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What happened to manners ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you look at our profile it does state what we are looking for .

It's a starting point if anything for a message if you were thinking of sending one..

Why does anyone think that a picture of your cock ..and a message saying " meet tonight " or " fancy a fuck " will make us rush out the door .

Yes it's a sex site . Yes we want sex .. but its stil the same as the outside world . First impressions etc etc .. if you send a proper message regardless of interest or not your going to get a reply.. you cant seriously tell me that the twatty approach gets you loads of meets ?

What ever happened to manners .. to .

Hey i saw your profile ..I'm " name" and thought I'd say hey . Blah blah blah ..

Peace out .. just thought id ask x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's and often asked question from men, women and couples.

The fact is that beyond using very tight mail filters you have no control over who messages you and what they put in that message. All you can do is report abuse and block the others.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Because people rarely read profiles and message what they want to based on how they are feeling at the time. Quite often while one handedly typing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They cost nothing that's why nobody buys them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's and often asked question from men, women and couples.

The fact is that beyond using very tight mail filters you have no control over who messages you and what they put in that message. All you can do is report abuse and block the others.

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it's sad but true.

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph


"Because people rarely read profiles and message what they want to based on how they are feeling at the time. Quite often while one handedly typing it."

Surely you are not suggesting these men are multi tasking ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Because people rarely read profiles and message what they want to based on how they are feeling at the time. Quite often while one handedly typing it.

Surely you are not suggesting these men are multi tasking ? "

More like one plus a tiny fraction tasking

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Because people rarely read profiles and message what they want to based on how they are feeling at the time. Quite often while one handedly typing it.

Surely you are not suggesting these men are multi tasking ?

More like one plus a tiny fraction tasking"

Drink tea, dunk biscuit, eat cake, read fab - Multitasking

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Because people rarely read profiles and message what they want to based on how they are feeling at the time. Quite often while one handedly typing it.

Surely you are not suggesting these men are multi tasking ?

More like one plus a tiny fraction tasking

Drink tea, dunk biscuit, eat cake, read fab - Multitasking "

I was thinking, wanking is a task, messaging is maybe 1/10 given the effort involved

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Manners Maketh Man

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By *elleshellsCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

I’ve started to say “yes” to all the people who message with a “meet now?” & a cock pic - I find they soon disappear - funny that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I've never done that but still not much success. Maybe the twatty approach works for many people.

You can pick then out when you see profiles with only cock pics on them and "twatty" text. They have lots of veris.

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By *ouch69300Man
over a year ago

beaconsfield

I know right. Manners doesn’t cost anything. You know the funny thing. Most boys (that’s what I call them) act like babies in front of mummy but behind her back they act up

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Because people rarely read profiles and message what they want to based on how they are feeling at the time. Quite often while one handedly typing it.

Surely you are not suggesting these men are multi tasking ?

More like one plus a tiny fraction tasking

Drink tea, dunk biscuit, eat cake, read fab - Multitasking

I was thinking, wanking is a task, messaging is maybe 1/10 given the effort involved"

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Why would you need manners on a site like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peace out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners cost nothing and get you everywhere.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Why would you need manners on a site like this?"

It is a sad fact that too many guys on here believe that exact comment ..no manners and no respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the further people distance each other from one another the less manners they think they need. On the internet is one, in a car is another. Some very ignorant people are in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its lots of things.

The internet has exacerbated instant gratification and being anonymous makes people 'brave'.

Some people simply can't be bothered to write something individual and also choose to ignore that they dont match your requirements.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

We like messages like that.

It keeps the block list fed nicely.

A

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