FabSwingers.com forum: That one person

By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"

Unfortunately not, he's a long way away and he doesn't travel

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area

Unfortunately not, he's a long way away and he doesn't travel

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aww sorry to hear

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

No. I don't think anyone on fab has really caught my eye

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"No. I don't think anyone on fab has really caught my eye "
thanks lol

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

There's a couple I really like, i think a lottery win is more likely to happen than a meet tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"
Yep there's definitely 1 Lady I’d drop everything for !!!

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

Yes a couple of real close people to me that I’d love to meet but not sure they would meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one I’m afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I don't think anyone on fab has really caught my eye "

Same here

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

Aww bad times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a couple of guys but I've chatted to them too and I like them for their personalities as well as their looks but I'm a one man woman and as my man has claimed me back they will always just be a fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a couple f ladies I like locally and have got chatting to them and hopefully down the line we meet for a coffee

Using the forums though has let me to desire a few ladies that are the other side of the pond

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By *at1Man
over a year ago

bedford

"There are a couple of guys but I've chatted to them too and I like them for their personalities as well as their looks but I'm a one man woman and as my man has claimed me back they will always just be a fantasy"

You can still enjoy them instead of fantasizing about them in this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can still enjoy them instead of fantasizing about them in this lifestyle

Some people choose not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

granny crumpet and omg that accent

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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There's a few on here that I fancy and are close enough to meet up with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few on here that I fancy and are close enough to meet up with

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hmmmm wishing that was me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope they are miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few on here that I fancy and are close enough to meet up with

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i know and am sorry you can't have my body its being saved for medical science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worried that asking to meet will screw things up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one and maybe...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I wouldn't call them crushes but there's one or two I'd like to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is one and maybe... "
oooooooo is it meeeeeee thankyou lord there is a god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't call them crushes but there's one or two I'd like to meet. "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is one and maybe... oooooooo is it meeeeeee thankyou lord there is a god

Shhhhh don't tell everyone its meant to be a secret

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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"There's a few on here that I fancy and are close enough to meet up with

i know and am sorry you can't have my body its being saved for medical science

Lucky medical science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is one and maybe... oooooooo is it meeeeeee thankyou lord there is a god

Shhhhh don't tell everyone its meant to be a secret

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it is....... its a........ secret escape

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not local.... But we have a car!

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"There's a few on here that I fancy and are close enough to meet up with

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make your move then life to sort

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Nope they are miles away "
bad luck lol

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Worried that asking to meet will screw things up

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don’t shit it just do it

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"There is one and maybe... "
tell him or her what’s to lose

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By *inkykernow39Woman
over a year ago

down west

I've seen a couple guys I thought were pretty hot but live way to far away

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"I wouldn't call them crushes but there's one or two I'd like to meet. "
I would ask for a meet

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Not local.... But we have a car!"
go for a drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind being someone’s crush

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"I've seen a couple guys I thought were pretty hot but live way to far away "
aww bad luck

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"I don’t mind being someone’s crush

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ha you never no someone could pop up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have someone and its mutual but he's in Cardiff and I'm in Edinburgh!

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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"There's a few on here that I fancy and are close enough to meet up with

hmmmm wishing that was me x"

I hear South Wales is lovely this time of year

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

No crushes, but there are couple of people I'd like to say hi to at a social event

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"I have someone and its mutual but he's in Cardiff and I'm in Edinburgh! "
make a day of it will be fun

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

The guy I fancy left fab recently

No one yet has caught my eye

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"No crushes, but there are couple of people I'd like to say hi to at a social event "
say hi

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Not really a crush as such, but there a a few people of both sexes I'd love to roll around naked with. Hope to at a social one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guy I fancy left fab recently

No one yet has caught my eye "
No one

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"The guy I fancy left fab recently

No one yet has caught my eye No one

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well keep looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guy I fancy left fab recently

No one yet has caught my eye No one

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my apologies ! Not one

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

A combination of distance and the fact I want to meet more than they do counts against me

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

She lives at the other end of the country and only meets guys local to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A combination of distance and the fact I want to meet more than they do counts against me"

Do you think that the apparent high ratio of men to women is a factor too? ie men have to really stand out and impress above the many on here.

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"She lives at the other end of the country and only meets guys local to her.

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have a bit of cam fun with her

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"A combination of distance and the fact I want to meet more than they do counts against me

Do you think that the apparent high ratio of men to women is a factor too? ie men have to really stand out and impress above the many on here. "
you don’t no till you try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One. And just shame their age range was a year wider. Not a case of wanted what I cant have, just looked damn fine and happened to be local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one currently

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"A combination of distance and the fact I want to meet more than they do counts against me

Do you think that the apparent high ratio of men to women is a factor too? ie men have to really stand out and impress above the many on here. "

Not necessarily, but it depends.

With some women I probably wouldn’t have a chance if I was the last bloke on earth and the continuation of the species depended on it. But that’s fine - give those women a miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A combination of distance and the fact I want to meet more than they do counts against me

Do you think that the apparent high ratio of men to women is a factor too? ie men have to really stand out and impress above the many on here.

Not necessarily, but it depends.

With some women I probably wouldn’t have a chance if I was the last bloke on earth and the continuation of the species depended on it. But that’s fine - give those women a miss

Yeah, just keep on keeping on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No crushes near here or on here at the moment

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"No crushes, but there are couple of people I'd like to say hi to at a social event say hi"

hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fact there’s definitely 2 now !!! Sorry always been greedy

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"

There are a couple of girls, not really local that I think are awesome, but content to just smile at their posts and look at their pics.

When I find a female in couple I really like, I’m pretty tenacious, love a challenge, although it’s not very often that hard. Must be amazing being a single guy on here ?

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area

There are a couple of girls, not really local that I think are awesome, but content to just smile at their posts and look at their pics.

When I find a female in couple I really like, I’m pretty tenacious, love a challenge, although it’s not very often that hard. Must be amazing being a single guy on here ? "
it’s not good at all been single on here

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

There are one or two people I would happily snog...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"No crushes, but there are couple of people I'd like to say hi to at a social event "

About sums it up for me - while there are people I can get an "idea" of fancying through chatting, until you meet in person you can't truly *know*

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

She knows, or hopefully she does. Unfortunately we are a few weeks away from circumstancesmmaking it possible to meet.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No crushes within the M25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No crushes within the M25 "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The little Minx isn’t local!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh there are a few but age limits so I just admire from afar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few near me( hants/Berks border) met some but there are two that need a bit more work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh there are a few but age limits so I just admire from afar

Haha story of my life pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met or am going to meet most of those I'm interested in already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"

Yes. Just a couple of miles away. But she only used her profile for a couple of days and has been quiet for a month now. Shame - she has great curves and a great attitude. One day maybe she'll go live again

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"No crushes, but there are couple of people I'd like to say hi to at a social event

About sums it up for me - while there are people I can get an "idea" of fancying through chatting, until you meet in person you can't truly *know*"

Nothing quite like a meeting in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. No one.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Nope. No one.

You need to come to Hull.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

There's one local lady and she's a forumite, but she's not meeting atm.

Patience is a virtue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was going to meet anyone else it would be a lady who lives miles away, she has the sharpest sense of humour and makes me laugh so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep... it’s happened in our case, despite living 15 miles away and never coming across each other’s profile, a random forum post has created some amazing experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"

There isn't any other guy close by that i'm interested in meeting, i've met the guys i was interested in.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

There’s one and I’m with him but there are a few people I’m looking forward to saying hello to at future socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few but they are either just all talk and no trousers or the other end of the country..

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Mine are too blooming far

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inkedkink for my local area but she isnt keen!

Everyone else is fooking miles away!

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"No crushes, but there are couple of people I'd like to say hi to at a social event "

I want to see that sexy arse in person. But dont say as I would get embarrassed.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event "

Agree

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

A train trip so much quicker than a hike, very much been part of my fab life travelling to what I desire

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

I need to invent a teleportation machine.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

I need to invent a teleportation machine.

I just fly to where I need. Thank goodness for frequent flier points!

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Private Parts.....

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"

I have a few, but all to far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to rub it in or anything

but I'm finding that, at the moment, there are too many great options locally to even consider looking further afield

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Not to rub it in or anything

but I'm finding that, at the moment, there are too many great options locally to even consider looking further afield

(Blows raspberry)

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"The guy I fancy left fab recently

No one yet has caught my eye No one

Well we could just add on the word “yet”

Who knows right

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one gentleman on the forums who caught our eye for me but wont name names, ill just admire him from afar though we have exchanged msgs before.

There is also a lady we would love to get our hands on and we have spoken before. Shes very popular and said to give her the heads up next time we are in her area(that one is gonna be worth the wait) how ever long it takes

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity."

It's not the distance so much as the additional time and cost for many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity."

Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.

Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments! "

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Not to rub it in or anything

but I'm finding that, at the moment, there are too many great options locally to even consider looking further afield

The hassle of being a woman in a large urban area where men outnumber you at least 50:1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not to rub it in or anything

but I'm finding that, at the moment, there are too many great options locally to even consider looking further afield

The hassle of being a woman in a large urban area where men outnumber you at least 50:1

I know, it's a hard life

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"Not to rub it in or anything

but I'm finding that, at the moment, there are too many great options locally to even consider looking further afield

Lucky Glasgow miss MIA.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.

Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments! "

Precisely. All these factors make distance a barrier which is often unworkable.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.

Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments! "

Oh absolutely those and cost (as NSA Chick mentioned) are of course factors to be considered - but for the right person can be overcome with some advanced planning and distance doesn't necessarily *have* to be an issue

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over a year ago

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.

Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments!

I don’t believe it can. Depends on your commitments, responsibilities and priorities. There can be a will but not always a way unfortunately.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"

Fab for me is a bit like watching TV I constantly flick from one thing to another so little chance of homing in on one person in particular.

I do occasionally see a picture in most fabbed and think "noice" but that's pretty much it.

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over a year ago

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.

Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments!

I don’t believe it can. Depends on your commitments, responsibilities and priorities. There can be a will but not always a way unfortunately. "

Sorry. I should add if you are looking for something regular.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

May have caught my eye, but they are looking in a different direction.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.

Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments!

I don’t believe it can. Depends on your commitments, responsibilities and priorities. There can be a will but not always a way unfortunately.

Sorry. I should add if you are looking for something regular. "

Of course another factor

All of which gets weighed up into the equation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.

Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments!

I don’t believe it can. Depends on your commitments, responsibilities and priorities. There can be a will but not always a way unfortunately.

Sorry. I should add if you are looking for something regular. "

Yeah I agree. The cost of travel and hotel for regular meets is expensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One. He decided to stay faithful to his GF in the end.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don't see why distance is a problem these days it’s easy to drive, jump on a train or even a plane for the right person, especially if it’s potential partner, why would you limit yourself to who’s in the local area. It’s more likely you don’t think they are worth the effort. The problem areas for us are SW and the East they are hard to travel to unless we happen to be in Cambridge or Bristol for work, but we often meet couples in Birmingham, Manchester London, Dubai and even India!

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I've got a few, one main one he knows I like him have done for years never met due to the distance, about 250 miles and just over 4hrs traveling time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just see travelling as part of the adventure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just see travelling as part of the adventure! "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.

Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments!

I don’t believe it can. Depends on your commitments, responsibilities and priorities. There can be a will but not always a way unfortunately.

Sorry. I should add if you are looking for something regular.

Yeah I agree. The cost of travel and hotel for regular meets is expensive. "

It’s not that it’s I don’t have the time. And no I can’t make time.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

There's one at the other end of the country I'd give my left nut to spend some time with, she knows

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure

I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity."

I think for some people distance is too much of a perceived risk to meet someone new - either they've been stood up before, or are just the kind of people that don't like to take risks. I know that can be overcome somewhat by talking extensively beforehand, but you never truly know until you've met.

Personally, I see it as an adventure...my gut instinct about people hasn't let me down yet, regardless of the distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see why distance is a problem these days it’s easy to drive, jump on a train or even a plane for the right person, especially if it’s potential partner, why would you limit yourself to who’s in the local area. It’s more likely you don’t think they are worth the effort. The problem areas for us are SW and the East they are hard to travel to unless we happen to be in Cambridge or Bristol for work, but we often meet couples in Birmingham, Manchester London, Dubai and even India! "

Distance isn't the issue. What some people are pointing out is, its finding the free time and finances to travel often.. Meeting in, let's say London (I'm from Glasgow) will cost me at least £250. I don't have that much spare each month for regular meets.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.

As a single parent with two young children and a doddery mum, i don’t get the time to myself to schlep across Country just for a cocking. I literally have a few hours to myself two Saturdays a month. I don’t want to waste valuable cocking time travelling. It’s that simple.

The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.

Plus pre booking meets is just pressure. A lot of Hotels charge for cancellations. Kids get sick at inconvenient times. Folk throw their toys out of the pram because “you’re messing them about”.

I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.

And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.

Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk.

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over a year ago

"Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.

The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.

I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.

And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.

Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk. "

Exactly this! People just don’t get it. If you really liked them you would etc etc! I have a child with special needs. The only ones who can look after her is me and her father! It’s really not that easy for some of us.

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By *adylydfordWoman
over a year ago

altinkum

No crush but i did have an amazing meet i cant get out of my mind. I would travel but he is very busy for the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One I’m the next town to me who I’ve had the pleasure of meeting twice! Way out of my league but glad I got the chance to get my hands on him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few guys I wouldn't mind meeting but they're far far away.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.

The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.

I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.

And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.

Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk.

Oh I *get* it and my apologies if anything I have said previously seemed somewhat glib or dismissive of those that can't or won't travel - not the intent at all.

We all, as individuals, have our own various things we factor into who/when/where we meet and for some distance and time is a very real part of that

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.

The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.

I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.

And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.

Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk. "

Absolutely. People forget that their own circumstances don't apply to everybody, and it's not just that simple

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Just hope that whoever you have a crush on you have messaged... life’s too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.

The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.

I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.

And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.

Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read this and I think how lucky some of you are to be able just go off and meet ...

Then I give my head a wobble and know that I wouldn’t want to anyway.

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over a year ago

"Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.

The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.

I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.

And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.

Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk.

Oh I *get* it and my apologies if anything I have said previously seemed somewhat glib or dismissive of those that can't or won't travel - not the intent at all.

We all, as individuals, have our own various things we factor into who/when/where we meet and for some distance and time is a very real part of that "

No don’t be daft. You know me. I don’t take offence. I just see a lot of it. If you really liked them you would, distance is irrelevant for the right person etc etc. Yeah in an ideal world it would be great. Don’t get me wrong I’m not complaining, I’m happy with my life as it is, I’m just saying it’s not that easy for everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.

The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.

I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.

And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.

Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk. "

We are so so similar in more ways than one xx

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

I have one she is local but can’t message her as I am a year out of her age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres one but think I scare him to much, I cant even get him to have a coffee with me

So moving onto the next lol

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I’ve chatted to him but it never came off. Shame

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By *enn68Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Out of age range by 2yrs

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way

I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event

Agree

Begone fab geography curse!

I need to invent a teleportation machine.

I just fly to where I need. Thank goodness for frequent flier points!

Distance is a cruel, evil bit*h.

I agree with you, thank goodness for frequent flier points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No crushes but i would like to get my hands on a particular person. I have great patience and usually get what i want in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a few but they’re so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking...

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

To actually answer the OP, there's absolutely nobody currently that I've seen local to me that I'd even consider meeting, never mind have a crush on.

Not really any that I've seen from further afield that I haven't already chatted to either! I have already met my biggest crush though

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

There are a couple of local couples would love to meet but I don't think we will be lucky enough to do so x storm x

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Not so much a crush but there are a couple of guys I would love to meet but unfortunately they live to far away so no point in even finding out if I'm there type... But I do regularly perve in stealth mode at there pics

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

She knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I am back in the UK I usually meet who I want to meet. Same as here, I don't have the patience to waste time on a back burner.

There are definetly people who I'd like to just have a massive kitchen party with. Or just go eat their food and fall asleep on their couch watching TV.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Someone I hope to progress further with and worth the journey x

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

You OP

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By *r easy1981 OP Man
over a year ago

leeds

"You OP

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who?

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By *ass and kinkWoman
over a year ago

kinxville

I have the massive hots for someone... I actually got to meet him but I was that nervous it didn't really go to plan...

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)

"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"

She was in my area for a few weeks, we finally met. After a few weeks later she came over to Malaga to see me. Absolutely amazing time we have spent together.

Sometimes the distance is just an excuse for someone who really dont want meet

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I have a 'girl crush' on a very sexy lady that I have been fortunate to of met in the past. Really would love to meet her again when circumstances and time allow it for the both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is someone I really like. We have met for a social but not taken it any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone that doesn't chat on forums he's on my friends list and way out of my league fucking stunning he is a girl can dream

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a few crushes on here but most of them are miles away from me. What a downer lol

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

"No. I don't think anyone on fab has really caught my eye "
same here

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

She fairly local, absolutely stunning and so damn lovely, has even expressed interest in me but won't meet for technical reasons. I just gotta suck it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I'm chatting to her now omg shes gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did have. And i met her. So now not looking really. Unless im tempted. He he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in my local area, not even close but yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone that doesn't chat on forums he's on my friends list and way out of my league fucking stunning he is a girl can dream"

Life is too short! Just message him, what's the worst and best that could happen?! I've learned to stop guessing what guys like in a woman based on how they look themselves. People like what they like...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone that doesn't chat on forums he's on my friends list and way out of my league fucking stunning he is a girl can dream

I love your tattoos!

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