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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..there seem to be more and more people posting on the forums about stuff that make you go YUK !!!! I know I should just pass by the threads that have warning signs all over them but I havnt so far and some of the topics really are gross!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out of interest - what posts make you think 'yuk' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what topics are they then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..there seem to be more and more people posting on the forums about stuff that make you go YUK !!!! I know I should just pass by the threads that have warning signs all over them but I havnt so far and some of the topics really are gross!! "
the really bad ones are prob fake profiles, there's one in the other room about if a bloke should give his dead brothers wife "Anel" I Thiught it was funny to be honest but most are just too far out to even respond to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ... Welcome back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass the YUK threads and go to the ones that make you go mmmmm

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..there seem to be more and more people posting on the forums about stuff that make you go YUK !!!! I know I should just pass by the threads that have warning signs all over them but I havnt so far and some of the topics really are gross!! "

Seems to be fuel for an already strained system. Even the so called elite have "Help" statuses....once upon a time, People wer loved and Possessions meant little....reversal of our times now....You are what you drive/own.....yet another display that wer all false at heart!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest its up to the individuals how they use fabs I very rarely use fabs to meet am a chams girl but I enjoy the chat and the banter on the forums yes it dips from time to time. But that is life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..there seem to be more and more people posting on the forums about stuff that make you go YUK !!!! I know I should just pass by the threads that have warning signs all over them but I havnt so far and some of the topics really are gross!! "

Don't you like McDonald's then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or start your own thread that's not yuk

... this onedoesn't count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..there seem to be more and more people posting on the forums about stuff that make you go YUK !!!! I know I should just pass by the threads that have warning signs all over them but I havnt so far and some of the topics really are gross!! "

Lots more attention seekers that's for sure. Do as I do and avoid most of them as its just not worth the hassle.

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..there seem to be more and more people posting on the forums about stuff that make you go YUK !!!! I know I should just pass by the threads that have warning signs all over them but I havnt so far and some of the topics really are gross!! the really bad ones are prob fake profiles, there's one in the other room about if a bloke should give his dead brothers wife "Anel" I Thiught it was funny to be honest but most are just too far out to even respond to. "

Sadly its human nature to laugh at misfortune....ever seen the guy that straddles the bar and crushes his knackers? Tell us you didnt snigger!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think some people take things far too seriously. have been on other sites that were rubish compared to this one, and they charged more.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

well you just added to moaning thread tally nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..there seem to be more and more people posting on the forums about stuff that make you go YUK !!!! I know I should just pass by the threads that have warning signs all over them but I havnt so far and some of the topics really are gross!! "
We have been on this site in one form or another for about 3 years, it was really good in the beginning but have to say its some people and not the site which spoils it, I know people make up the site, but some just seem to get some pleasure out of being rude and dismissive of others, shame as the idea is really good and if people made less rules about meeting it would be a darn site better, you read some peoples list and in cases they will only meet a white Nigerian dwearf ove 6 feet lol

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"i think some people take things far too seriously. have been on other sites that were rubish compared to this one, and they charged more."

Its a great site, well done to the owners for keeping it free to join and use....some of the peeps tho......

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By *occosboysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

Mmm couldnt disagree more, I replied directly to a Fem about a fantasy and a few daytheatre we were enacting it.. Nothing too gross but not the usual vanilla either

Not bad considering I have avoided the forums for over a year

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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if people made less rules about meeting it would be a darn site better, you read some peoples list and in cases they will only meet a white Nigerian dwearf ove 6 feet lol "

So its ok for you to have rules on your profile, but not other people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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if people made less rules about meeting it would be a darn site better, you read some peoples list and in cases they will only meet a white Nigerian dwearf ove 6 feet lol

So its ok for you to have rules on your profile, but not other people?"

Ive got a picture of a ruler on my profile.....it was free in a kinder egg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all subjective, you may not enjoy it at the moment but the next person will and then you will and they won't, a classic case of you can't please all of the people all of the time

My advice would be just sit back and peruse until you see it getting back to how you prefer to use it then jump back in, well that's what I do anyhoo and we have been knocking around these ere forums for donkeys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do people start reading something that they know is going to offend them, read the whole thing and then moan about it? If you know your not going to like it ignore it and don't even open the thread.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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if people made less rules about meeting it would be a darn site better, you read some peoples list and in cases they will only meet a white Nigerian dwearf ove 6 feet lol

So its ok for you to have rules on your profile, but not other people?

Ive got a picture of a ruler on my profile.....it was free in a kinder egg "

I havent looked but please dont tell me its lined up next to your cock...

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

Like anything else or any other site things will change, i have been on here years and seen many changes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people start reading something that they know is going to offend them, read the whole thing and then moan about it? If you know your not going to like it ignore it and don't even open the thread. "

Because some people ar career moaners and can't get through the day unless they've voiced their disgust at one thing or another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like anything else or any other site things will change, i have been on here years and seen many changes.. "

Evoloution

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Topics aren't gross!

They have a hazelnut in every bite!

Now Milky bars, they are gross BOAKKK!

Good choccie thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..

snip

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Please feel free to steer it back to the Fab you knew and loved, or at least the portion of it you want. The framework is there for all, but only the people can make the Fab site trully FAB...

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"why do people start reading something that they know is going to offend them, read the whole thing and then moan about it? If you know your not going to like it ignore it and don't even open the thread. "

Intrigue i guess, the need to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like anything else or any other site things will change, i have been on here years and seen many changes.. "

agree.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


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The framework is there for all, but only the people can make the Fab site trully FAB..."

Seconded - Fabs like most think "evolves" and changes depending on who is part of it and in a way that is part of the excitement I feel. Seeing new people, new forum posters and the way some conversations go when different people are involved. Its a dynamic thing, a process and yeah, its good that it is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pass the YUK threads and go to the ones that make you go mmmmm "

i hear ya

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"Like anything else or any other site things will change, i have been on here years and seen many changes..

agree. "

Absolutely

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..there seem to be more and more people posting on the forums about stuff that make you go YUK !!!! I know I should just pass by the threads that have warning signs all over them but I havnt so far and some of the topics really are gross!! We have been on this site in one form or another for about 3 years, it was really good in the beginning but have to say its some people and not the site which spoils it, I know people make up the site, but some just seem to get some pleasure out of being rude and dismissive of others, shame as the idea is really good and if people made less rules about meeting it would be a darn site better, you read some peoples list and in cases they will only meet a white Nigerian dwearf ove 6 feet lol "

You've been reading my profile haven't you I don't mind if it's a Rwandan white 6ft+ dwarf (I know, I know - lowering my standards)

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..there seem to be more and more people posting on the forums about stuff that make you go YUK !!!! I know I should just pass by the threads that have warning signs all over them but I havnt so far and some of the topics really are gross!! We have been on this site in one form or another for about 3 years, it was really good in the beginning but have to say its some people and not the site which spoils it, I know people make up the site, but some just seem to get some pleasure out of being rude and dismissive of others, shame as the idea is really good and if people made less rules about meeting it would be a darn site better, you read some peoples list and in cases they will only meet a white Nigerian dwearf ove 6 feet lol

You've been reading my profile haven't you I don't mind if it's a Rwandan white 6ft+ dwarf (I know, I know - lowering my standards) "

I think I've met him but he didn't do black. His loss.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..there seem to be more and more people posting on the forums about stuff that make you go YUK !!!! I know I should just pass by the threads that have warning signs all over them but I havnt so far and some of the topics really are gross!! "

There is a phrase that springs to mind... If everyone waits on someone else to do something, in the end nothing gets done...

So you can be reactive and wait ..... Or be proactive and do something about it

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple
over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..there seem to be more and more people posting on the forums about stuff that make you go YUK !!!! I know I should just pass by the threads that have warning signs all over them but I havnt so far and some of the topics really are gross!!

There is a phrase that springs to mind... If everyone waits on someone else to do something, in the end nothing gets done...

So you can be reactive and wait ..... Or be proactive and do something about it "

Most do that when you message then with interest lol....time to get proactive people...but a reaction is cool too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... these ere forums for donkeys "

Bouncy!! ... we're not ALL donkeys!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..there seem to be more and more people posting on the forums about stuff that make you go YUK !!!! I know I should just pass by the threads that have warning signs all over them but I havnt so far and some of the topics really are gross!! "

Did you really think that everything and everybody would be just as you left it?

I think I know what you mean about gross posts.

I really do believe that people confuse swinging with something else. Something that says 'anything goes' and if you don't agree with it then you are a fuddy duddy vanilla.

Some things ARE just gross they ARE unnaceptable to the majority, swingers included. Here - no one want's to be the one that speaks their mind.

Just because porn on the net shows an act ( some depraved ) doesn't mean that 'swingers' are or should be doing it.

Sex is sex n filth is filth. Yes Yes I know ..... one womans filth is another woman's sex but there are topics raised here that people wouldn't raise in company. I

Who was it up above who said.... do nothing and summat sommat summat ?

That's true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get out what you put in .. get to know people and you feel part of this site .. I have been on other sites and some are just so clicky ....... just dont look at the postS and read if you dont like ... its a real mix here .. and thats what makes it fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur never gonna please everyone all of the time.... Simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was on this site a few years ago .decided to come back as was a bit lacking in the "date " dept,but im not sure I should have come back as the old fab I knew and loved seems to have disappeared..there seem to be more and more people posting on the forums about stuff that make you go YUK !!!! I know I should just pass by the threads that have warning signs all over them but I havnt so far and some of the topics really are gross!!

Did you really think that everything and everybody would be just as you left it?

I think I know what you mean about gross posts.

I really do believe that people confuse swinging with something else. Something that says 'anything goes' and if you don't agree with it then you are a fuddy duddy vanilla.

Some things ARE just gross they ARE unnaceptable to the majority, swingers included. Here - no one want's to be the one that speaks their mind.

Just because porn on the net shows an act ( some depraved ) doesn't mean that 'swingers' are or should be doing it.

Sex is sex n filth is filth. Yes Yes I know ..... one womans filth is another woman's sex but there are topics raised here that people wouldn't raise in company. I

Who was it up above who said.... do nothing and summat sommat summat ?

That's true. "

i think you got what i meant ...some things are just plain rude or disgusting , even if they are meant as a wind up..and I'm not from Tunbridge Wells . Im back on here for a bit of entertainment but just havnt found the spark FAB used to have ,,but of course that just my opinion ...wouldnt want to force it on any one else ...I was "just Saying " thats all folks ......

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