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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am a sucker for are older woman I do think it’s super sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jolly good for you old sport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a sucker for are older woman I do think it’s super sexy "

Just a tip though. Don't call them older

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Why’s that then OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pronounced mature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's pronounced mature "

No, it isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's pronounced mature

No, it isn't "

He meant seasoned.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Drop the labels ....... sheesh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dunno I just prefer it to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drop the labels ....... sheesh"

Exactly. I'm a woman. That is all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you call them then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women

If I get referred to as older, mature, seasoned, cougar, well, don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out, that's all I'm saying.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Women

If I get referred to as older, mature, seasoned, cougar, well, don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out, that's all I'm saying."
you’re not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women

If I get referred to as older, mature, seasoned, cougar, well, don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out, that's all I'm saying."

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I'm comfortable with older. Mature makes me feel like I should act grown up, and as a woman that giggles like an 8yo boy at farts. I just struggle with being mature.

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

There's a guy on chatrooms who kept telling me he loves an older woman and referring to how he likes me, I got tired of pointing out he's 2 years older than me. I look old I feel old doesn't make me old. I'm also a big kid at heart not that many see that on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women

If I get referred to as older, mature, seasoned, cougar, well, don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out, that's all I'm saying. you’re not! "

Ahh, thanks gorgeous, but I am old enough to be the ops mother , and I do get called those things. It doesn't really do it for me

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By *din and his ValkyrieCouple
over a year ago

Valhalla

What do you class as an older woman. Years, weeks or months and age doesn't mean more experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women

If I get referred to as older, mature, seasoned, cougar, well, don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out, that's all I'm saying.

"

Don't you roll your eyes at me young man!

Oh dammit, I'm old

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Women

If I get referred to as older, mature, seasoned, cougar, well, don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out, that's all I'm saying."

Yep I'm with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women

If I get referred to as older, mature, seasoned, cougar, well, don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out, that's all I'm saying."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women

If I get referred to as older, mature, seasoned, cougar, well, don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out, that's all I'm saying.

Don't you roll your eyes at me young man!

Oh dammit, I'm old "

apologies!

You're only as old as you feel!!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Women

If I get referred to as older, mature, seasoned, cougar, well, don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out, that's all I'm saying.

Don't you roll your eyes at me young man!

Oh dammit, I'm old

apologies!

You're only as old as you feel!!"

Nope that's not true. Your as old as the man you feel

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If I'm older than someone, I'm older. I don't care how you say it. I really, really, really, really, REALLY dislike being told I look good FOR MY AGE though. Just tell me I look good, don't qualify it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw I feel a wee bit sorry for the OP. Not sure how else he could have said his preference. I like older men and I would just say that too.

Saying that, I agree that I don't like being called an older or mature woman but that's mainly because due to my own preference I'm not into younger guys.

Just another Fab minefield

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"If I'm older than someone, I'm older. I don't care how you say it. I really, really, really, really, REALLY dislike being told I look good FOR MY AGE though. Just tell me I look good, don't qualify it."

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of them?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's pronounced mature "

I prefer older tbf

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Aw I feel a wee bit sorry for the OP. Not sure how else he could have said his preference. I like older men and I would just say that too.

Saying that, I agree that I don't like being called an older or mature woman but that's mainly because due to my own preference I'm not into younger guys.

Just another Fab minefield "

Yeah me too. I genuinely don't care if someone calls me an older woman as long as they aren't bloomin 85 . After all I am older than almost everyone who contacts us

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Older is as much of a positive statement as younger.

The idea that being older than something being a negativevis purely a social construction. The best way to break these superficial construct is to use the word older as a empowering and positive way - taking away the derogatory power associated with the word.

Censorship of language only perpetuates the problem

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Not a woman, but if I'm older than a partner, call me older, if I'm younger, call me younger. It's factual!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a woman, but if I'm older than a partner, call me older, if I'm younger, call me younger. It's factual! "

This ^^

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

The only things that annoys me is being called a cougar. Cougar is namely a woman actively seeking much younger men - cubs

I don't actively seek much younger or much older I prefer ideally 5 year either way but depending on how much I get on with someone I sway with ages. I've met people beyond my age ranges but I haven't sought them out specifically. Then it's what makes someone the older or younger category is it 1 year 10 years? Being just a year or 2 older people commenting how much they like older but terms of average life experience without them knowing me it isn't much difference.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

While you are hunting the older women, gives us more time with the sweeter young ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is actually wrong in calling someone older?

Everone is so defensive about stupid things I blame the menopause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gotta luv an older lady but at my age there's a distinct lack of em lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"What is actually wrong in calling someone older?

Everone is so defensive about stupid things I blame the menopause "

Or lack of understanding?

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I find Dilf both flattering and creepy at the same time when I've been called it before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is actually wrong in calling someone older?

Everone is so defensive about stupid things I blame the menopause

Or lack of understanding?"

Just abit perfetic really. If your are older then you are older not that hard really is it

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"What is actually wrong in calling someone older?

Everone is so defensive about stupid things I blame the menopause

Or lack of understanding?

Just abit perfetic really. If your are older then you are older not that hard really is it"

Neither s cognitive understanding.

Hey, understand it has its bypass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit insulting to be called older. Be nice. Decrepit or ancient are more sensitive.

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"What is actually wrong in calling someone older?

Everone is so defensive about stupid things I blame the menopause

Or lack of understanding?

Just abit perfetic really. If your are older then you are older not that hard really is it"

It's not the fact of being older but the fetishishising about being older. Some like it some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensitve souls

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By *xoticMermaidWoman
over a year ago

NORTH WEST

Its Fab....most terminology used on this site should not be racist, sexist, sizeist, heightist or ageist! So whether someone references to older, younger, taller, curvier, slimmer etc if not for u, why comment? Each to their own I say.

"Be kind"

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You look stunning btw

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Women

If I get referred to as older, mature, seasoned, cougar, well, don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out, that's all I'm saying. you’re not!

Ahh, thanks gorgeous, but I am old enough to be the ops mother , and I do get called those things. It doesn't really do it for me "

How would you like to be described by a 40 yr old guy? Your definitely older, and maybe more mature too.

Maybe being called aged, or ancient would raise the hackles but older and mature ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Older is as much of a positive statement as younger.

The idea that being older than something being a negativevis purely a social construction. The best way to break these superficial construct is to use the word older as a empowering and positive way - taking away the derogatory power associated with the word.

Censorship of language only perpetuates the problem

"

Very sensible answer. Couldnt agree more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older is just a fact! If I'm older than anyone then let's face it - I'm older! Mature is way to subjective ... and I've met people much older than me who have never been mature

The thing is age shouldn't even be mentioned or pointed out, it's not really in life is it?

Like people just because you like them ...

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By *oodsmanNWMan
over a year ago

Preston

I like women older than myself...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being called older or cougar etc ( my friends have always joked calling me cougar) The words Toy boy though puts me off. Suppose we all have our likes & dislikes

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

If we click and there's a connection the age is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look stunning btw"
thank you

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By *rjimMan
over a year ago

nr bristol

Good friend of ours was nick named "shagger", which we thought was funny.

But apparently....she... did not like it.

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