FabSwingers.com forum: What’s your conversion rate?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean sex on the same day as the social or at a later date?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’d say 80% of the socials turn into sex. But I usually only have a social if I’m fairly certain that I would want to take it further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here for about 10 years but took a 6 year sabbatical. I've met 9 although had I known their pictures were a good few years old I'd probably say 5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d say 80% of the socials turn into sex. But I usually only have a social if I’m fairly certain that I would want to take it further. "

Similar percentage and attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Previously 2 for 2 and both turned into longish term fwb.

From fab, 0 for 2..

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Over the years socials to sex? About 75%

Socials to marriages? Just the one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very high conversation rate here. 80% plus?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% led to sex at some point, but I'm already pretty sure of them to even get a coffee so I haven't had all that many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am yet to have a meet from here, but have had many a date go further.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

100%.....I'd say that was pretty good going

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We don't really think like that.

We tend to be turned off by the cocky types who presume the social will extend into sex. Sometimes we just want an actual social!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

50%, and that's only meeting guys I get on well with and think I'd want to have sex with.

Some of them the timing isn't right and we'll meet up again in future, some of them there just wasn't the chemistry in real life that we'd had online. One was a hygiene issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you mean sex on the same day as the social or at a later date?"

Just in general could be on the day or a later date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you mean sex on the same day as the social or at a later date?

Just in general could be on the day or a later date. "

Ah right. 3 men 6 women. From about 50 socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you mean sex on the same day as the social or at a later date?

Just in general could be on the day or a later date.

Ah right. 3 men 6 women. From about 50 socials. "

In 3 years.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I don't fuck about chatting, I get to the fucking and sucking

why are we here?

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I need more socials before I can answer this question

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Omg was I suppose to keep track

I've been here 13 yrs and on the scene 17yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials usually end up with sex to be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably over 90% (excluding organised event socials obviously) I have a pretty good idea if I’m going to like someone before I meet them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Back in the early days though like the first few years I was here I’d receive a message on a weekend say when I was free and be like yeah I’ll meet you in so and so place in half hour usually kfc car park in Bridgend. Talk to them for 5 have a good look at them and then get a fully loaded box meal and come home.

They weren’t like proper planned meets more spur of the moment and sometimes I’d just have a krushem and not have the box meal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back in the early days though like the first few years I was here I’d receive a message on a weekend say when I was free and be like yeah I’ll meet you in so and so place in half hour usually kfc car park in Bridgend. Talk to them for 5 have a good look at them and then get a fully loaded box meal and come home.

They weren’t like proper planned meets more spur of the moment and sometimes I’d just have a krushem and not have the box meal. "

you kill me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

Er, I have only had one social which didn’t turn in to sex but I’ve not really had that many socials, I’ll be honest!

However, do you socialise while swimming? That costume! Wow!

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

They weren’t like proper planned meets more spur of the moment and sometimes I’d just have a krushem and not have the box meal. "

I’d meet some just for a social and a chat and some for more... both of which I’d say is decided before ...

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

I'm 1 from 1 as a single so 100% conversion rate. Need more socials thou

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

Crikey - that’s a tough one. I probably meet about a third of the guys I have socials with at a later date for sex.

If the chemistry and attraction isn’t there then obviously it doesn’t turn into a meet!

Occasionally I’ll meet someone for a social where we both know we’ll never bump uglies - because they need a verification (and they’re very local) or because they just seem really nice and good potential friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two

I have to be pretty sure that I like the person before contemplating meeting anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2:1 so 50%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These days 0% all I'm doing is socialising, in the last two years I've been dating 2 guys so again it's been just socialising for me, when I'm in the single and ready to mingle and feeling horny frame of mind I'd say probably about 10% of my socials end up in sex at some point but like alot of folk I tend to just meet up with old familiar reliable friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These days 0% all I'm doing is socialising, in the last two years I've been dating 2 guys so again it's been just socialising for me, when I'm in the single and ready to mingle and feeling horny frame of mind I'd say probably about 10% of my socials end up in sex at some point but like alot of folk I tend to just meet up with old familiar reliable friends "

Exactly. I never expected to make so many friends on here and I meet lots of people just for a drink etc. It’s not all about the sex for me so my conversions probably aren’t average anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really "

You’re questioning a woman on fab?

Damn you’re brave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

You’re questioning a woman on fab?

Damn you’re brave!

I am just doing the basic math .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

You’re questioning a woman on fab?

Damn you’re brave!

I am just doing the basic math .

I guess if you went to a social then you could have more than one social at a social and class it as a multiple of one social.

However, basic math says that a multiple of one, is still one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really "

I’d say in the first 3 years I was here I’d meet a different person every day socially so that’s 7 people a week, sometimes 2 or 3 in the same day.

Was a lot of poor planning, no thought only seen 1 or 2 pictures and was just seeing them in the flesh to see if I fancied them.

The last few years I’ve hardly met anyone at all so it’s probably not 1 thousand but it’s a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

I’d say in the first 3 years I was here I’d meet a different person every day socially so that’s 7 people a week, sometimes 2 or 3 in the same day.

Was a lot of poor planning, no thought only seen 1 or 2 pictures and was just seeing them in the flesh to see if I fancied them.

The last few years I’ve hardly met anyone at all so it’s probably not 1 thousand but it’s a lot.

I see, 2 or 3 a day? Didn’t you have a job?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

I’d say in the first 3 years I was here I’d meet a different person every day socially so that’s 7 people a week, sometimes 2 or 3 in the same day.

Was a lot of poor planning, no thought only seen 1 or 2 pictures and was just seeing them in the flesh to see if I fancied them.

The last few years I’ve hardly met anyone at all so it’s probably not 1 thousand but it’s a lot.

I see, 2 or 3 a day? Didn’t you have a job? "

Yeah, you under estimate how brief and social these socials were. Would literally be me rocking up in the car, speaking to them for 5 minutes and then saying ta-ra.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

I’d say in the first 3 years I was here I’d meet a different person every day socially so that’s 7 people a week, sometimes 2 or 3 in the same day.

Was a lot of poor planning, no thought only seen 1 or 2 pictures and was just seeing them in the flesh to see if I fancied them.

The last few years I’ve hardly met anyone at all so it’s probably not 1 thousand but it’s a lot.

I see, 2 or 3 a day? Didn’t you have a job?

Yeah, you under estimate how brief and social these socials were. Would literally be me rocking up in the car, speaking to them for 5 minutes and then saying ta-ra. "

Hey I think you’re on to something here op! I paid nearly 8 quid for a KFC yesterday. Imagine how much I could save if I arranged a social every time I fancy fast food?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

I’d say in the first 3 years I was here I’d meet a different person every day socially so that’s 7 people a week, sometimes 2 or 3 in the same day.

Was a lot of poor planning, no thought only seen 1 or 2 pictures and was just seeing them in the flesh to see if I fancied them.

The last few years I’ve hardly met anyone at all so it’s probably not 1 thousand but it’s a lot.

I see, 2 or 3 a day? Didn’t you have a job?

Yeah, you under estimate how brief and social these socials were. Would literally be me rocking up in the car, speaking to them for 5 minutes and then saying ta-ra. "

Wow, you sound great company

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

This makes it all sound like a game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This makes it all sound like a game "

Let’s be honest, I think it is? I can’t think of the name though ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

I’d say in the first 3 years I was here I’d meet a different person every day socially so that’s 7 people a week, sometimes 2 or 3 in the same day.

Was a lot of poor planning, no thought only seen 1 or 2 pictures and was just seeing them in the flesh to see if I fancied them.

The last few years I’ve hardly met anyone at all so it’s probably not 1 thousand but it’s a lot.

I see, 2 or 3 a day? Didn’t you have a job?

Yeah, you under estimate how brief and social these socials were. Would literally be me rocking up in the car, speaking to them for 5 minutes and then saying ta-ra.

Hey I think you’re on to something here op! I paid nearly 8 quid for a KFC yesterday. Imagine how much I could save if I arranged a social every time I fancy fast food?

Ah dont. I let a guy buy me a pizza with chips and a can of pop last night. He paid on the app and I picked it up from my local!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"This makes it all sound like a game

Let’s be honest, I think it is? I can’t think of the name though ??

Thinking with ones brain is often difficult in this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its about 90% of new guys that i/we actually meet for a social that we do play with. However we have made some close friends here that we often socialise with now aswell as meeting to play

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

I’d say in the first 3 years I was here I’d meet a different person every day socially so that’s 7 people a week, sometimes 2 or 3 in the same day.

Was a lot of poor planning, no thought only seen 1 or 2 pictures and was just seeing them in the flesh to see if I fancied them.

The last few years I’ve hardly met anyone at all so it’s probably not 1 thousand but it’s a lot.

I see, 2 or 3 a day? Didn’t you have a job?

Yeah, you under estimate how brief and social these socials were. Would literally be me rocking up in the car, speaking to them for 5 minutes and then saying ta-ra.

Hey I think you’re on to something here op! I paid nearly 8 quid for a KFC yesterday. Imagine how much I could save if I arranged a social every time I fancy fast food?

Ah dont. I let a guy buy me a pizza with chips and a can of pop last night. He paid on the app and I picked it up from my local!

Jeeeeesus! And you think I can teach YOU something??

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

I’d say in the first 3 years I was here I’d meet a different person every day socially so that’s 7 people a week, sometimes 2 or 3 in the same day.

Was a lot of poor planning, no thought only seen 1 or 2 pictures and was just seeing them in the flesh to see if I fancied them.

The last few years I’ve hardly met anyone at all so it’s probably not 1 thousand but it’s a lot.

I see, 2 or 3 a day? Didn’t you have a job?

Yeah, you under estimate how brief and social these socials were. Would literally be me rocking up in the car, speaking to them for 5 minutes and then saying ta-ra.

Hey I think you’re on to something here op! I paid nearly 8 quid for a KFC yesterday. Imagine how much I could save if I arranged a social every time I fancy fast food?

Ah dont. I let a guy buy me a pizza with chips and a can of pop last night. He paid on the app and I picked it up from my local!

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Wow... really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

I’d say in the first 3 years I was here I’d meet a different person every day socially so that’s 7 people a week, sometimes 2 or 3 in the same day.

Was a lot of poor planning, no thought only seen 1 or 2 pictures and was just seeing them in the flesh to see if I fancied them.

The last few years I’ve hardly met anyone at all so it’s probably not 1 thousand but it’s a lot.

I see, 2 or 3 a day? Didn’t you have a job?

Yeah, you under estimate how brief and social these socials were. Would literally be me rocking up in the car, speaking to them for 5 minutes and then saying ta-ra.

Hey I think you’re on to something here op! I paid nearly 8 quid for a KFC yesterday. Imagine how much I could save if I arranged a social every time I fancy fast food?

Ah dont. I let a guy buy me a pizza with chips and a can of pop last night. He paid on the app and I picked it up from my local!

Really? Each to their own but I couldn’t let some do that for me, something seems wrong about it

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

I’d say in the first 3 years I was here I’d meet a different person every day socially so that’s 7 people a week, sometimes 2 or 3 in the same day.

Was a lot of poor planning, no thought only seen 1 or 2 pictures and was just seeing them in the flesh to see if I fancied them.

The last few years I’ve hardly met anyone at all so it’s probably not 1 thousand but it’s a lot.

I see, 2 or 3 a day? Didn’t you have a job?

Yeah, you under estimate how brief and social these socials were. Would literally be me rocking up in the car, speaking to them for 5 minutes and then saying ta-ra.

Hey I think you’re on to something here op! I paid nearly 8 quid for a KFC yesterday. Imagine how much I could save if I arranged a social every time I fancy fast food?

Ah dont. I let a guy buy me a pizza with chips and a can of pop last night. He paid on the app and I picked it up from my local!

Why would u do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This makes it all sound like a game

Let’s be honest, I think it is? I can’t think of the name though ??

Thinking with ones brain is often difficult in this place

True, you also have to be a sceptical when reading some of the posts on here .

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

7 people in the last 6 years... so not so great!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Mr Fabtasic - we've had 2 coffee socials and we've offered to pay for the drinks each time, but both times the guys insisted they pay. In return we left polite veris (not always reciprocated, presumably because one didn't lead anywhere?)

We have no intention of having socials just to get freebies though.......

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"Mr Fabtasic - we've had 2 coffee socials and we've offered to pay for the drinks each time, but both times the guys insisted they pay. In return we left polite veris (not always reciprocated, presumably because one didn't lead anywhere?)

We have no intention of having socials just to get freebies though....... "

Having a coffee is totally different to getting someone to order u a pizza a can of pop they pay and you pick it up my god why would a man do that and why would u let him or are u out for what u can get

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

I’d say in the first 3 years I was here I’d meet a different person every day socially so that’s 7 people a week, sometimes 2 or 3 in the same day.

Was a lot of poor planning, no thought only seen 1 or 2 pictures and was just seeing them in the flesh to see if I fancied them.

The last few years I’ve hardly met anyone at all so it’s probably not 1 thousand but it’s a lot.

I see, 2 or 3 a day? Didn’t you have a job?

Yeah, you under estimate how brief and social these socials were. Would literally be me rocking up in the car, speaking to them for 5 minutes and then saying ta-ra.

Hey I think you’re on to something here op! I paid nearly 8 quid for a KFC yesterday. Imagine how much I could save if I arranged a social every time I fancy fast food?

Ah dont. I let a guy buy me a pizza with chips and a can of pop last night. He paid on the app and I picked it up from my local!

Why would u do that "

I know. Feel like a bit of a scum bag now I’m thinking about it.

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

I’d say in the first 3 years I was here I’d meet a different person every day socially so that’s 7 people a week, sometimes 2 or 3 in the same day.

Was a lot of poor planning, no thought only seen 1 or 2 pictures and was just seeing them in the flesh to see if I fancied them.

The last few years I’ve hardly met anyone at all so it’s probably not 1 thousand but it’s a lot.

I see, 2 or 3 a day? Didn’t you have a job?

Yeah, you under estimate how brief and social these socials were. Would literally be me rocking up in the car, speaking to them for 5 minutes and then saying ta-ra.

Hey I think you’re on to something here op! I paid nearly 8 quid for a KFC yesterday. Imagine how much I could save if I arranged a social every time I fancy fast food?

Ah dont. I let a guy buy me a pizza with chips and a can of pop last night. He paid on the app and I picked it up from my local!

Sorry but that is disgusting behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no intention of having socials just to get freebies though....... "

I am sure that is the case for the vast majority of people on here. The OP had just boasted about get a free takeaway of someone on here she has never met??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From how many socials have turned to full blown sex?

Mine is 5 out of possibly god knows how many social meets over 9 years, it’s gotta be over a thousand.

My socials have been anything from sitting and having a meal to just meeting someone somewhere where we literally have a chat in the car then leave.

It’s a pretty poor figure 5 guys in 9 years but they’ve all been repeats and 1 of them I even went out with for 18 months.

You have had over a 1000 social meets in 9 years? 110 a year? 2 a week ? Really

I’d say in the first 3 years I was here I’d meet a different person every day socially so that’s 7 people a week, sometimes 2 or 3 in the same day.

Was a lot of poor planning, no thought only seen 1 or 2 pictures and was just seeing them in the flesh to see if I fancied them.

The last few years I’ve hardly met anyone at all so it’s probably not 1 thousand but it’s a lot.

I see, 2 or 3 a day? Didn’t you have a job?

Yeah, you under estimate how brief and social these socials were. Would literally be me rocking up in the car, speaking to them for 5 minutes and then saying ta-ra.

Hey I think you’re on to something here op! I paid nearly 8 quid for a KFC yesterday. Imagine how much I could save if I arranged a social every time I fancy fast food?

Ah dont. I let a guy buy me a pizza with chips and a can of pop last night. He paid on the app and I picked it up from my local!

Why would u do that

I know. Feel like a bit of a scum bag now I’m thinking about it. "

You could always refund him the money? Why do you feel bad about it now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 meets in the time I’ve been on. One led to sex. Had plenty of message chats etc but I think majority of people like the idea without actually wanting to go through with it. Shame really because this is the platform that should let everybody be free to explore everything they’re looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a pizza

I’m sure no one had a gun to his head and made him

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We have no intention of having socials just to get freebies though.......

I am sure that is the case for the vast majority of people on here. The OP had just boasted about get a free takeaway of someone on here she has never met?? "

Oh I agree........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was a pizza

I’m sure no one had a gun to his head and made him"

I m am sure they didn’t, would you done the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no intention of having socials just to get freebies though....... "

Me neither. Which is why I insist on paying half of everything we might do. If someone insists then I’ll insist the next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is having all your pants down right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She is having all your pants down right now

I think you are right, the green arrow has revealed all

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"She is having all your pants down right now

U think she making it up ?

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

"50%, and that's only meeting guys I get on well with and think I'd want to have sex with.

Some of them the timing isn't right and we'll meet up again in future, some of them there just wasn't the chemistry in real life that we'd had online. One was a hygiene issue."

Wow you picked up a hygene issue from a social. Must have been really bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was a pizza

I’m sure no one had a gun to his head and made him

I m am sure they didn’t, would you done the same thing? "

No but I’m not going to get my pitchfork out over a comment that was probably a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was a pizza

I’m sure no one had a gun to his head and made him

I m am sure they didn’t, would you done the same thing?

No but I’m not going to get my pitchfork out over a comment that was probably a joke

I didn’t, I said ‘each to their own’ it’s not something I would ever do

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

They weren’t like proper planned meets more spur of the moment and sometimes I’d just have a krushem and not have the box meal. "

Surely a Krushem counts as sex right

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

"It was a pizza

I’m sure no one had a gun to his head and made him"

Agreed, most likely got a kick out of the attention and would gladly do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not counting those I've met at actual "social events" I think every one to one social I've had over the years barring two has led to sexual shenanigans at some point or other? The majority right after the social.

With one though we got on, we just weren't suited. With the other it was a rule of hers on her profile not to on the day so I freed up only an hour of time so there wouldn't have been enough time to after our drink and chinwag. And our paths just didn't cross since, due to my work and our locations.

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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago

In The Gym

Zero. As I've had zero socials to be able to convert.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Since 2016 i’ve had 9 socials and i’ve slept with 5 of them (2 on a regular long term basis - both for over a year) and given one a blowjob and another a handjob.

So sexually active with 7 of the 9.

I try not to meet folk for the sake of meeting as frankly my free time is limited and my fanjito isn’t going to fuck itself and life is far too bloody short to waste it meeting for a cuppa with no intent of it ever going anywhere.

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

We tend to do mostly the big organised socials, and plan to meet a few people there and see how things go, its not unheard of to invite most of the new friends we make back to our hotel room for a little "apres-social" shenanigans lol.

We do do more intimate 1 on 1, (or maybe that should be 2 on 2) socials, although we havent done many, most of them have resulted in a full-on meet at some point after.

We dont rush, preferring to swap a few mails, and maybe chat on the phone, so by the time we actually meet "face to face" we tend to know 90% that we like them enough to play if they are up for it too, the social tends to just confirm it.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

but 100% conversion rate of having sex with women I actually want to have sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"0%

but 100% conversion rate of having sex with women I actually want to have sex with."

Yey for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I find someone they are miles away, if they weren’t it would be slot blooming higher

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"50%, and that's only meeting guys I get on well with and think I'd want to have sex with.

Some of them the timing isn't right and we'll meet up again in future, some of them there just wasn't the chemistry in real life that we'd had online. One was a hygiene issue.

Wow you picked up a hygene issue from a social. Must have been really bad

There was quite an aroma, yes.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

They weren’t like proper planned meets more spur of the moment and sometimes I’d just have a krushem and not have the box meal. "

Now your taking the p...!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"She is having all your pants down right now

Bingo!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

50% social

50% 1:2:1 - most of which went to a further steamy date!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Nearly all, but we generally only do a social with people we are already pretty sure we want to have sex with, it tends to fizzle out in a group chat first if we are not compatible. A couple of times we’ve been wrong though

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

100% of my socials have led to sex so far, but I only meet someone when I'm bloody sure I want to have sex with them already, and my instincts haven't failed me yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0.0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 5 in 9 years OP?

This makes me think that I haven't done bad with my 2 naughty socials since I've been here.

Still haven't had sex but it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple it's somewhere about 50%. If meeting on my own it's much higher. Not because I'm less choosy, it's just easier to find the 2 or 3 way attraction than 4 way one.

Mrs

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I actually got down to count and made some notes... lol.

About 25 1:1 socials- not Fab organised socials...

13 went on for sex meets. 6 of those were one offs, 2 of them twice, 4 more than twice and 1 of them I’ve seen for nearly a year... he’s disappeared for a while now.

So 52% in 19 months I’ve been here... I shall now copy this so I have a standard answer to the question I get asked dozen of times: “How is the site working for you/met many from the site?” haha

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