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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

People with childcare commitments particularly, but those without aswell.

So a fella just asked if I was free this weekend and I said ‘I don’t meet last minute’ -that, to me, meaning all weekend , he meant tomorrow or sun aft, if I know I am free I make plans days ahead be it fab or vanilla

Is it only me that’s mad thinking that asking someone on a fri for a sun is pretty ‘last minute’? I feel a weirdo now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I need at least a weeks notice if not more. I have too many commitments to be able to do that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I suppose it depends. Sometimes we could meet on a Sunday having been asked on a Friday but we have commitments to my elderly parents and usually need a bit of warning.

I don't think you're a weirdo but neither is he. You just have different responsibilities

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Not a weirdo. Anyone with kids is likely in the same boat and what about people who work weekends or shifts etc? I know people whose shifts are planned 3 months ahead and they can only change if someone will agree to swap. You are perfectly normal in needing to plan ahead.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People with childcare commitments particularly, but those without aswell.

So a fella just asked if I was free this weekend and I said ‘I don’t meet last minute’ -that, to me, meaning all weekend , he meant tomorrow or sun aft, if I know I am free I make plans days ahead be it fab or vanilla

Is it only me that’s mad thinking that asking someone on a fri for a sun is pretty ‘last minute’? I feel a weirdo now "

Def not just you. Most people, like you, have lives that involve others, and other things than sex, so you're

Spot on right.

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

To me last minute is, hi im free this evening if you fancy meeting.. asking politely about meeting in a couple of days time is acceptable request.. not saying you cant be busy already and refuse, but in my opinion its fair to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is last minute

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I wouldn't be the slightest bit interested in meeting someone who wasn't prepared to take sometime to get to know ME!!

Yes if you've looking for a quick shag never to see them again then fine.

Build the foundations and the house will follow, maybe even not get blown away with the first burst of wind.

So no you're not weird 

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually meet pretty last minute just because we don’t want to be the people

Letting others down when childcare falls through or our child isn’t up to being left with someone else. But you have to think about your family and commitments first and other grown ups should be understanding of that x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I need to plan due to childcare. If folk don’t understand / get this when we chat then it’s a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally, I plan ahead. But have had a couple of amazing, last-minute meets.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"People with childcare commitments particularly, but those without aswell.

So a fella just asked if I was free this weekend and I said ‘I don’t meet last minute’ -that, to me, meaning all weekend , he meant tomorrow or sun aft, if I know I am free I make plans days ahead be it fab or vanilla

Is it only me that’s mad thinking that asking someone on a fri for a sun is pretty ‘last minute’? I feel a weirdo now "

No we need time to get childcare sorted and it's not easy I don't think we'd ever be able to meet on a days notice it's very last minute to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ach it depends on my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to plan due to childcare. If folk don’t understand / get this when we chat then it’s a no from me. "

This ^^

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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

i Too have met last minute (on the day) but I think it just shocked me that he kind of argued that he WASN’T asking at the last minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only ask last minute with someone I know well and have met a few times so I know their circumstances, but I have been known to message "you home, i'll be passing in 15?"

granted, not the greatest success ratio, but if it works (for both), last minute can be quite a thrill

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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I would only ask last minute with someone I know well and have met a few times so I know their circumstances, but I have been known to message "you home, i'll be passing in 15?"

granted, not the greatest success ratio, but if it works (for both), last minute can be quite a thrill "

Yes I see what you’re saying. That’s deffo true xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy, no kids. I could meet with little notice but would only meet last minute with someone I've met already and if it suited me.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

It's not last minute, I would specifically say that that language is inaccurate, but it's understandably very short notice.

I happen to be having a coffee with my son in waterstones right now. Message just came through "u both in town now, want 2 meet?". Now THAT is last minute... Sadly this sophisticated gent then immediately went offline... Not able to put his money where his mouth is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's free tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People with childcare commitments particularly, but those without aswell.

So a fella just asked if I was free this weekend and I said ‘I don’t meet last minute’ -that, to me, meaning all weekend , he meant tomorrow or sun aft, if I know I am free I make plans days ahead be it fab or vanilla

Is it only me that’s mad thinking that asking someone on a fri for a sun is pretty ‘last minute’? I feel a weirdo now "

He probably sent that message last week and you've only just got around to replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it is last minute personally. I don't have child care issues but I would still class that as last minute

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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"People with childcare commitments particularly, but those without aswell.

So a fella just asked if I was free this weekend and I said ‘I don’t meet last minute’ -that, to me, meaning all weekend , he meant tomorrow or sun aft, if I know I am free I make plans days ahead be it fab or vanilla

Is it only me that’s mad thinking that asking someone on a fri for a sun is pretty ‘last minute’? I feel a weirdo now

He probably sent that message last week and you've only just got around to replying "

Too busy sending memes out on WhatsApp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People with childcare commitments particularly, but those without aswell.

So a fella just asked if I was free this weekend and I said ‘I don’t meet last minute’ -that, to me, meaning all weekend , he meant tomorrow or sun aft, if I know I am free I make plans days ahead be it fab or vanilla

Is it only me that’s mad thinking that asking someone on a fri for a sun is pretty ‘last minute’? I feel a weirdo now

He probably sent that message last week and you've only just got around to replying

Too busy sending memes out on WhatsApp. "

And funny articles

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