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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?

Or would you not bother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?

Or would you not bother? "

Don't do hard to get ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?

Or would you not bother? "

Id not bother and move on

I have a short attention span and dont like games. ( unless its me playing them)

cali

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?

Or would you not bother? "

I'd move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?

Or would you not bother? "

Is it part of a role play ?

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

whats the point of playing hard to get,you either do or you dont want someone,i would move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was just random question that came into my head whilst driving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id tell them to jog on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was just random question that came into my head whilst driving "

you surf and use forum while driving ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block/delete/NEXT!

Harsh perhaps, but who has the time for that? I don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was just random question that came into my head whilst driving

you surf and use forum while driving ?"

No it came to my head whilst driving and then I posted it when I got home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was just random question that came into my head whilst driving

you surf and use forum while driving ?"

not sure i played hard to get but i have not been attracted to asian guys befoe oreo so had i don't meet asian guys on my profile which he didn't ignore but he was friendly a friend from here said i would like him as a person and the rest is history xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?

Or would you not bother? "

I wouldn't bother its a swinging site not blind date and only insecure people ask you to prove you want them! Bin em.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I sometimes ask newbies to verify their pics before I'll chat to them. But I don't consider that to be playing hard to get, simply that I know how many set up a profile, have a good look around and chat, then disappear never to be seen again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with the female to male ratio.. wouldnt surprise me if some females were up themselves a little and decided to play the 'well why should i meet you/what makes YOU different from the rest of the guys on here' card

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends if it was playing hard to get or thinking of how to prove it

maybe be person is thinking depends how the mind works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this now a dating site lol or a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this now a dating site lol or a swingers site "

some think its a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?

Or would you not bother?

Id not bother and move on

I have a short attention span and dont like games. ( unless its me playing them)

cali "

depends how you like the game played teasing and pushing on pressure can be fun and so errotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the person just like the whole game side of it. Carrot and stick type thing. They probably have no intention of meeting you deep down but get a thrill from you chasing them.

Ask them a date they are free to meet and if the excuses still come then move on!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with the female to male ratio.. wouldnt surprise me if some females were up themselves a little and decided to play the 'well why should i meet you/what makes YOU different from the rest of the guys on here' card"

this i understand but most men can be the same as well as the couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the person just like the whole game side of it. Carrot and stick type thing. They probably have no intention of meeting you deep down but get a thrill from you chasing them.

Ask them a date they are free to meet and if the excuses still come then move on!!! "

date lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ide play hard to get back to and not communicate with them ...do you think that could be a reason why my offers of meets have dried up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the person just like the whole game side of it. Carrot and stick type thing. They probably have no intention of meeting you deep down but get a thrill from you chasing them.

Ask them a date they are free to meet and if the excuses still come then move on!!!

date lmao"

a date jesus nooooooo that involves a coffee and a maybe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the person just like the whole game side of it. Carrot and stick type thing. They probably have no intention of meeting you deep down but get a thrill from you chasing them.

Ask them a date they are free to meet and if the excuses still come then move on!!!

date lmao

a date jesus nooooooo that involves a coffee and a maybe lol "

erm coffee and a call me maybe is a date

fuck all wrong with a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

issac id call that a social not a date lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with the female to male ratio.. wouldnt surprise me if some females were up themselves a little and decided to play the 'well why should i meet you/what makes YOU different from the rest of the guys on here' card"

The person u refer to sounds like someone looking for a relationship rather than a right good rodgering i dunno i think these fake swingers are ruining the site aint there date sites for such soul mate searchers. why they gotta make me out to be the liar all the time they cost me a fortune having to have me car tyres replaced from slashing them ..when all ive been is honest from the start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The person u refer to sounds like someone looking for a relationship rather than a right good rodgering i dunno i think these fake swingers are ruining the site aint there date sites for such soul mate searchers. why they gotta make me out to be the liar all the time they cost me a fortune having to have me car tyres replaced from slashing them ..when all ive been is honest from the start "

i have had people outside my work declaring love and forever when i told them it was NSA sex nothing more.

yet im happy with nsa sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with the female to male ratio.. wouldnt surprise me if some females were up themselves a little and decided to play the 'well why should i meet you/what makes YOU different from the rest of the guys on here' card

The person u refer to sounds like someone looking for a relationship rather than a right good rodgering i dunno i think these fake swingers are ruining the site aint there date sites for such soul mate searchers. why they gotta make me out to be the liar all the time they cost me a fortune having to have me car tyres replaced from slashing them ..when all ive been is honest from the start "

what? i wasn't referring to anyone specific just making a presumption about how some women might use the site to select the best man for them. Its not even a negative thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"issac id call that a social not a date lol"

i bn swinging so long date dont compute lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?

Or would you not bother? "

depends....do you really want them enough to jump through hoops like a circus dog?

What are they offering to do to show you how much they want you?

surely if you want each other badly enough silly games would not be needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's only room for one diva in our lives

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So the general consensus would be tell them to jog on and move on to the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the general consensus would be tell them to jog on and move on to the next. "

looks that way

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i still say it depends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the general consensus would be tell them to jog on and move on to the next. "

depends as how much u like her and want to rattle her bones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the general consensus would be tell them to jog on and move on to the next.

depends as how much u like her and want to rattle her bones "

guess its up to the individual and if you enjoy the thrill of the chase.. just make sure your not going to be dangled on a thread, teased and left disappointed

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

if she dissapoints i'll make it aaaaaaalllllll better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if she dissapoints i'll make it aaaaaaalllllll better "

baby you know you make it better for me

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I don't play games. I'd just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if she dissapoints i'll make it aaaaaaalllllll better "

hahaha

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?

Or would you not bother? "
Hard to get is a waste of time....delete block n move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can tell this is a fantasy thread.. a man getting a message??? Yeah right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?

Or would you not bother? Hard to get is a waste of time....delete block n move on "

sometimes timings dont allow it. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to know how the op would prove that he wanted someone...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id like to know how the op would prove that he wanted someone... "

Having thought about it, I don't think I would be forced into proving it. I know I'm a nice guy and therefore it would be their loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id tell them to jog on

"

Oh I don't do jogging.......... Ever! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id tell them to jog on

Oh I don't do jogging.......... Ever! Lol"

how about walking slowly... in my direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends upon the nature in which the statement is made. If it was part of a role play scenario, I'd have no problem with it whatsoever, provided I had the time, sex is best with variety. If however it was a serious real life statement then I would hand them some jogging bottoms and point them in a direction other than the one I was standing...

I think some do treat this site as a dating site, but there's more women who do this than men as women generally are more often hard-wired to think "monogamous relationship". Any man who joined this site looking for dates would be rather foolish considering if he joined a relationship site instead the odds would be tipped the other way in his favour?...

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'd get a club and woo them 'caveman style'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am a very definate person when it comes to meeting

'yes' is ok

'no' is ok

'hmmm i'm not really too sure' doesn't compute and the conversation would end there

i don't do chasing, irregardless of how much i like the look of someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would file it under C

Can't be arsed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The time I have available to play is very limited, so I most probably would have to give it a miss. Whilst I love the build up to a meet, flirting, messaging etc, to have to play games or jump through hoops doesnt appeal in the slightest! In fact I'd find it quite demeaning.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"i am a very definate person when it comes to meeting

'yes' is ok

'no' is ok

'hmmm i'm not really too sure' doesn't compute and the conversation would end there

i don't do chasing, irregardless of how much i like the look of someone"

You chased me up the escalator at a certain store

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am a very definate person when it comes to meeting

'yes' is ok

'no' is ok

'hmmm i'm not really too sure' doesn't compute and the conversation would end there

i don't do chasing, irregardless of how much i like the look of someone

You chased me up the escalator at a certain store "

but was i chasing you or was it just the smell of the freshly baked scones ?

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

Single male, no verification

Define hard to get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a swingers site

delete block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hard to gets alot more fun in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

okok let's put this to bed.

The forum thread was aimed at me no I havent took offence as was some harmless fun

I'm no cock teaser or looking for love (god forbid)

He knows when our schedules alinge we are gonna meet and FUCK and he knows its a defente not a maybe.

Yes its a swingers site for sex hence why I'm here I'm not looking for dates or love like some are!!!

So the OP name the date your free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well that killed the thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he wanted to know and i think i made it clear so end of this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he wanted to know and i think i made it clear so end of this thread "

enjoy yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he wanted to know and i think i made it clear so end of this thread "
Whats the point of publicly airing a disagreement which is clearly between 2 specific parties,just discuss between yourselves, our point of views wont make any difference!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he wanted to know and i think i made it clear so end of this thread Whats the point of publicly airing a disagreement which is clearly between 2 specific parties,just discuss between yourselves, our point of views wont make any difference!!"

its just good to see how other people would deal with a similar situation. Just a talking point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he wanted to know and i think i made it clear so end of this thread Whats the point of publicly airing a disagreement which is clearly between 2 specific parties,just discuss between yourselves, our point of views wont make any difference!!"

wasn't a disagreement at all was a joke thread in a way and it was taken out on context. theres been no slating or slagging anyone off or no naming and shaming.

it was a how would u means could mean anything. Have you thought i actually could be cocksure and wrong that it was aimed at me and i could have assumed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shes gotta shag him now the OP called her out on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"shes gotta shag him now the OP called her out on it "

i have never denied wanting to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought cute and letsbe were annoyingly seeing each other and taking a break from swinging, if he's meeting other people, then does that mean I can seduce the crap out of Sassy and give her what I've ony dreamed of xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought cute and letsbe were annoyingly seeing each other and taking a break from swinging, if he's meeting other people, then does that mean I can seduce the crap out of Sassy and give her what I've ony dreamed of xxx"

it was news to me, but if he's meeting others then why not lol

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over a year ago

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?

Or would you not bother? "

Hard to get ??

Someone said no to you?

Are we becoming a little stalkery ?

Take NO the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god you know i would be round there like a shot xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like to play games with people.

A no means no from me, not a may be if you can prove to me that you are worth my while etc., and I usually block at the same time to prevent future contacts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"god you know i would be round there like a shot xx"

flattered

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