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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a meet the other night. I knocked on the door and was invited in. First thing she did was spark up a cigarette which was strange for a "non smoker". Then during our brief chat I realised she was d*unk. Morals got the better of me and I left.

What would you do in that situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She might have been calming her nerves. But if she was hammered then you did the right thing OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With just the information you've given, probably the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With just the information you've given, probably the same.

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Agreed

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By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You


"Had a meet the other night. I knocked on the door and was invited in. First thing she did was spark up a cigarette which was strange for a "non smoker". Then during our brief chat I realised she was d*unk. Morals got the better of me and I left.

What would you do in that situation? "

Leave

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

Given the scenario you've painted I would not have stayed either..

Nerves are one thing, inebriated is something completely different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers forum. I felt pretty uncomfortable and no one should feel that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run

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By *reenlanerCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

Smoking and I would have gone

And how can someone be in control of there situation when d*unk

So good call op

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

Exactly the same. I had a meet a few years ago where once inside and chatting I heard voices from upstairs. She explained that her kids were in and that it was fine. Errrrr NO! I told her this was not what had been arranged and so left despite her insistence. You have a mutual agreement and any deviation without consent is a lack of respect in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the smoking thing.....

I might get shot for this but oh well. I am a smoker, but even then, I wouldn't spark up in front of someone I just met and was a non smoker. That is my guest - I want them to feel comfortable in my home, and I want them to feel honoured as MY guest.

Maybe that is just me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And the smoking thing.....

I might get shot for this but oh well. I am a smoker, but even then, I wouldn't spark up in front of someone I just met and was a non smoker. That is my guest - I want them to feel comfortable in my home, and I want them to feel honoured as MY guest.

Maybe that is just me. "

They worst thing to happen was I had to walk home and got soaked ha.

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