we've talked a lot before (we haven't) and a picture of a dick lined up next to a Lynx can - anything less just suggests zero effort "

Aren't Lynx cans short and stubby?

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I’m constantly faffing in my messages... are we talking about something else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect at least a generic copy/paste comment about how beautiful my body is (they can't see half of it), how we've talked a lot before (we haven't) and a picture of a dick lined up next to a Lynx can - anything less just suggests zero effort "

ive got a load of half size sky rmotes if anyone is interested

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My messages turned way too ridiculous way too quickly to fall for much.

I loved how stunningly beautiful I was when I only had the default avatar. Most beautiful woman in Manchester!

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I got one two hours ago.

I've replied to ask him if he's

a) hung

b) a heavy cummer

c) a repeater

and requested a lynx can dick pic.

I'll base my decision on his response.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Be honest ladies, have any of you EVER fallen for a "fncy fk bbe?" message?!

My understanding is that 95% of m to f messages are faf messages. Have any of you ever actually gone for a guy who sends shit messages?!?

"

No one my age would send that sort of message anyway, but yes several times I have met from one message, there is nothing wrong with wanting a fuck there and then

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I’d have to ask why he felt the need to miss out certain letters in words , does sender have an aversion to vowels and then a no"

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

If this works for others, then go for it I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be honest ladies, have any of you EVER fallen for a "fncy fk bbe?" message?!

My understanding is that 95% of m to f messages are faf messages. Have any of you ever actually gone for a guy who sends shit messages?!?

"

Guy just sent my friend a really pleasant opening message and pics. Replies with similar then he bombards her with dick pics and fancy a fuck messages. How to blow it.

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By *lair101TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen, westhill


"Nope. In fact usually they're instantly deleted. If someone isn't prepared to put a bit effort into writing a decent message, that shows they've read my profile, I'm very unlikely to respond let alone want to meet them. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ain't gonna suck itself. That's also a good one to use.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ain't gonna suck itself. That's also a good one to use."

I love that. And this is my problem why?

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"Ain't gonna suck itself. That's also a good one to use."

And it allows me to use my favourite 'Not even if it was made of cake' retort. Win win.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope ,instant delete from me and maybe block.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ain't gonna suck itself. That's also a good one to use.

And it allows me to use my favourite 'Not even if it was made of cake' retort. Win win."

If I reply it's along the lines of, no, it's not, well spotted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one so no

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By *ustfulmusingCouple
over a year ago

ilpseich


"Yeah I did when I first signed up in Dec_mber. Tbh they were both average at best!!! I think it proved to me if they can’t be arsed to put effort into messages clearly they can’t be arsed in bed. Not had a meet off here since just 100s of messages. But I do think partly because my time is limited.

What?!? So it can work?!?

If anyone on this thread fancies a fk then hit me up. Cant be bothered msging individually tbf"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends upon my mood and what I’m looking for at that time. I use FAB for a variety of reasons, and unfortunately the person sending me the message has no clue, but that’s my prerogative. That’s why I try to have fun, not take this site too seriously and meet my needs. I usually send those type of messages to my regular play mates, they know me and know I been no disrespect, just gets to the point without the BS XX

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It depends upon my mood and what I’m looking for at that time. I use FAB for a variety of reasons, and unfortunately the person sending me the message has no clue, but that’s my prerogative. That’s why I try to have fun, not take this site too seriously and meet my needs. I usually send those type of messages to my regular play mates, they know me and know I been no disrespect, just gets to the point without the BS XX"

Yeah, friends are different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d have to ask why he felt the need to miss out certain letters in words , does sender have an aversion to vowels and then a no"

I'd recommend sending him a message of "N" to save time as he wouldn't recognize the written presence of an "O" anyway. Nor the physical experience of an "O" either I imagine.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, but I've sent a few "

Why haven't I had one then? Lol!

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By *ndyandMandyCouple
over a year ago

swansea

Truthfully happened in reverse when I had a single profile

I sent what I thought was a half decent message to get a reply “Fuck me tonight”

Transpired she was a lesbian partial to the odd cock

She was lovely and of course I obliged

100% true

Never happened before or since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never a faf but have gone running to 'what you up to?' When the horn has been particularly bothersome

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

No.

If it was someone I'd fucked before and wanted to fuck again, I probably would though

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Never got one on here

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By *uffymayfairCouple
over a year ago

vera playa, Almeria

Always delete them

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Never sent a FAF message in my life lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*tracks thread*

Any women that it did work for I may ask them the same question

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Never has and never will work on us.

We just ignore them.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Ok, so it's pretty conclusive, as I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooooooooo..........

I'm not that desperate

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I've never even responded to a "faf" in my inbox

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m pleased to say I’ve never sent a FAF message in my life. Lol.

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