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Men on fab taking rejection to heart

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By *ouch69300 OP   Man
over a year ago

beaconsfield

It’s funny how some men (boys) abuse women all because she says no. You would think they never knew one gave birth to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s funny how some men (boys) abuse women all because she says no. You would think they never knew one gave birth to them. "

I’ve been on and off here for many years and never have I known it so bad with the insults when you say thanks but no thanks

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West


"It’s funny how some men (boys) abuse women all because she says no. You would think they never knew one gave birth to them. "
Not sure what you mean.

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By *ouch69300 OP   Man
over a year ago

beaconsfield

Like she’s going to turn around and change her mind.

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West

Putting everything else to one side.

Stunning tits..

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By *ouch69300 OP   Man
over a year ago

beaconsfield

What part?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like she’s going to turn around and change her mind. "

How far she turning? 360 to face same way?

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By *ouch69300 OP   Man
over a year ago

beaconsfield

You’re one of them right? lol

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

It just takes the block button, then move on. No unnecessary drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No seems to mean a definite maybe for some, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block, Delete, Repeat....

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Even as a man on here I find it difficult to hear that guys are so bad mannered.

Would they like their sister, mother, daughter, best female friend spoken to that way????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite was when i first joined and I politely declined a guy, who then decided to tell me that I was an ignorant c**t and up myself, then he blocked me.

Apparently saying no thank you wasn’t what he wanted to hear. Such a delightful man x

Viv x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its because they have small cocks and know people cant smack them in the mouths. He he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to pick men that like women, not just love/ lust after them.

I am proactive and get rejected but I handle it.

The same cannot be said for some men, and some women for that matter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get abuse when I delete messages unread.

I’ve never got much abuse on here ever.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"ayou would think they never knew one gave birth to them. "

WHAT?!!!!

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

If i get a thanks but not for me i just say hope you find what your after. After all no point in being rude or nasty cause i know im not to everyones taste

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By *rctopusMan
over a year ago

Borehamwood

Women have to pick you, as well as your picking them. I'm perfectlu fine with a deleted message.

However, I have to mention the utterly gorgeous woman in Surbiton who turned me down with the kindest message, proving that she is as lovely as she is beautiful.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

New to fab and it takes a lot to shock me but wow. The abuse I’ve gotten when being nice and say No Thanks. It’s not a challenge to change my mind or convince me that I actually do want to sub to an utter asshole who clearly doesn’t understand No.

I’m learning to block and delete now but one guy went so far as to set up a new profile to call me a fat jealous *unt and a prick tease. Maybe I should have told him that I wasn’t interested as he was too skinny and his grammar was bad

I’ve gotten less abuse from my teenager.

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I've not had many bad messages on here, 99% of rejections have been a polite decline or just a deleted message. But the bad nasty messages I have had have mostly been from women when calling me a freak and why am I on here I should be on the gay site! Doesn't bother me, I just delete and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They like to have an angry wank I'm sure. I won't entertain it. Instantly block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive not even rejected and had abuse simply for what was written on my profile

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I've not had a single abusive message when I've said no thanks.

In fact, I've not had any abuse full stop. I've had a bit weird, but no abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive not even rejected and had abuse simply for what was written on my profile

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Rejection doesn’t bother me ! But people letting me down or wasting my time does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get this anymore as I answer then block. Easiest way. Saves the abuse and you know you’re not interested if you’ve blocked them.

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By *horley ChickWoman
over a year ago

Chorley


"I've not had many bad messages on here, 99% of rejections have been a polite decline or just a deleted message. But the bad nasty messages I have had have mostly been from women when calling me a freak and why am I on here I should be on the gay site! Doesn't bother me, I just delete and block "

Yup - people forget that it isn’t always single males who are the baddies - there are plenty of nasty ladies and couples too - they just don’t get called out as often!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive not even rejected and had abuse simply for what was written on my profile

Rejection doesn’t bother me ! But people letting me down or wasting my time does"

which is understandable if arrangements have been made

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood


"Even as a man on here I find it difficult to hear that guys are so bad mannered.

Would they like their sister, mother, daughter, best female friend spoken to that way???? "

if someone spike to my female mates like that each one of them is more than capable of kicking there bollox in for them

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

When I rejected one guy he told me I was a fake (despite my veris) and that he was going to make me very sorry.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Years of nightclub rejection in the 90’s has prepared me well to accept it

And appreciate it more when I don’t get it

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Even as a man on here I find it difficult to hear that guys are so bad mannered.

Would they like their sister, mother, daughter, best female friend spoken to that way????

if someone spike to my female mates like that each one of them is more than capable of kicking there bollox in for them "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say "no thankyou" then block as Sadly I get so much nasty abuse back. I know not everyones like it but i cant take that chance x

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens


"I don’t get this anymore as I answer then block. Easiest way. Saves the abuse and you know you’re not interested if you’ve blocked them. "

Well you havent blocked me nora xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get this anymore as I answer then block. Easiest way. Saves the abuse and you know you’re not interested if you’ve blocked them.

Well you havent blocked me nora xx "

As if Baz!! I’ve lots of friends on here too and you know you’re one of them

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I've not had many bad messages on here, 99% of rejections have been a polite decline or just a deleted message. But the bad nasty messages I have had have mostly been from women when calling me a freak and why am I on here I should be on the gay site! Doesn't bother me, I just delete and block

Yup - people forget that it isn’t always single males who are the baddies - there are plenty of nasty ladies and couples too - they just don’t get called out as often! "

There are more males on here and I do think they are a lot worse, even if it's not just to do with rejection, just being c*nts for no reason...and give the nice guys a bad rep!

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens


"I don’t get this anymore as I answer then block. Easiest way. Saves the abuse and you know you’re not interested if you’ve blocked them.

Well you havent blocked me nora xx

As if Baz!! I’ve lots of friends on here too and you know you’re one of them "

its a lovely pleasure nora xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women get rejected too.

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not just men

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Hey sometimes it a natural reaction, but then u have to grab hold of yrself and remind ur self what this site and scene all about ... it’s only like getting blown out in a pub on a Friday night, it happens ... no one like rejection but it’s the way u handle it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was called a slag last week for saying no thankyou .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s funny how some men (boys) abuse women all because she says no. You would think they never knew one gave birth to them. "
you're kidding...... see you learn something new every day here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We take a no answer or a delete as not interested and that's fine with us, no need for anyone to pester or abuse anyone but we certainly don't block unless we get abuse or haven't been arsed to read the profile.

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