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The smell of a man....

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

....or woman? I've (N) been told that I'm a bit weird because I put a lot of value into what a guy smells like. And I mean the natural smell, not aftershaves etc. My husband smells absolutely divine and when he used to work away, I'd sleep with one of his jumpers or his dressing gown so I'd have his smell there. My "it's complicated" fwb found it odd when I said his smell was attractive...

So, am I a weirdo, or do others find themselves attracted by the natural smell of a guy (or a woman, but have no preference in that regard myself)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you aren't strange. I love the natural smell of a bloke I am close to who is obviously clean (if that makes sense?).

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No you are not weird. It's science that attracts person to person. Pheromones. LOVE is a chemical attraction. It's the driving part of the brain. It's very little to do with emotion and faces as some people think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....or woman? I've (N) been told that I'm a bit weird because I put a lot of value into what a guy smells like. And I mean the natural smell, not aftershaves etc. My husband smells absolutely divine and when he used to work away, I'd sleep with one of his jumpers or his dressing gown so I'd have his smell there. My "it's complicated" fwb found it odd when I said his smell was attractive...

So, am I a weirdo, or do others find themselves attracted by the natural smell of a guy (or a woman, but have no preference in that regard myself)? "

Definitely weird. Seek help

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm a biologist so the pheromones thing and science behind it fascinates me. It's just a few comments and conversations with others that got me wondering how many other people are attracted significantly by smell? Intriguing in my view, but I am a geek

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Not weird at all... Evolution hardwired us to produce and respond to pheromones.... These are masked by odour producing bacteria when we are dirty or by heavy perfume or aftershave... Incidentally this is part of the reason women are especially attractive during ovulation and pregnancy their body is trying extra hard to attract a partner in the first instance, and to keep their partner in the second..... Sorry I collect useless information....

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

Not useless, very interesting to geeky biology people like me

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Awesome.... I felt a bit silly, teaching you to suck eggs, once I read you're a biologist lol... ps Geeky is very sexy these days xx

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Awesome.... I felt a bit silly, teaching you to suck eggs, once I read you're a biologist lol... ps Geeky is very sexy these days xx"

Don't feel silly! Just because I'm a bio geek doesn't mean I know everything and I like discussing such things anyway. We're a geeky pair, we'd each say the other is sexy too

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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You're not weird at all. When I'm really attracted to/care about someone the natural smell of them is intoxicating, far better than any man made fragrance. It's an odd combination of comforting and arousing.

I met an absolutely beautiful man once, with the most incredible voice, hair, arms, wonderful hands etc etc buuut I couldn't get past the fact that he smelled like wet goat to me and I didn't find him sexually attractive at all me. My friends were swooning over him but he stayed as wet goat man for me.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I don’t consciously notice someone’s smell most of the time, but when I’ve met someone a few times it’s like I can get their scent from ten feet away and it’s sexy as hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One man ... I could smell him before getting up the stairs. It was the most gorgeous aftershave (yes I know this is about natural smells)

It was intoxicating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very much so. Both attracted and put off.

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By *k82Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While stood hugging my box of Budweiser in the coop last night I felt the presence of someone approaching me from behind in the cue then this smell, this glorious smell wafted past my nose. I almost turned to ask her which perfume she was wearing as I loved it but stopped when I realised that was probably a creepy thing to do.

In short yes a smell can turn my head

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By *lay-full-funCouple
over a year ago

stockport

No I am the the same if danny goes on a biker weekend I use one of his t-shirts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever came across this once, 46 years ago.

It was my first indulgence into full penetrative sex, the local bike lol. But there was this smell about her, a natural aroma, it was lovely.

To this day, in my twilight years, that smell, albeit rarely, suddenly appears, I think of her, and the times we shared. And then it's gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smell like vinegar when I’m ill otherwise there is no smell at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear a slight dash of my favourite aftershave all the time so most of my stuff smells like Terre D’hermes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a habit of inhaling through my nose when I walk past a woman I find attractive, to catch her scent...It’s extremely important my partner smells good to me. Not weird at all but if it is I can live with that

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

This might sound very weird but I love smelling mens body hair, like I like getting my nose all up in their armpits or pubes and taking in the smell, not BO, but that manly musky smell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smell my fwb head all the time. Her hair smells lovely

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West


"This might sound very weird but I love smelling mens body hair, like I like getting my nose all up in their armpits or pubes and taking in the smell, not BO, but that manly musky smell "

I do this with S all the time

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I've only ever came across this once, 46 years ago.

It was my first indulgence into full penetrative sex, the local bike lol. But there was this smell about her, a natural aroma, it was lovely.

To this day, in my twilight years, that smell, albeit rarely, suddenly appears, I think of her, and the times we shared. And then it's gone. "

This is actually really sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only ever came across this once, 46 years ago.

It was my first indulgence into full penetrative sex, the local bike lol. But there was this smell about her, a natural aroma, it was lovely.

To this day, in my twilight years, that smell, albeit rarely, suddenly appears, I think of her, and the times we shared. And then it's gone.

This is actually really sweet "

And would you believe it, I found her again on Facefuck last year.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

aha...I know exactly what you mean...I recall getting really turned on by an armpit once..

If anyone can recommend a decent male pheromone, not ridiculously expensive like the sex shops sell...which are often not very good either ..let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....or woman? I've (N) been told that I'm a bit weird because I put a lot of value into what a guy smells like. And I mean the natural smell, not aftershaves etc. My husband smells absolutely divine and when he used to work away, I'd sleep with one of his jumpers or his dressing gown so I'd have his smell there. My "it's complicated" fwb found it odd when I said his smell was attractive...

So, am I a weirdo, or do others find themselves attracted by the natural smell of a guy (or a woman, but have no preference in that regard myself)? "

No I don’t think you’re weird in the slightest. I ask men who I’m going to meet not to have any chemicals on their skin. Need to smell them to see if we’re compatible and this often is one of the deciding factors in my decision whether to meet them again or not

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West


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No I don’t think you’re weird in the slightest. I ask men who I’m going to meet not to have any chemicals on their skin. Need to smell them to see if we’re compatible and this often is one of the deciding factors in my decision whether to meet them again or not "

Glad it's not just me then! I'd agree with preferring to smell their natural smell without perfumery to mask it. I don't particularly like aftershaves or other scents on men (again, maybe odd?!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No I don’t think you’re weird in the slightest. I ask men who I’m going to meet not to have any chemicals on their skin. Need to smell them to see if we’re compatible and this often is one of the deciding factors in my decision whether to meet them again or not

Glad it's not just me then! I'd agree with preferring to smell their natural smell without perfumery to mask it. I don't particularly like aftershaves or other scents on men (again, maybe odd?!) "

Nope. Still not odd. You’re going to have to try harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely wear aftershave. Not really sure what my natural smell smells like though! Nobody has ever mentioned it before! Maybe I stink?!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not weird. I love sniffing a fellas armpit. And neck. And hair (head and pubes)

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West


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No I don’t think you’re weird in the slightest. I ask men who I’m going to meet not to have any chemicals on their skin. Need to smell them to see if we’re compatible and this often is one of the deciding factors in my decision whether to meet them again or not

Glad it's not just me then! I'd agree with preferring to smell their natural smell without perfumery to mask it. I don't particularly like aftershaves or other scents on men (again, maybe odd?!)

Nope. Still not odd. You’re going to have to try harder "

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I very rarely wear aftershave. Not really sure what my natural smell smells like though! Nobody has ever mentioned it before! Maybe I stink?! "
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If you were closer, I'd be happy to give you a sniff and find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I very rarely wear aftershave. Not really sure what my natural smell smells like though! Nobody has ever mentioned it before! Maybe I stink?! .

If you were closer, I'd be happy to give you a sniff and find out "

Awww fanks!

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By *ynetaurusMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Fellas..With a clean fresh hanky put small spray of good quality aftershave and put it under your clean armpit for ten mins then use any excuse to have your lady friend use it ...wipe her cheek or chin or some such excuse as the deadly combination of after shave and your natural scent will have a big impact....

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I much prefer natural man smell to aftershave.

Especially when you nuzzle (is that even a word) when they're warm.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I like Mr N's natural smell. I worked with a woman who was married to a miller and the smell of flour turned her on because her husband came home smelling of it every day.

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I much prefer natural man smell to aftershave.

Especially when you nuzzle (is that even a word) when they're warm."

Nuzzle is definitely a thing. A really lovely, snuggly thing

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"I much prefer natural man smell to aftershave.

Especially when you nuzzle (is that even a word) when they're warm.

Nuzzle is definitely a thing. A really lovely, snuggly thing "

Yeah like a snuggle, with your nose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the smell that she leaves on my skin, the subtle yet very distinct scent which is utterly unique.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Pheromones are definitely a thing & I would agree with the cycle/hornyness correlation. I'm definitely worse the week before as if it's a last ditch attempt by my body to attract a "mate".

I much prefer a natural smell, however there is one scent, that few men wear...it'll always give me that momentary pause to enjoy..I have no idea what it is though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the smell of man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love his smell, when you have that clean showered scent mixed with their natural musk it’s intoxicating! x

Viv x

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Could have saved a fortune on my Creed

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Could have saved a fortune on my Creed "

Its been interesting to read how many people like a nice, natural smell rather than an artificial scent. And clearly I'm not weird (well, not on this basis, anyway )

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"Could have saved a fortune on my Creed

Its been interesting to read how many people like a nice, natural smell rather than an artificial scent. And clearly I'm not weird (well, not on this basis, anyway ) "

But in Creeds defence it is the best after shave by a country mile. But at £280 a bottle it should be

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North West

Is it bad that I know so little about aftershave that I'd never heard of it?! I hope it's the best smell in the world at that price

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I adore the smell of my bf, his natural smell and his aftershave. Missing it at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anither weirdo smeller here! I think it's a natural instinct. I've been attracted to and turned off by smell alone, though it took me a while to work out what as off or so hot about it at the time.

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