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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was anyone nervous the first time they met through this site?

I remember the first time i met a couple i was a nervous wreck. I was 20 minutes late and told them i was stuck in traffic when infact i was parked round the corner building up courage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm amazing

It was her that should have been nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first one .... probably yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going to my first club night next week and I really looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always nervous. Personally, the minute those nerves go, I believe it will be time to stop x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I was nervous but I was also very excited lol fortunately yhe lovely person I was meeting was very relaxed and we got on wonderfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was absolutely shitting myself to be perfectly honest, but also crazily excited.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m always nervous. Personally, the minute those nerves go, I believe it will be time to stop x"

I agree. Nerves mixed with excitement x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous every meet tbh

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay

Wasnt nervous. Wasnt sure what to expect though. Just played it as cool as possible.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

God, so nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always nervous, sometimes even if we’ve met before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ever meet off here was back in summer 2011 and was kind of unplanned but had been speaking for a bit leading up to it. It was a Saturday and I asked to meet him but he was in his brothers engagement party, he said he’s had a drink so I’d have to pick him up. I had leggings and flip flops on, went to the venue and messaged him, he told me to come inside where he gave me a tray to hold and started loading it up with pasties and buffet food, introduced me to his mother as “the girl who’s about to have the fuck of her life”.

Drove to a hotel where he sat in the passenger seat eating pasties and fingering me through my leggings. Asked the woman on the desk in reception for a room for himself and his wife.

Got to the room where he ripped the leggings off me and started eating my arse hole.

We did have good sex and the next morning I had to wear his boxer shorts downstairs as he insisted on wanting breakfast where I ate pan au chocolates before dropping him back to get his car.

Good meet and I met him again a few years later and again 2017.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was coffee with someone who’s probably one of the funniest guys I’ve ever met. I wasn’t nervous because it was just coffee. We wore Christmas jumpers and he took the piss out of my car.

Which is he still does

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"My first ever meet off here was back in summer 2011 and was kind of unplanned but had been speaking for a bit leading up to it. It was a Saturday and I asked to meet him but he was in his brothers engagement party, he said he’s had a drink so I’d have to pick him up. I had leggings and flip flops on, went to the venue and messaged him, he told me to come inside where he gave me a tray to hold and started loading it up with pasties and buffet food, introduced me to his mother as “the girl who’s about to have the fuck of her life”.

Drove to a hotel where he sat in the passenger seat eating pasties and fingering me through my leggings. Asked the woman on the desk in reception for a room for himself and his wife.

Got to the room where he ripped the leggings off me and started eating my arse hole.

We did have good sex and the next morning I had to wear his boxer shorts downstairs as he insisted on wanting breakfast where I ate pan au chocolates before dropping him back to get his car.

Good meet and I met him again a few years later and again 2017. "

I dropped a whole coffee on the floor, that was perfect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first ever meet off here was back in summer 2011 and was kind of unplanned but had been speaking for a bit leading up to it. It was a Saturday and I asked to meet him but he was in his brothers engagement party, he said he’s had a drink so I’d have to pick him up. I had leggings and flip flops on, went to the venue and messaged him, he told me to come inside where he gave me a tray to hold and started loading it up with pasties and buffet food, introduced me to his mother as “the girl who’s about to have the fuck of her life”.

Drove to a hotel where he sat in the passenger seat eating pasties and fingering me through my leggings. Asked the woman on the desk in reception for a room for himself and his wife.

Got to the room where he ripped the leggings off me and started eating my arse hole.

We did have good sex and the next morning I had to wear his boxer shorts downstairs as he insisted on wanting breakfast where I ate pan au chocolates before dropping him back to get his car.

Good meet and I met him again a few years later and again 2017. "

Brilliant! I try not to drink before meets as a lot of people state they dont like it, it would help with nerves i guess

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I’m always nervous. Personally, the minute those nerves go, I believe it will be time to stop x

I agree. Nerves mixed with excitement x"

Must admit I’ve never been nervous and hopefully never will be. Nerves are for job interviews etc imo - but then very few situations make me nervous. Xx

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Nervous as feck still get excited nerves when meeting someone new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet I wasn’t actually that nervous we’d been speaking for so long before I felt like I’d known her for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous yet excited it was a 1st club visit for both of us and dived in at the deep end

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I’m always nervous. Personally, the minute those nerves go, I believe it will be time to stop x

I agree. Nerves mixed with excitement x

Must admit I’ve never been nervous and hopefully never will be. Nerves are for job interviews etc imo - but then very few situations make me nervous. Xx"

Having said that - I was scared to death the first time I ever went into a swingers club! Only just joined fab and knew no-one on the sight. Not long out of 20 years of monogamous relationships - watched porn for the first time 6 weeks earlier - so well out of my comfort zone too!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"First meet I wasn’t actually that nervous we’d been speaking for so long before I felt like I’d known her for years "

Aw that’s nice - and they tend to be the best meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first ever meet off here was back in summer 2011 and was kind of unplanned but had been speaking for a bit leading up to it. It was a Saturday and I asked to meet him but he was in his brothers engagement party, he said he’s had a drink so I’d have to pick him up. I had leggings and flip flops on, went to the venue and messaged him, he told me to come inside where he gave me a tray to hold and started loading it up with pasties and buffet food, introduced me to his mother as “the girl who’s about to have the fuck of her life”.

Drove to a hotel where he sat in the passenger seat eating pasties and fingering me through my leggings. Asked the woman on the desk in reception for a room for himself and his wife.

Got to the room where he ripped the leggings off me and started eating my arse hole.

We did have good sex and the next morning I had to wear his boxer shorts downstairs as he insisted on wanting breakfast where I ate pan au chocolates before dropping him back to get his car.

Good meet and I met him again a few years later and again 2017. "

What a story . I don't get nerves anymore but probably would with you.

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