FabSwingers.com forum: Offensive profile picture

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you consider chatting (possibly leading too a meeting) with someone who's only picture on profile is them smiling smugly and giving you the middle finger gesture ??

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

"Would you consider chatting (possibly leading too a meeting) with someone who's only picture on profile is them smiling smugly and giving you the middle finger gesture ??

No, instant block.

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Probably not.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Probably not. I'd see that as pretty immature x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right turn off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

How big is the middle finger?

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

"How big is the middle finger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh hell yes how could anyone resist such charm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How big is the middle finger?

Tut tut!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something to sit on I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite sure why someone would think that sort of picture or attitude is appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How big is the middle finger?

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Nope. I would doubt that we’d find any sociable common ground.

Although, some years back, there was a lady regular on the forums and that pretty much described her profile pic. I wouldn’t have sought to meet as we had different wants and needs, but her bold and occasionally brazen forum posts were generally thought provoking and erudite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you consider chatting (possibly leading too a meeting) with someone who's only picture on profile is them smiling smugly and giving you the middle finger gesture ??

Definitely not.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

*deletes photo*

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

If she was fit. I'd probably find it quite cheeky and funny.

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By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You

Better having just a cheesy grin, works better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Perhaps I should have said the profiler is male,although sex/gender of them shouldn't matter as everyone would be possible of posing like that,but reading replies,consensus seems to be it's a turn off

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It depends (as it usually does with me) if the rest of their profile appealed and the message piqued my interest and the avatar was ironic in some way then it wouldn't put me off no.

As ever context is key

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it sums up a general attitude and its one I rather like. I find it infinitely preferable to the sychophancy that goes on in the forum.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Would you consider chatting (possibly leading too a meeting) with someone who's only picture on profile is them smiling smugly and giving you the middle finger gesture ??

Only if they have big tits.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Depends if it’s cheeky or agggressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah

I’d wanna bounce on that middle finger

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Yeah

I’d wanna bounce on that middle finger "

*undeletes photo*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would anyone do that??

When I read about rude, I was wondering if it only meant explicit or something real rude such as sc.at play.

I've been taken aback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it sums up a general attitude and its one I rather like. I find it infinitely preferable to the sychophancy that goes on in the forum. "

Are you calling my a sycho?

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Probably not. It's not very welcoming and smacks of an overinflated ego.

I've seen this on a couple of womens' profiles and straight away thought "no thanks" and moved on.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I think I know exactly the profile

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think it sums up a general attitude and its one I rather like. I find it infinitely preferable to the sychophancy that goes on in the forum.

Are you calling my a sycho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It depends (as it usually does with me) if the rest of their profile appealed and the message piqued my interest and the avatar was ironic in some way then it wouldn't put me off no.

As ever context is key"

Agreed. Though my sense of humour is not really aligned with the subject of the picture I'd still give them a chance of all else aligned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just seen a new picture,profiler looking rather smug,with closed fist and middle finger stuck up.

I just dont see why anyone would find that an attraction in a profile picture to get your attention,in a good way

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"It depends (as it usually does with me) if the rest of their profile appealed and the message piqued my interest and the avatar was ironic in some way then it wouldn't put me off no.

As ever context is key"

this^

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Just seen a new picture,profiler looking rather smug,with closed fist and middle finger stuck up.

I just dont see why anyone would find that an attraction in a profile picture to get your attention,in a good way

Because judging on face value is extremely limiting. Do I find their face attractive? Yes so I'll take a look, not holding any hopes though as its highly likely based on the pic we won't mesh well. Then I'd make further decision based on what I see in their profile and further interactions.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Some folk like the sassy rebellious nature that that sort of pic invokes.

Or maybe they just don’t care what folk think and are just doing their own sweet thing.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

"Would you consider chatting (possibly leading too a meeting) with someone who's only picture on profile is them smiling smugly and giving you the middle finger gesture ??

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is it any worse than a gaping minge leaking fluid which was on one profile ?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'd rather see a middle finger than an unrequested manky cock or minge pic.

Some things are impossible to unsee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on the rest of the profile and the content of the message but whoever it was would be immediately on the back foot with me but not irredeemably so

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Of late ive seen many ladies with pics with the middle finger gesture on there profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. It is a useful filter though and they would be doing us a favour by effectively screaming “Keep away! Danger!”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The picture alone probabky wouldnt put me off... but people who pose with their middle finger up in pictures tend to come with a personality that doesnt attract me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

No. There have been a few of those over the years. I guess it's the reaction of someone who didn't want their pic taken. It makes them look like shit but it doesn't turn the rest of us into flies.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Im sure a female has this one.

Ive seen it in forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen a lot more offensive (to my eyes) pictures than someone flipping the bird. The same rule would apply to anyone, if the guy was obscenely handsome then yeah I’d be up for meeting but would tell him to sort his profile out first or else don’t leave me a verification or expect one from me to show I’ve been there.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Ha ha.. I've got quite a few photos like that myself..so yes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely...shows a bit of character imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you consider chatting (possibly leading too a meeting) with someone who's only picture on profile is them smiling smugly and giving you the middle finger gesture ??

Definitely not & also no to those stupid snapshot Bunny/ dog ears etc

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By *eonnieCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

Nope..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there are lots of profiles showing gaping arseholes and they seem to do quite well. It's no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't judge by that one picture, in my opinion I've seen a lot worse on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A no from me. I think Ive seen the same profile bloke in he’s 30s with the middle finger photo. But it’s better than the one of the man eating shit which was on here few weeks ago

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