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Ladies - I understand!!!

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By *rShinyKnickers OP   Man
over a year ago

BARRY

Good morning you sexy lot!

OK, so I've given this profile a little break for a few weeks and now I'm back. Some of you who know me, know that I have a separate CD profile here and also elsewhere. It's this that I wanted to talk about.

I decided to open up a CD profile because I wanted to keep this and my CD side separate; my prerogative and I have my reasons so I shan't be going into the why's and wherefores here. If you REALLY want to know, then feel free to ask me via DM.

On my CD profile, I state VERY clearly "women and trans" only and that I won't reply to guys or blank/faceless profiles/lewd first messages etc etc.

The SHEER amount of guys who don't read my profile and send cock photographs (Christ on a bike there are some scary looking ones out there) or even just photographs of themselves is astounding!! I'm not really surprised it happened, but I cannot for the absolute LIFE of me think that these individuals think they are going to get anywhere at all doing this kind of thing!! Because you can be damn sure that if they're doing it to me, they're doing it to everyone they message. My block list is VERY large!

So ladies, I just wanted to say that..I understand! I get it!! And while it's something that has always bothered me because it happens to you lot, I've never experienced it myself until now!!

I would like to say - and I think I speak for all of the other MANY decent and polite men on here and elsewhere - that as a man, I feel I should offer a HUGE heartfelt apology on behalf of all of the mouth-breathing idiot men who don't bother reading profiles and think it's entirely appropriate to send pictures in the first message that make you want to burn your PC/phone/tablet just to get rid of any trace of them!

Have a nice Sunday y'all!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

You shouldn't really be apologising for other people's behaviour. It's not your fault. The only thing you can do is manage your own behaviour and be decent and respectful towards others. The fact that you intend to is worth more than an apology for others who don't give a shit. Respect to you and I hope you find what you are looking for of Fab.

Having said that, your photos give me the heebie-jeebies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good morning you sexy lot!

OK, so I've given this profile a little break for a few weeks and now I'm back. Some of you who know me, know that I have a separate CD profile here and also elsewhere. It's this that I wanted to talk about.

I decided to open up a CD profile because I wanted to keep this and my CD side separate; my prerogative and I have my reasons so I shan't be going into the why's and wherefores here. If you REALLY want to know, then feel free to ask me via DM.

On my CD profile, I state VERY clearly "women and trans" only and that I won't reply to guys or blank/faceless profiles/lewd first messages etc etc.

The SHEER amount of guys who don't read my profile and send cock photographs (Christ on a bike there are some scary looking ones out there) or even just photographs of themselves is astounding!! I'm not really surprised it happened, but I cannot for the absolute LIFE of me think that these individuals think they are going to get anywhere at all doing this kind of thing!! Because you can be damn sure that if they're doing it to me, they're doing it to everyone they message. My block list is VERY large!

So ladies, I just wanted to say that..I understand! I get it!! And while it's something that has always bothered me because it happens to you lot, I've never experienced it myself until now!!

I would like to say - and I think I speak for all of the other MANY decent and polite men on here and elsewhere - that as a man, I feel I should offer a HUGE heartfelt apology on behalf of all of the mouth-breathing idiot men who don't bother reading profiles and think it's entirely appropriate to send pictures in the first message that make you want to burn your PC/phone/tablet just to get rid of any trace of them!

Have a nice Sunday y'all! "

Why dont you block all single guys from messaging you? It really is that simple

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

When my profile was new it was like that with the constant barrage of dick pics, but it's really calmed down the longer I've been here, I think it's because I've probably seen all the dicks already.

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By *rShinyKnickers OP   Man
over a year ago

BARRY


"Good morning you sexy lot!

OK, so I've given this profile a little break for a few weeks and now I'm back. Some of you who know me, know that I have a separate CD profile here and also elsewhere. It's this that I wanted to talk about.

I decided to open up a CD profile because I wanted to keep this and my CD side separate; my prerogative and I have my reasons so I shan't be going into the why's and wherefores here. If you REALLY want to know, then feel free to ask me via DM.

On my CD profile, I state VERY clearly "women and trans" only and that I won't reply to guys or blank/faceless profiles/lewd first messages etc etc.

The SHEER amount of guys who don't read my profile and send cock photographs (Christ on a bike there are some scary looking ones out there) or even just photographs of themselves is astounding!! I'm not really surprised it happened, but I cannot for the absolute LIFE of me think that these individuals think they are going to get anywhere at all doing this kind of thing!! Because you can be damn sure that if they're doing it to me, they're doing it to everyone they message. My block list is VERY large!

So ladies, I just wanted to say that..I understand! I get it!! And while it's something that has always bothered me because it happens to you lot, I've never experienced it myself until now!!

I would like to say - and I think I speak for all of the other MANY decent and polite men on here and elsewhere - that as a man, I feel I should offer a HUGE heartfelt apology on behalf of all of the mouth-breathing idiot men who don't bother reading profiles and think it's entirely appropriate to send pictures in the first message that make you want to burn your PC/phone/tablet just to get rid of any trace of them!

Have a nice Sunday y'all!

Why dont you block all single guys from messaging you? It really is that simple "

As I said..it's not really from this site I've been getting the issues..

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