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"I overthink everything so I'm my own worst enemy. I could see the signs and think them away quite easily!" We need people to be clear | |||
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"I always ignore the signs. Its probably why I've had so many speeding fines" Boom boom | |||
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"I overthink everything so I'm my own worst enemy. I could see the signs and think them away quite easily! We need people to be clear " The problem is that so many are not clear, I tend to doubt those who are ![]() | |||
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"I'm not subtle. I don't pick up hints at all well, and I'm rubbish at giving hints too. I'm too blunt to flirt and I don't pick up when someone is flirting with me. I need clear direction and information, not veiled innuendo and cheesy bants." Same here ![]() | |||
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"To answer properly. I'm terrible at picking up hints. If a woman came up to me, pulled my trousers down and rode be for hours, I still wouldn't be sure if she was into me" Surely she’d be in to you if she was in that position | |||
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"To answer properly. I'm terrible at picking up hints. If a woman came up to me, pulled my trousers down and rode be for hours, I still wouldn't be sure if she was into me Surely she’d be in to you if she was in that position" Unless she explicitly tells me she is, I can't be sure | |||
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"I overthink too.... I'd rather just be told xx" This ![]() | |||
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"I’m guilty of getting things wrong when I pick up and misread signs ![]() ![]() Bless you! But ![]() | |||
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"To answer properly. I'm terrible at picking up hints. If a woman came up to me, pulled my trousers down and rode be for hours, I still wouldn't be sure if she was into me Surely she’d be in to you if she was in that position Unless she explicitly tells me she is, I can't be sure" Strangely enough ... I get this | |||
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best ![]() So ... we’re basically all crap at telling if someone is actually into us | |||
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best ![]() It does appear that way! | |||
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best ![]() Pretty much ...so... anything you'd like to tell me? | |||
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best ![]() I’m going to start a club ![]() | |||
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best ![]() I’m not interested in you , but I think you’re dead funny ![]() | |||
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best ![]() ![]() Yes! I do love a good club ![]() | |||
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"To answer properly. I'm terrible at picking up hints. If a woman came up to me, pulled my trousers down and rode be for hours, I still wouldn't be sure if she was into me Surely she’d be in to you if she was in that position Unless she explicitly tells me she is, I can't be sure" Check your WhatsApp ![]() | |||
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"I like the direct approach so I know where I am but then 2 days later I could doubt them again, never ending circle " I think it’s the nature of the beast on here | |||
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best ![]() ![]() I feel like you're hinting at something, but I'm not quite sure what ![]() | |||
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best ![]() ![]() ![]() Excellent ![]() | |||
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’m guilty of getting things wrong when I pick up and misread signs ![]() ![]() ![]() I’m sure the same thing happens to everyone ![]() | |||
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best ![]() Yep, but in fairness even if someone tells me straight out he fancies me I laugh it off because I assume he's joking. I guess there's just no hope for me! | |||
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ok now the heart is definitely a fucking mixed signal! | |||
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best ![]() ![]() I'd really like to be part of your club, but could you please tell me really directly if you want me in or out because if its an open invite I'll assume it's meant for everyone else and not me ![]() | |||
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"What a fucked up bunch we are ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What a fucked up bunch we are ![]() ![]() ![]() Speak for yourself ... I’m positively dreary | |||
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"I overthink everything so I'm my own worst enemy. I could see the signs and think them away quite easily!" This is me to a t. Being an overthinker really hinders meeting people on here too, as I put people off. I'm a very analytical person; in more ways than one! ![]() | |||
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"What a fucked up bunch we are ![]() ![]() ![]() Knew I'd get the blame ![]() | |||
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"I overthink everything so I'm my own worst enemy. I could see the signs and think them away quite easily! This is me to a t. Being an overthinker really hinders meeting people on here too, as I put people off. I'm a very analytical person; in more ways than one! ![]() I’m very good at putting people off | |||
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"What a fucked up bunch we are ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Took you long enough | |||
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"I think I'm okay at reading signals If someone invests their time in you and appears to be genuinely interested in getting to know you, I think that's a pretty good sign " True I’m the eternal cynic though | |||
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"basically you need to smack me round the head for me to realise your interested haha" ![]() | |||
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"I never know if I'm misreading signals or they're really just not there at all. I much prefer being told upfront." You and most of us do it seems I’m just going to put it out there from now on | |||
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"I'm terrible at reading signals but sometimes when things are just meant to be, signals aren't needed and it all just falls neatly into place naturally. So maybe it's not so much a case of needing to read signals as both people being invested in one another enough for signals not to be needed? " Mind fuck True enough ... | |||
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"What a fucked up bunch we are ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I've been busy flirting and having my tea ![]() | |||
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"What a fucked up bunch we are ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Your dinner you mean ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There’s a first time for everything ![]() ![]() Sorry - couldn’t read the full post. Still reeling from the news that PP made someone think! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There’s a first time for everything ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What a fucked up bunch we are ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() No tea! ![]() | |||
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"What a fucked up bunch we are ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There’s a first time for everything ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You need an arse slap lady ![]() | |||
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"I'm terrible at reading signals but sometimes when things are just meant to be, signals aren't needed and it all just falls neatly into place naturally. So maybe it's not so much a case of needing to read signals as both people being invested in one another enough for signals not to be needed? " Smart arse. I'm terrible at reading signals that someone may be into me, yet any slight flirtation towards B and I automatically think they wanna bone/date/marry him, especially if ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I just assume everyone fancies me. Even if they are running away at the time. They all come round eventually ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There’s a first time for everything ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Absolutely! You volunteering? ![]() | |||
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"I'm very crap too. Always surprised when someone has a go at me as I'm just being myself(witty, ahem, an encyclopedic knowledge of useless facts,being random. rambling..) albeit within the parameters(sorry about the wordiness) of not being presumptuous of what they want, or assuming I'm 'on' to something,or not wanting to offend. Sometimes being more direct would be helpful certainly! But then again, that swings both ways. If it was in real life it'd be different. Although they'd have to basically grab my hand, kiss me, or ask me if I wanted to do something with them. Signs.. Grr. Damn my need for tactile signs/Unambiguous language/over thinking /not wishing to assume! " Join our club ![]() | |||
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"If it's a guy, and hes breathing, hes pretty much already thought about having sex with you. If he goes out of his way to say anything nice to you, like "how are you" or "can I buy you a drink" he has pretty much indicated hes in hot pursuit and is setting up camp. Men get mistaken as simple because of this; they aren't - they just don't much like the nonsense. " I’m bloody popular then ![]() ![]() | |||
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"To answer properly. I'm terrible at picking up hints. If a woman came up to me, pulled my trousers down and rode be for hours, I still wouldn't be sure if she was into me" Really my god ![]() | |||
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"I’ll let you suck my willy. Is that blatant enough for you? ![]() ![]() Great Thanks ![]() | |||
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"I’ll let you suck my willy. Is that blatant enough for you? ![]() ![]() ![]() Is this a yes as I’m not great with signals? ![]() | |||
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"Me too. I think everyone is just being friendly unless they actually get their dick out and waggle it at me. " I don’t think I want that ![]() | |||
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"I’ll let you suck my willy. Is that blatant enough for you? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It’s a no But thanks ![]() | |||
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"There’s a first time for everything ![]() ![]() I wish someone would point the signs out to me so I wouldn’t make such an idiot of myself, but when someone just says “I like you” ![]() | |||
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"I’ll let you suck my willy. Is that blatant enough for you? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I’ll be round in 5 ![]() | |||
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"There’s a first time for everything ![]() ![]() ![]() I’m learning so much today | |||
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"I’ll let you suck my willy. Is that blatant enough for you? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I’m not home | |||
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"I’ll let you suck my willy. Is that blatant enough for you? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I know, I’m following you ![]() | |||
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