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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Why it so hard to find a fb?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"It’s not "

It is

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

Soo hard.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not "

Uh huh....

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"It’s not "
maybe Not for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not.

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By *ighlander860Man
over a year ago

kingsbridge

It is.!!!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"Soo hard..... "

Yr finding it hard, I’m finding it hard (well I am now, I’ve looked at yr pics lol ) so should we try it ?

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By *r FirecrackerMan
over a year ago

London

I don’t think it is

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Soo hard..... "
I thought it would be has for a woman

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Soo hard.....

Yr finding it hard, I’m finding it hard (well I am now, I’ve looked at yr pics lol ) so should we try it ? "

no sorry not in to men

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"It’s not

Uh huh.... "

I know

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough


"Soo hard.....

Yr finding it hard, I’m finding it hard (well I am now, I’ve looked at yr pics lol ) so should we try it ? "

Too far away lovely

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Offer tea & cake

(Most women put out for cake but shushhhh that's a secret)

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough


"Soo hard..... I thought it would be has for a woman "

All the good ones live miles away

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Offer tea & cake

(Most women put out for cake but shushhhh that's a secret) "

I will try it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Offer tea & cake

(Most women put out for cake but shushhhh that's a secret) "

Only chocolate cake though!!!

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

If you find the answer please let me know! I'm having no success either

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough


"Offer tea & cake

(Most women put out for cake but shushhhh that's a secret)

Only chocolate cake though!!! "

Agreed!

Always fancied a meet with being fed cake while having sex

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"If you find the answer please let me know! I'm having no success either"
well if you find it before me plz let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Offer tea & cake

(Most women put out for cake but shushhhh that's a secret)

Only chocolate cake though!!!

Agreed!

Always fancied a meet with being fed cake while having sex "

Omg if you get one can I come too?!

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

It depends on how picky you are I guess.

Looks and body shape are not everything if you gell in personality and interests as well as enjoy each others company it can possibly work for you both.

Again it depends are you hoping he/She will become more than a FB or FwB and become a full on relationship as that could complicate things if one side of the friendship does not want this.

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Offer tea & cake

(Most women put out for cake but shushhhh that's a secret)

Only chocolate cake though!!!

Agreed!

Always fancied a meet with being fed cake while having sex "

I could do that

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough


"Offer tea & cake

(Most women put out for cake but shushhhh that's a secret)

Only chocolate cake though!!!

Agreed!

Always fancied a meet with being fed cake while having sex

Omg if you get one can I come too?! "

Yes!!!

My birthday is in May! I’m thinking Cream cakes, eclairs.... just imagine the mess

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If you think its hard, try finding one in Hull.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Offer tea & cake

(Most women put out for cake but shushhhh that's a secret)

Only chocolate cake though!!!

Agreed!

Always fancied a meet with being fed cake while having sex "

I'll grab the warm chocolate fudge cake

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"It depends on how picky you are I guess.

Looks and body shape are not everything if you gell in personality and interests as well as enjoy each others company it can possibly work for you both.

Again it depends are you hoping he/She will become more than a FB or FwB and become a full on relationship as that could complicate things if one side of the friendship does not want this. "

very true I am a pit picky I can’t just sleep I have to find them attractive and also get on not just about the sex

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"If you find the answer please let me know! I'm having no success either well if you find it before me plz let me know "

I will do but don't hold your breath, about 8 years here & still haven't got lucky

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

This bitch found one on her very first meet

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough


"Offer tea & cake

(Most women put out for cake but shushhhh that's a secret)

Only chocolate cake though!!!

Agreed!

Always fancied a meet with being fed cake while having sex

I'll grab the warm chocolate fudge cake "

Deal !!!!!

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"If you find the answer please let me know! I'm having no success either well if you find it before me plz let me know

I will do but don't hold your breath, about 8 years here & still haven't got lucky "

no way well you never met me

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"This bitch found one on her very first meet "
your lucky

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Finding a FWB is even harder lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive struggled 5 years finding a FB, everyone i ever meet wants mainly one offs plus im so fussy and BDSM is the deal breaker as its a love of mine and most are not interested or too far away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding one here is like hell on Earth there are Better Places for it

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border


"Why it so hard to find a fb?"

Im looking x

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Ive struggled 5 years finding a FB, everyone i ever meet wants mainly one offs plus im so fussy and BDSM is the deal breaker as its a love of mine and most are not interested or too far away x"
I think I few people are having the same problem they should do I single only night some were

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Finding one here is like hell on Earth there are Better Places for it "
please tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d probably get reported but look up fetish places and stuff they seem more laid back and not so picky on actually meeting human beings. I don’t blame people they most likely get hundreds of messages if there a women from idiots.

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"I’d probably get reported but look up fetish places and stuff they seem more laid back and not so picky on actually meeting human beings. I don’t blame people they most likely get hundreds of messages if there a women from idiots. "
I will do thanks I I know they will probably get hundreds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Definitely not easy "
it’s really not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess it's hard for men and women.

For men purely because of the number of messages women get even well written ones slip through.

For women because I'm guessing a lot of the guys they meet talk a big talk but then either no show or don't back up the talk, so a potential FB turns into a one night stand.

On that note I am very well endowed, keep going for hours on end, always make a woman orgasm before me and my favourite position is whatever yours is, and my interests are whatever yours are lol

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Hard "
really don’t see how it could be for you

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Guess it's hard for men and women.

For men purely because of the number of messages women get even well written ones slip through.

For women because I'm guessing a lot of the guys they meet talk a big talk but then either no show or don't back up the talk, so a potential FB turns into a one night stand.

On that note I am very well endowed, keep going for hours on end, always make a woman orgasm before me and my favourite position is whatever yours is, and my interests are whatever yours are lol"

funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard really don’t see how it could be for you "

I’m quite specific in what I’m looking for so yeah it is. If I wanted to shag a different bloke every day then no it isn’t. Depends what you want really as to how difficult it is.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Let's put it this way, I get more sex from other means.. Zero sex from fab. Just alot of creepy messages or time wasters looking to boost their ego. Good luck. I hope she come along soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance is probably the biggest issue I imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Distance is probably the biggest issue I imagine "

This definitely doesn’t help!

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"Soo hard..... I thought it would be has for a woman

All the good ones live miles away "

It’s only an hour away sweet pea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely is nearly impossible!

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Hard really don’t see how it could be for you

I’m quite specific in what I’m looking for so yeah it is. If I wanted to shag a different bloke every day then no it isn’t. Depends what you want really as to how difficult it is. "

I understand it’s not hard to have a few one night stands but I am looking for the same someone we’re I can go for a mail with and have a conversation with

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Let's put it this way, I get more sex from other means.. Zero sex from fab. Just alot of creepy messages or time wasters looking to boost their ego. Good luck. I hope she come along soon "
I have never had owt of of fab and I am the same I get sex for other places and definitely not trying to boost my ego

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's as easy to find on here as it is anywhere else.

Actually, it's easier. For starters you're in a community of people looking for sex. Not widely available on the high street, in pubs, bars or workplaces.

To those who say everyone loves too far away? How far is too far? The odds on a perfect match being on your doorstep are slim to none. And you're looking for semi-regular sex, not someone to move in.

The biggest issue I've seen is that when someone finds a suitable FB they expect some sort of 'exclusivity'. That shouldn't be part of the deal. People get stroppy that they still see other, get stress when they see a new veri on here and moody if someone is interacting with others in the forums. They want to be the favourite.

If you keep things simple and just pure NSA on a semi-regular basis, with total freedom to see others and do as you wish then it shouldn't be too hard to find someone willing to get jiggy with every now and then.

Although given that I married someone who was initially a FB, then FWB you may want to disregard all that.

A

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"It definitely is nearly impossible! "
didn’t think a woman would find it this hard aswell

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

The search for the holy grail continues ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is sex without love and there is love without sex

And there is you without both x

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"It's as easy to find on here as it is anywhere else.

Actually, it's easier. For starters you're in a community of people looking for sex. Not widely available on the high street, in pubs, bars or workplaces.

To those who say everyone loves too far away? How far is too far? The odds on a perfect match being on your doorstep are slim to none. And you're looking for semi-regular sex, not someone to move in.

The biggest issue I've seen is that when someone finds a suitable FB they expect some sort of 'exclusivity'. That shouldn't be part of the deal. People get stroppy that they still see other, get stress when they see a new veri on here and moody if someone is interacting with others in the forums. They want to be the favourite.

If you keep things simple and just pure NSA on a semi-regular basis, with total freedom to see others and do as you wish then it shouldn't be too hard to find someone willing to get jiggy with every now and then.

Although given that I married someone who was initially a FB, then FWB you may want to disregard all that.

A"

if it only could be that easy feelings always come into it would be a bit weird if they didn’t

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"There is sex without love and there is love without sex

And there is you without both x"

who do you no I am with out both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is sex without love and there is love without sex

And there is you without both x who do you no I am with out both "

I don't know that message was from the person above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soo hard..... I thought it would be has for a woman

All the good ones live miles away "

This

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It's as easy to find on here as it is anywhere else.

Actually, it's easier. For starters you're in a community of people looking for sex. Not widely available on the high street, in pubs, bars or workplaces.

To those who say everyone loves too far away? How far is too far? The odds on a perfect match being on your doorstep are slim to none. And you're looking for semi-regular sex, not someone to move in.

The biggest issue I've seen is that when someone finds a suitable FB they expect some sort of 'exclusivity'. That shouldn't be part of the deal. People get stroppy that they still see other, get stress when they see a new veri on here and moody if someone is interacting with others in the forums. They want to be the favourite.

If you keep things simple and just pure NSA on a semi-regular basis, with total freedom to see others and do as you wish then it shouldn't be too hard to find someone willing to get jiggy with every now and then.

Although given that I married someone who was initially a FB, then FWB you may want to disregard all that.

Aif it only could be that easy feelings always come into it would be a bit weird if they didn’t "

Not always.

I've had several FB's over the years. Pure knookie and banter. No feels.

It's perfectly possible.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's as easy to find on here as it is anywhere else.

Actually, it's easier. For starters you're in a community of people looking for sex. Not widely available on the high street, in pubs, bars or workplaces.

To those who say everyone loves too far away? How far is too far? The odds on a perfect match being on your doorstep are slim to none. And you're looking for semi-regular sex, not someone to move in.

The biggest issue I've seen is that when someone finds a suitable FB they expect some sort of 'exclusivity'. That shouldn't be part of the deal. People get stroppy that they still see other, get stress when they see a new veri on here and moody if someone is interacting with others in the forums. They want to be the favourite.

If you keep things simple and just pure NSA on a semi-regular basis, with total freedom to see others and do as you wish then it shouldn't be too hard to find someone willing to get jiggy with every now and then.

Although given that I married someone who was initially a FB, then FWB you may want to disregard all that.

Aif it only could be that easy feelings always come into it would be a bit weird if they didn’t "

Feelings! The taboo word on fab . Feelings don’t scare me. Unlikely I could see someone regularly without having some sort of feelings. Some can handle it some can’t. Depends on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Distance is probably the biggest issue I imagine "
That is right it is that too

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"There is sex without love and there is love without sex

And there is you without both x who do you no I am with out both

I don't know that message was from the person above "

lol sorry

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

It is hard for men to find a sex friend. It's just the nature of sexuality. I believe it's just down to animalistic traits.

From what I remember, the birth sex ratios are (f:m) 1000:1050. However, when you analyse which gender wants NSA sex, you can see a huge difference in ratios.

Consider your friends for example; how many male friends are sexual? How many female friends are sexual. Looking at my personal friends, I'd say that the ratio of sexual men to sexual women is around 10:1.

In my opinion, the root of the problem is that men are designed to search, chase, compete and spread their seed. Just the same as most other male animals.

Women on the other hand seem to be designed to find very few "winning males". They want the best men, and they're choosy because they know that pregnancy takes a huge toll on the body.

It's just the way it is.

However, in my opinion, the most sexual of Britain's women are underneath your very nose right now. Here is the place to be!

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