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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Do you check your inbox? Constantly? On occasion? Rarely?

I rarely receive any messages unless they're off the back of a thread so I think i'd be very curious (at first anyway) to check them frequently if they were coming in by the dozen daily. Do you do this, and if you have, has it grown tedious? How useful is that bulk delete feature?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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To be honest, I don't really look in it apart from if I'm on the forums (to see if there are any replies/comments from posts) - I have a secretary that deals with my Fabmin for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I flick between threads it shows up at the top. If I am having a conversation with somebody, I will check to see if it's something from them, rather than random speculative stuff!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I keep on top of my inbox so as soon as i receive a message i look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I scan through to see if there is anything I want to answer and then mass delete the rest. Depends if I'm expecting messages from the forum or not how often I check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just here to take notes

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I check it when I open fab, if I'm taking part in a pm thread or in a conversation with someone. Not really that often I guess, maybe 2, 3 times a day?

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I don't have a pattern. If my filters are open for a while for a game I'm inundated and it takes a while to get through. I only answer the ones who seem to have read my profile.

If it's forum replies I look pretty much straight away. But even then some can get lost!

I'm at 389 unread right now

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do you check your inbox? Constantly? On occasion? Rarely?

I rarely receive any messages unless they're off the back of a thread so I think i'd be very curious (at first anyway) to check them frequently if they were coming in by the dozen daily. Do you do this, and if you have, has it grown tedious? How useful is that bulk delete feature? "

It depends if I’m busy in my life away from here but as often as I’m able to....not an accurate answer but there you go OP.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I don't have a pattern. If my filters are open for a while for a game I'm inundated and it takes a while to get through. I only answer the ones who seem to have read my profile.

If it's forum replies I look pretty much straight away. But even then some can get lost!

I'm at 389 unread right now "

Sounds like you need a P.A.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm bored, i read each one slowly and delete them carefully one by one

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Depends if I'm interested in someone messaging me if im not I dont look as often as I should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I'm bored, i read each one slowly and delete them carefully one by one "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really check as such I just notice or look when I log on. Sometimes once a day sometimes 3 times. All depends if I’m active on the forum or if my profile is visible. But even when my profile is visible I tend to just delete, most messages are just “ fancy fun”.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It depends. I know the current number of unreads I’m at.

If switching from threads I might see it increase, I’ll take a quick look to see if relevant to a thread or someone I’m talking to at the time.

Anyone new the title and first line without opening determines whether I read, delete or come back later

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I do like to keep a control of my messages because they build up if I don't then I just end up bulk deleting which I hate as I'm probably missing out on the ideal one, if there is such a thing.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the desktop version of the site, it’s easy to see messages

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I use the desktop version of the site, it’s easy to see messages "

Someone actually uses this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use the desktop version of the site, it’s easy to see messages

Someone actually uses this? "

Myself sometimes

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

I check for forum replies and friends messages but apart from that i only look occasionally

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

So am I correct in assuming many generally ignore unsolicited messages from strangers? Seems to be the trend so far.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"So am I correct in assuming many generally ignore unsolicited messages from strangers? Seems to be the trend so far."

No.... it all depends on the title, opening line and profile review

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

We get less than maybe 6 a day, even on the back of forums, but I check probably 2 or 3 times a day. Doesn't take long.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"We get less than maybe 6 a day, even on the back of forums, but I check probably 2 or 3 times a day. Doesn't take long."

That's surprisingly low for a couple? Filters up high?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So am I correct in assuming many generally ignore unsolicited messages from strangers? Seems to be the trend so far."

Unless I'm actively looking for a play mate I ignore

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Lots of Strict filters make my messages manageable to sort through in between perving sessions on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So am I correct in assuming many generally ignore unsolicited messages from strangers? Seems to be the trend so far."

I open and reply to all of mine. I tend to try and keep on top of my messages, otherwise it's overwhelming

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Daily in theory

I prioritise friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always on top of my messages and reply to virtually all of them! But my profile is always hidden if I'm not online, haven't got the time or the inclination for fab

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"So am I correct in assuming many generally ignore unsolicited messages from strangers? Seems to be the trend so far.

I open and reply to all of mine. I tend to try and keep on top of my messages, otherwise it's overwhelming

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Do you do that with or without some filters in place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So am I correct in assuming many generally ignore unsolicited messages from strangers? Seems to be the trend so far."

Yes. I check for messages from those I know, ignore the rest and then have a mass delete session. Something really relaxing about seeing all those dick pic profile pics just poof.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"So am I correct in assuming many generally ignore unsolicited messages from strangers? Seems to be the trend so far.

Yes. I check for messages from those I know, ignore the rest and then have a mass delete session. Something really relaxing about seeing all those dick pic profile pics just poof. "

They disappear into the ether

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I maybe check my inbox a couple of times a day, don't necessarily bother opening/responding to the messages every time though.

I'll quite often just spend time on the forums and ignore my inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has certainly been interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So am I correct in assuming many generally ignore unsolicited messages from strangers? Seems to be the trend so far.

I open and reply to all of mine. I tend to try and keep on top of my messages, otherwise it's overwhelming

Do you do that with or without some filters in place?"

I generally turn off messages from single men, except when I play a forum game or something.

It is a lot more manageable.

I also have my search set to women only, I noticed when I put in searching for men the amount of messages shot up!

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands


"We get less than maybe 6 a day, even on the back of forums, but I check probably 2 or 3 times a day. Doesn't take long.

That's surprisingly low for a couple? Filters up high?"

No filters at all.

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