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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Intimidating? Does my profile?

Genuine curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit of a long profile! Pictures are ace though

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Life's too short to read all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intimidating? Not in the slightest.

You sound genuine, intelligent and explain well what you are looking for. If anything, I'm now attracted to you

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Especially when you live in "hiding". All = hard work. Next!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Nope

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Intimidating? Does my profile?

Genuine curiosity. "

My profile is long too but thatsnot a bad thing.

You know what you are looking for, you are confident. If a guy doesnt read your profile then it says more about him than you.

Love your pictures as an fyi xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not in the mood to read a novel tonight but no from what I've seen you are not intimidating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not in the mood to read a novel tonight but no from what I've seen you are not intimidating. "

It's really not that long. It's actually very interesting if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost me after the first paragraph

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'm not in the mood to read a novel tonight but no from what I've seen you are not intimidating.

It's really not that long. It's actually very interesting if I'm honest. "

Looked like "needy singleton" to me. Could you paraphrase it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK profiles too long.

How the hell am I going to shorten it?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

The ones who cba to read or arent worth your time anyway gorgeous.

I find the ones who cba to read tend to be a 2 pump squirt in the bedroom ans dont ask what you like...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not in the mood to read a novel tonight but no from what I've seen you are not intimidating.

It's really not that long. It's actually very interesting if I'm honest.

Looked like "needy singleton" to me. Could you paraphrase it?"

Needy? In what way?

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Reading a long profile just shows that theres thought, the person has made that effort to find out more about you.

If what I say or write bores you so you dont read it then I'm going to put as much effort into speaking to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones who cba to read or arent worth your time anyway gorgeous.

I find the ones who cba to read tend to be a 2 pump squirt in the bedroom ans dont ask what you like..."

Not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK profiles too long.

How the hell am I going to shorten it? "

The backspace key

It’s not intimidating at all, or overly long in my opinion anyway

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

It might be worth keeping the length of the profile. As others have said, if folks CBA reading a minute or two of text, are they worth your time and sexual efforts? We'd say no....... Our profile is short mainly because we're still working out what we want and we'll probably add bits as we work it out, make mistakes etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intimidating? Does my profile?

Genuine curiosity. "
not at all I think you have a good in-depth profile along with some excellent well taken photo’s x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Not intimidating at all, clear of what you’d like and who you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a read but the pictures make it worth while.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'm not in the mood to read a novel tonight but no from what I've seen you are not intimidating.

It's really not that long. It's actually very interesting if I'm honest.

Looked like "needy singleton" to me. Could you paraphrase it?

Needy? In what way? "

Because it was too long. As i said, didn't read it. What was the gist?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 15/02/20 20:02:14]"

Wow!

How does it come across like I'm up my own arse. Genuinely interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"The ones who cba to read or arent worth your time anyway gorgeous.

I find the ones who cba to read tend to be a 2 pump squirt in the bedroom ans dont ask what you like..."

Isn't it more fun to find out using "conversation", rather than printing out a personality CV?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones who cba to read or arent worth your time anyway gorgeous.

I find the ones who cba to read tend to be a 2 pump squirt in the bedroom ans dont ask what you like...

Isn't it more fun to find out using "conversation", rather than printing out a personality CV? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The last thing I'd want is to come across like I'm up my own arse... I really don't think I am at all. Its kinda upsetting reading that.

I did ask if I was intimidating but I didn't think that would get said.

Think I'll hide my profile.

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Mines a bit shit lol

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The ones who cba to read or arent worth your time anyway gorgeous.

I find the ones who cba to read tend to be a 2 pump squirt in the bedroom ans dont ask what you like...

Isn't it more fun to find out using "conversation", rather than printing out a personality CV? "

But that's what a profile is? Thats the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say intimidating, sounds like you're very serious.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last thing I'd want is to come across like I'm up my own arse... I really don't think I am at all. Its kinda upsetting reading that.

I did ask if I was intimidating but I didn't think that would get said.

Think I'll hide my profile. "

Do what works for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s nothing intimidating there at all. It’s just clear on a little about you, a little about what makes you tick and would you would be open to.

I think if anyone is ‘intimidated’ by having their expectations managed, they may not be worth your time.

Also, if someone can’t take less than 2 minutes to read that, I imagine they have the conversational abilities of a teaspoon. Again, not worth your time.

And yes, your pictures are really good

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"The last thing I'd want is to come across like I'm up my own arse... I really don't think I am at all. Its kinda upsetting reading that.

I did ask if I was intimidating but I didn't think that would get said.

Think I'll hide my profile. "

Hi. You don’t come across as up your own arse at all !

Your profile write up is not different than mine, best to be clear who you are, what you like and how you like things to be

Ignore these comments and others, just keep being you. Those that want to get to know you will, you don’t need individuals like these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, just unattainable.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The last thing I'd want is to come across like I'm up my own arse... I really don't think I am at all. Its kinda upsetting reading that.

I did ask if I was intimidating but I didn't think that would get said.

Think I'll hide my profile.

Hi. You don’t come across as up your own arse at all !

Your profile write up is not different than mine, best to be clear who you are, what you like and how you like things to be

Ignore these comments and others, just keep being you. Those that want to get to know you will, you don’t need individuals like these "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not intimidating. You have all the need and the kit, but might not hit the ground running at this stage.

Usually when I read that someone knows what they want, I assume they know exactly where to get it, as the two work hand in hand.

In terms of profile, scrolling is a nuisance. Cut it short to avoid that.

Otherwise, a few minutes of my life well spent. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, just unattainable."

How????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think intimidating but a very long profile. I think you could get your point across with less words. X But you are beautiful and if I was into the female form I’d be all over you.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"The ones who cba to read or arent worth your time anyway gorgeous.

I find the ones who cba to read tend to be a 2 pump squirt in the bedroom ans dont ask what you like...

Isn't it more fun to find out using "conversation", rather than printing out a personality CV? "

Why start a conversation with someone you have nothing in common with ? Read the profile and create the conversation from there if it matches, that way doesn’t waste each other’s time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it is. However who ever did your photos did an amazing job, perfectly lit and composed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life's too short to read all that. "

Exactly my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t think it is. However who ever did your photos did an amazing job, perfectly lit and composed! "

Thank you. All done by me on my phone.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yes, I'm terrified, I just pee'd my pants when I saw your profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why worry? If someone thinks you sound intimidating then they really aren't compatible. I would have thought it helps tbh.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I like your profile OP. The photos are great and the text is clear. If someone can’t take the time to read it then why would you take the time to get to know them?

Not intimidating at all xx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Life's too short to read all that.

Exactly my thoughts "

Why? If you genuinely want to get together with someone who you are compatible with, why can't you read a bit about them? Or is it a case of any shag is a win? I don't think the OP is looking for quickies. Based on having read the profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why worry? If someone thinks you sound intimidating then they really aren't compatible. I would have thought it helps tbh."

Many think I'm a bitch. Luckily for me some people have their own brains

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I don’t think it is. However who ever did your photos did an amazing job, perfectly lit and composed!

Thank you. All done by me on my phone. "

Please share your secrets, oh Mistress of the Photograph!

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By *nto My ArmsMan
over a year ago

Herts/London

You read great to me. Open minded, adventurous, creative (great pics), humorous, vibrant.

Keep doing you.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"The ones who cba to read or arent worth your time anyway gorgeous.

I find the ones who cba to read tend to be a 2 pump squirt in the bedroom ans dont ask what you like...

Isn't it more fun to find out using "conversation", rather than printing out a personality CV?

But that's what a profile is? Thats the point "

You can see the personality from the style, the prose if you will. You can tell how anxious, how together, how uninhibited or damaged someone is just from that. A profile like the OP's is not for me. It's a "doubler scrooler" which for me shouts singleton looking for the next Mr Right, but there's a good chance he doesn't actually exist. Hard work, move on. It might work if you are also single, and looking for your Mrs Right. But i have already found her.

Swinging for me is flirtatious and fun, finding out what turns each other on, having a great time, without having to worry about what that have for breakfast, who they voted for or whether they prefer cats over dogs. If im presented with a list of Do's and Do not's then my interest wanes pretty damn quick.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Nothing intimidating. I find it's a good read into who you are. Its Literate, intelligent and clear.

If you want to shorten it like some have suggested. You make some changes where you make the statements

'please don't send friend requests'

'I have others who I meet here ..'

'I'm often in the forums'

You expand on these and maybe don't to.

But to be honest, sometimes a profile thats too much of something is a good filter. Your profile is great. Pictures are divine xxx

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Life's too short to read all that.

Exactly my thoughts

Why? If you genuinely want to get together with someone who you are compatible with, why can't you read a bit about them? Or is it a case of any shag is a win? I don't think the OP is looking for quickies. Based on having read the profile! "

Do you think she's looking for Mr Grey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a really good profile.

It isn’t long at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not in the mood to read a novel tonight but no from what I've seen you are not intimidating.

It's really not that long. It's actually very interesting if I'm honest.

Looked like "needy singleton" to me. Could you paraphrase it?"

Clem do me, what’s mine like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, just unattainable.

How???? "

faf?

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The ones who cba to read or arent worth your time anyway gorgeous.

I find the ones who cba to read tend to be a 2 pump squirt in the bedroom ans dont ask what you like...

Isn't it more fun to find out using "conversation", rather than printing out a personality CV?

But that's what a profile is? Thats the point

You can see the personality from the style, the prose if you will. You can tell how anxious, how together, how uninhibited or damaged someone is just from that. A profile like the OP's is not for me. It's a "doubler scrooler" which for me shouts singleton looking for the next Mr Right, but there's a good chance he doesn't actually exist. Hard work, move on. It might work if you are also single, and looking for your Mrs Right. But i have already found her.

Swinging for me is flirtatious and fun, finding out what turns each other on, having a great time, without having to worry about what that have for breakfast, who they voted for or whether they prefer cats over dogs. If im presented with a list of Do's and Do not's then my interest wanes pretty damn quick."

Fair enough. I have a different opinion but I can see your side

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Nothing intimidating. I find it's a good read into who you are. Its Literate, intelligent and clear.

If you want to shorten it like some have suggested. You make some changes where you make the statements

'please don't send friend requests'

'I have others who I meet here ..'

'I'm often in the forums'

You expand on these and maybe don't to.

But to be honest, sometimes a profile thats too much of something is a good filter. Your profile is great. Pictures are divine xxx "

Agree with all this. I'm not sure why you'd (the OP) think it's "intimidating".

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Not at all.

Clearly you know what you want and it's nice to see that in a profile, it is long enough and clear, if people can't take a few minutes to read it then, that's their problem.

Your pictures are great aswell, if we can be honest we cmare heading back for another perve

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Not at all intimidating.

I thought your profile was interesting.

I like you.

I'm always intrigued by pale who won't spend 4 minutes reading something but will have sex with someone (presumably for longer than 4 minutes)

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'm not in the mood to read a novel tonight but no from what I've seen you are not intimidating.

It's really not that long. It's actually very interesting if I'm honest.

Looked like "needy singleton" to me. Could you paraphrase it?

Clem do me, what’s mine like?"

Double scrooler.... not gonna read that! Maybe next time I'm on the loo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All human beings are intimidating to me.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"The ones who cba to read or arent worth your time anyway gorgeous.

I find the ones who cba to read tend to be a 2 pump squirt in the bedroom ans dont ask what you like...

Isn't it more fun to find out using "conversation", rather than printing out a personality CV?

But that's what a profile is? Thats the point

You can see the personality from the style, the prose if you will. You can tell how anxious, how together, how uninhibited or damaged someone is just from that. A profile like the OP's is not for me. It's a "doubler scrooler" which for me shouts singleton looking for the next Mr Right, but there's a good chance he doesn't actually exist. Hard work, move on. It might work if you are also single, and looking for your Mrs Right. But i have already found her.

Swinging for me is flirtatious and fun, finding out what turns each other on, having a great time, without having to worry about what that have for breakfast, who they voted for or whether they prefer cats over dogs. If im presented with a list of Do's and Do not's then my interest wanes pretty damn quick.

Fair enough. I have a different opinion but I can see your side "

I think it's different for singles.

But for anyone, there's no point in filling your profile with who you don't want to meet, they'll still message you, and your profile ends up sounding as appealing as a rainy weekend in southend. Just use the site's filters, and delete/ignore/block anyone who messages who doesn't float your boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not in the mood to read a novel tonight but no from what I've seen you are not intimidating.

It's really not that long. It's actually very interesting if I'm honest.

Looked like "needy singleton" to me. Could you paraphrase it?

Clem do me, what’s mine like?

Double scrooler.... not gonna read that! Maybe next time I'm on the loo?"

Do it and I’ll send you an upskirt picture of my cunt. Will take 62 seconds of that.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok "

Also this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok "

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'm not in the mood to read a novel tonight but no from what I've seen you are not intimidating.

It's really not that long. It's actually very interesting if I'm honest.

Looked like "needy singleton" to me. Could you paraphrase it?

Clem do me, what’s mine like?

Double scrooler.... not gonna read that! Maybe next time I'm on the loo?

Do it and I’ll send you an upskirt picture of my cunt. Will take 62 seconds of that. "

Jeeeeeeez! Ok I work for cunt.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating. "

Where is "Hiding"?

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The ones who cba to read or arent worth your time anyway gorgeous.

I find the ones who cba to read tend to be a 2 pump squirt in the bedroom ans dont ask what you like...

Isn't it more fun to find out using "conversation", rather than printing out a personality CV?

But that's what a profile is? Thats the point

You can see the personality from the style, the prose if you will. You can tell how anxious, how together, how uninhibited or damaged someone is just from that. A profile like the OP's is not for me. It's a "doubler scrooler" which for me shouts singleton looking for the next Mr Right, but there's a good chance he doesn't actually exist. Hard work, move on. It might work if you are also single, and looking for your Mrs Right. But i have already found her.

Swinging for me is flirtatious and fun, finding out what turns each other on, having a great time, without having to worry about what that have for breakfast, who they voted for or whether they prefer cats over dogs. If im presented with a list of Do's and Do not's then my interest wanes pretty damn quick.

Fair enough. I have a different opinion but I can see your side

I think it's different for singles.

But for anyone, there's no point in filling your profile with who you don't want to meet, they'll still message you, and your profile ends up sounding as appealing as a rainy weekend in southend. Just use the site's filters, and delete/ignore/block anyone who messages who doesn't float your boat. "

Yeah I get it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

Where is "Hiding"?"

Inside a joke with another forumite

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

Where is "Hiding"?

Inside a joke with another forumite "

Why would i message someone when i don't know where they live?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

No

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

I think it’s great profile OP. one’s profile text should be a reflection of your personality and I imagine that this is precisely the case with you. It’s erudite, intelligent and shows someone who knows what she is looking for. It won’t stop the copy and paste and one line brigade, but it’ll make the more considered messenger think a bit more about how to grab your attention. You could chop out a bit perhaps, but there’s nothing there that’s either needy, intimidating, up your own arse or not worthy of our attention.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'm not in the mood to read a novel tonight but no from what I've seen you are not intimidating.

It's really not that long. It's actually very interesting if I'm honest.

Looked like "needy singleton" to me. Could you paraphrase it?

Clem do me, what’s mine like?

Double scrooler.... not gonna read that! Maybe next time I'm on the loo?

Do it and I’ll send you an upskirt picture of my cunt. Will take 62 seconds of that. "

Ok delete this bit:

**About me**

I’m very open minded, I swallow, milk prostates, drain balls and pamper.

I’m extremely kind and caring, after sex I like to whisper romantic things in my lovers ear like hey, get the fuck outta my house. I don’t smoke unless it’s a cock or a hamlet but I do puff my pipe (vape).

Some do’s and don’ts when messaging me:

•Do send face pictures, the face is the most important part of you, it’s what I’m looking at when I’m sucking you off, it’s what I’m looking at when I’m suffocating your mouth with my cunt and watching you struggling to breath. Ok so faces people, send them.

•If you want to send a picture of your penis or arse hole then do it, I’m not offended by them, just make sure you attach a face pic.

•Don’t send me a message asking if you can ask me a question, it’s beyond annoying and I’ll block you to teach you a lesson.

•Don’t send me a message without attaching a face picture.

Some advice from me to you, rem_mber boys this site is not a reflection of the real world. Please don’t get disheartened if your messages are ignored or deleted. The ratio of men to women is massively tipped in a woman’s favour on here. ALL women get bombarded with messages on here, especially me cos I’ve got nice boobs.

It simply isn’t possible to answer every message I receive so please don’t be offended if your message is deleted, it just means I’ve looked at your profile and don’t think we’re a match but don’t lose faith, seek guidance in Jesus and he will answer your prayers.

Regards.

Add: No face pic, no reply.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

Where is "Hiding"?

Inside a joke with another forumite

Why would i message someone when i don't know where they live?"

Plenty of people message us who live at the other end of the British Isles. Seems some are happy to travel.......

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Intimidating? Does my profile?

Genuine curiosity. "

You come across as confident / lovely / approachable / takes no prisoners type of lady

Great pics too!

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

Absolutely not intimidating. Love a long profile, shows you have substance. Would read again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

Where is "Hiding"?

Inside a joke with another forumite

Why would i message someone when i don't know where they live?"

I'm in the south East, it says that. And if you're not up for travelling then don't message I guess. But surely you have some idea of the South East area and far it is in relation to yourself.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

Where is "Hiding"?

Inside a joke with another forumite

Why would i message someone when i don't know where they live?

Plenty of people message us who live at the other end of the British Isles. Seems some are happy to travel....... "

Lol yeah. Alright.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

Where is "Hiding"?

Inside a joke with another forumite

Why would i message someone when i don't know where they live?

I'm in the south East, it says that. And if you're not up for travelling then don't message I guess. But surely you have some idea of the South East area and far it is in relation to yourself. "

Yes it's from Southampton to Dover and up to Luton. In short, a huge area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life's too short to read all that.

Exactly my thoughts

Why? If you genuinely want to get together with someone who you are compatible with, why can't you read a bit about them? Or is it a case of any shag is a win? I don't think the OP is looking for quickies. Based on having read the profile! "

Yeah, any shag is a win

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

Where is "Hiding"?

Inside a joke with another forumite

Why would i message someone when i don't know where they live?

Plenty of people message us who live at the other end of the British Isles. Seems some are happy to travel.......

Lol yeah. Alright. "

Guys from London wanting to travel....... Plenty of people seem willing to for whatever reason; maybe genuine, maybe not. Tis a fact that we're messaged from far and wide, nevertheless.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I love it when I realise who I'm not compatible with

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Intimidating? Does my profile?

Genuine curiosity. "

no it doesn't and your profile should reflect you and from what I see it does and if people say otherwise then it's them not you.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

Where is "Hiding"?

Inside a joke with another forumite

Why would i message someone when i don't know where they live?

I'm in the south East, it says that. And if you're not up for travelling then don't message I guess. But surely you have some idea of the South East area and far it is in relation to yourself. "

Don't forget, YOU want advice on how to get a meet. I'm suggesting that letting people know a small approximation of your locality might help, you.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

Where is "Hiding"?

Inside a joke with another forumite

Why would i message someone when i don't know where they live?

Plenty of people message us who live at the other end of the British Isles. Seems some are happy to travel.......

Lol yeah. Alright.

Guys from London wanting to travel....... Plenty of people seem willing to for whatever reason; maybe genuine, maybe not. Tis a fact that we're messaged from far and wide, nevertheless. "

The op wants meets, not messages.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I love it when I realise who I'm not compatible with "

I get that feeling alot.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

Where is "Hiding"?

Inside a joke with another forumite

Why would i message someone when i don't know where they live?

Plenty of people message us who live at the other end of the British Isles. Seems some are happy to travel.......

Lol yeah. Alright.

Guys from London wanting to travel....... Plenty of people seem willing to for whatever reason; maybe genuine, maybe not. Tis a fact that we're messaged from far and wide, nevertheless.

The op wants meets, not messages. "

Meets start with messages, unless we have psychic people on here. We don't want to arrange meets with people travelling from a million miles away, too much risk of no show and no chance of anything regular. However, the point stands that some people ARE willing to travel distance. Also sometimes people might want to organise club meets in new cities if they visit, so will message people "out of area".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a similar length profile but it makes for fun blocks when nobody Reads It!!!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

Where is "Hiding"?

Inside a joke with another forumite

Why would i message someone when i don't know where they live?

Plenty of people message us who live at the other end of the British Isles. Seems some are happy to travel.......

Lol yeah. Alright.

Guys from London wanting to travel....... Plenty of people seem willing to for whatever reason; maybe genuine, maybe not. Tis a fact that we're messaged from far and wide, nevertheless.

The op wants meets, not messages.

Meets start with messages, unless we have psychic people on here. We don't want to arrange meets with people travelling from a million miles away, too much risk of no show and no chance of anything regular. However, the point stands that some people ARE willing to travel distance. Also sometimes people might want to organise club meets in new cities if they visit, so will message people "out of area". "

So. Why do you think she's not getting meets then. It sounds like you think she's doing everything right, but clearly she isn't. Where's your advice?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

Where is "Hiding"?

Inside a joke with another forumite

Why would i message someone when i don't know where they live?

I'm in the south East, it says that. And if you're not up for travelling then don't message I guess. But surely you have some idea of the South East area and far it is in relation to yourself. "

To true, that’s what the mileage distance is for too, but as most don’t read profiles they wouldn’t get to that point to find out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will take what has been said on board and try and try and shorten the profile.

To be honest making a list of what I won't do etc in short list form seemed cold to me hence me trying to soften it a bit. But that's clearly come across the opposite to a few on here.

I very much doubt I'll change my location to my home town though. But the comments have been noted.

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By *mileysimieMan
over a year ago

tewkesbury


"Intimidating? Does my profile?

Genuine curiosity. "

I think your profile looks and sounds fine to me

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

Where is "Hiding"?

Inside a joke with another forumite

Why would i message someone when i don't know where they live?

I'm in the south East, it says that. And if you're not up for travelling then don't message I guess. But surely you have some idea of the South East area and far it is in relation to yourself.

To true, that’s what the mileage distance is for too, but as most don’t read profiles they wouldn’t get to that point to find out "

Not everyone gets to see the distance.....

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Intimidating? Does my profile?

Genuine curiosity. "

Not to me you don’t no.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Will take what has been said on board and try and try and shorten the profile.

To be honest making a list of what I won't do etc in short list form seemed cold to me hence me trying to soften it a bit. But that's clearly come across the opposite to a few on here.

I very much doubt I'll change my location to my home town though. But the comments have been noted. "

Mine isn't my home town, but I'm not far away, and at least it gives an area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will take what has been said on board and try and try and shorten the profile.

To be honest making a list of what I won't do etc in short list form seemed cold to me hence me trying to soften it a bit. But that's clearly come across the opposite to a few on here.

I very much doubt I'll change my location to my home town though. But the comments have been noted. "

I don't think there's anything wrong with your profile.I think it is refreshingly honest in many ways. you are unattainable to me because I'm outside your preferences and of course, geography.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"

The op wants meets, not messages.

Meets start with messages, unless we have psychic people on here. We don't want to arrange meets with people travelling from a million miles away, too much risk of no show and no chance of anything regular. However, the point stands that some people ARE willing to travel distance. Also sometimes people might want to organise club meets in new cities if they visit, so will message people "out of area".

So. Why do you think she's not getting meets then. It sounds like you think she's doing everything right, but clearly she isn't. Where's your advice?"

I said I'd leave it or only marginally shorten it because it's clear she doesn't just want a quick shag n go. Now many people don't message purely because they see that but they DO want a shag n go. So, if the OP wants to find a person she is suited to, leave it but yes, it might take time. Or, shorten it but accept many messages that do come through will be from people looking for a laugh, wank fodder, or a quick fuck in the nearest back alley (not a euphemism).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating. "

You dont seem intimidating, you are a good looking and intelligent woman, or that's the imagine your profile gives me.

You'll meet someone right.

Maybe you ain't the problem?

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

It's a good profile, it shows intelligence and self-awareness, says something about yourself and something about the type of people and experiences that you are interested in. Anybody intimidated or overwhelmed by the effort of reading a few paragraphs is not going to be a person of interest for you.

My profile is probably twice as long, maybe it filters out nearly everybody, but if they cba spending three minutes finding out a little about me, then I'm not going to invest my time with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will take what has been said on board and try and try and shorten the profile.

To be honest making a list of what I won't do etc in short list form seemed cold to me hence me trying to soften it a bit. But that's clearly come across the opposite to a few on here.

I very much doubt I'll change my location to my home town though. But the comments have been noted. "

Why would you change to suit the forum? I don't get it. If your profile is a good representation of you then leave it be. You aren't going to appeal to the majority let alone everyone!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"You could have a blank profile and 0 pictures and it would get meets on fab. Because you are a women.

So whatever you put or don’t it’s ok

Well that's not true. I'm not getting meets. Hence asking and posting above question above after it was suggested I came across intimidating.

You dont seem intimidating, you are a good looking and intelligent woman, or that's the imagine your profile gives me.

You'll meet someone right.

Maybe you ain't the problem?"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’m scared of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t delete it. It shows my personality.

To the op sorry for the hijack, I don’t think your profile looks or reads as intimidating.

Only once I felt intimidated by someone and not in a scary way just like oh my god this dude is fucking stunning, made me feel self conscious and I ended up doing a sick belch of a burp whilst sucking him off. Luckily for me he just held my hair back and said carry on love.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

The paradox here is of course that the op wants help, not sycophants. Saying "your profile is wonderful, your photos are wonderful, you seem wonderful!" Isn't helping her get her proverbial dick wet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh and BTW my block list just bigger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can’t delete it. It shows my personality.

To the op sorry for the hijack, I don’t think your profile looks or reads as intimidating.

Only once I felt intimidated by someone and not in a scary way just like oh my god this dude is fucking stunning, made me feel self conscious and I ended up doing a sick belch of a burp whilst sucking him off. Luckily for me he just held my hair back and said carry on love. "

I noted the hijack. Don't mind me.

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"I can’t delete it. It shows my personality.

To the op sorry for the hijack, I don’t think your profile looks or reads as intimidating.

Only once I felt intimidated by someone and not in a scary way just like oh my god this dude is fucking stunning, made me feel self conscious and I ended up doing a sick belch of a burp whilst sucking him off. Luckily for me he just held my hair back and said carry on love. "

This is funny!!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I can’t delete it. It shows my personality.

To the op sorry for the hijack, I don’t think your profile looks or reads as intimidating.

Only once I felt intimidated by someone and not in a scary way just like oh my god this dude is fucking stunning, made me feel self conscious and I ended up doing a sick belch of a burp whilst sucking him off. Luckily for me he just held my hair back and said carry on love. "

You don't need to tell people you're open minded, your first paragraph tells us that. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, I’m scared of you"

I'm scared of you too..

Now what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I’m scared of you

I'm scared of you too..

Now what? "

Hide!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will take what has been said on board and try and try and shorten the profile.

To be honest making a list of what I won't do etc in short list form seemed cold to me hence me trying to soften it a bit. But that's clearly come across the opposite to a few on here.

I very much doubt I'll change my location to my home town though. But the comments have been noted.

Why would you change to suit the forum? I don't get it. If your profile is a good representation of you then leave it be. You aren't going to appeal to the majority let alone everyone!"

Exactly 2% of fab use the forums if that.

Unless you just wanna meet other forum users

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intimidating? Does my profile?

Genuine curiosity. "

no; you have the perfect profile and pics to match

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

From a girls point of view I personally don’t think it’s intimidating are you pictures are lovely.. I have pictures holding whips and I removed them to my friends only as i had constant messages asking if I would like to dominate and the such, maybe it could be seen as intimidating to others.. I just like the look it gave for a sexy pic! .. don’t take to much from it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who ever called your profile intimidating must have been insecure..

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Oh and BTW my block list just bigger. "

We'd message privately, but filters. Unless you are looking for something less then the profile suggests you want, then don't take too much away. If you are happy to get loads of frankly time wasting messages, then thin it out. It entirely depends on what you want from the messages that might come through if you change it.

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"I can’t delete it. It shows my personality.

To the op sorry for the hijack, I don’t think your profile looks or reads as intimidating.

Only once I felt intimidated by someone and not in a scary way just like oh my god this dude is fucking stunning, made me feel self conscious and I ended up doing a sick belch of a burp whilst sucking him off. Luckily for me he just held my hair back and said carry on love.

I noted the hijack. Don't mind me. "

I like your profile OP. Defo not intimidating but I can see so many people not bothering reading it all because it’s long, yet concise. But that’s their problem, not yours. You probably deserve the type that can be arsed to read what you have to say, not the ones that can’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will take what has been said on board and try and try and shorten the profile.

To be honest making a list of what I won't do etc in short list form seemed cold to me hence me trying to soften it a bit. But that's clearly come across the opposite to a few on here.

I very much doubt I'll change my location to my home town though. But the comments have been noted.

Why would you change to suit the forum? I don't get it. If your profile is a good representation of you then leave it be. You aren't going to appeal to the majority let alone everyone!

Exactly 2% of fab use the forums if that.

Unless you just wanna meet other forum users "

I don't message people that often.

I've actually messaged more people from forum interactions, than I have from profile searching I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who ever called your profile intimidating must have been insecure.."

I dont think so and he said it as a suggestion not a statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who ever called your profile intimidating must have been insecure..

I dont think so and he said it as a suggestion not a statement. "

Seriously let it go. One person said it was intimidating leading to a full blown "omg is my profile right?" moment??? Give your head a wobble OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intimidating? Does my profile?

Genuine curiosity. "

Not at all.. Shame im not dark featured, you sound like just the sort of person id like to get to know.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't think it comes across as intimidating, but I should think plenty of guys would feel like that.

You were on hot pics for ages, yes? So all those men who fabbed it probably had a look at your profile and thought they were 'out of your league', I absolutely hate that phrase but it's how a lot of men think. Obviously not these confident forum types as you can see from responses on here.

I think you could shorten it a bit, there's also a bit of reading between the lines, example ~

'I have others that I chat to on here, or very occasionally meet. These people look after me in various ways and I don’t mean sexually' ~ guys will be thinking wtf does that mean, so maybe Clemfandango might be right when he says some might think your hard work.

If you're happy with it that's all that counts x 

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it comes across as intimidating, but I should think plenty of guys would feel like that.

You were on hot pics for ages, yes? So all those men who fabbed it probably had a look at your profile and thought they were 'out of your league', I absolutely hate that phrase but it's how a lot of men think. Obviously not these confident forum types as you can see from responses on here.

I think you could shorten it a bit, there's also a bit of reading between the lines, example ~

'I have others that I chat to on here, or very occasionally meet. These people look after me in various ways and I don’t mean sexually' ~ guys will be thinking wtf does that mean, so maybe Clemfandango might be right when he says some might think your hard work.

If you're happy with it that's all that counts x 

"

That bit sounds like a sugar daddy thing or that you’d be open to be being bought shit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it comes across as intimidating, but I should think plenty of guys would feel like that.

You were on hot pics for ages, yes? So all those men who fabbed it probably had a look at your profile and thought they were 'out of your league', I absolutely hate that phrase but it's how a lot of men think. Obviously not these confident forum types as you can see from responses on here.

I think you could shorten it a bit, there's also a bit of reading between the lines, example ~

'I have others that I chat to on here, or very occasionally meet. These people look after me in various ways and I don’t mean sexually' ~ guys will be thinking wtf does that mean, so maybe Clemfandango might be right when he says some might think your hard work.

If you're happy with it that's all that counts x 

"

I could explain why that's there but I'll get a ban.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Jesus, the OP asked a genuine question and the profile assassination wolf pack are out offering their profound judgement.

I’d feel honoured with your comments FFS.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it comes across as intimidating, but I should think plenty of guys would feel like that.

You were on hot pics for ages, yes? So all those men who fabbed it probably had a look at your profile and thought they were 'out of your league', I absolutely hate that phrase but it's how a lot of men think. Obviously not these confident forum types as you can see from responses on here.

I think you could shorten it a bit, there's also a bit of reading between the lines, example ~

'I have others that I chat to on here, or very occasionally meet. These people look after me in various ways and I don’t mean sexually' ~ guys will be thinking wtf does that mean, so maybe Clemfandango might be right when he says some might think your hard work.

If you're happy with it that's all that counts x 

That bit sounds like a sugar daddy thing or that you’d be open to be being bought shit. "

OK I'd never looked it at that way. Thanks... Noted! I'll delete that coz I'm the total opposite and dont like being bought shit and not into sugar daddys at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, just foxy x

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Intimidating?

Genuine curiosity. "

Intimidating? Not at all

However, you do come across as a friendly, genuine & warm person

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"The ones who cba to read or arent worth your time anyway gorgeous.

I find the ones who cba to read tend to be a 2 pump squirt in the bedroom ans dont ask what you like...

Isn't it more fun to find out using "conversation", rather than printing out a personality CV?

Why start a conversation with someone you have nothing in common with ? Read the profile and create the conversation from there if it matches, that way doesn’t waste each other’s time "

Wow its very insightful to hear from men and women's opinion about how they view profiles. I'm with you being concise. However, when i first started on fab, I was inundated with far too many messages. So I added my likes and dislikes to stop the unnecessary messages... But alack, as evidence here, seems like some men don't like reading long info. But from a women’s point of view, the best messages are from people who read your profile and can relate to it or offer what you seek. I shortened mine and I actually think I get less messages. So really don't know the answer apart from you do what ever makes you feel comfortable, be yourself and the right lovers will appreciate and adore you for it. Screw the lazy guys who can't even bother having a decent conversation to you about your sexual preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hang on... You said my profile was long.....

But the couples profile I just saw... Omg how many times do you have to scroll on that bugger... Yet you posted the above.

Wow!

And let's not mention the name and town info.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jesus, the OP asked a genuine question and the profile assassination wolf pack are out offering their profound judgement.

I’d feel honoured with your comments FFS. "

I'm good. They haven't broken me.... Yet.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. Just clear on what you want.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Intimidating? Does my profile?

Genuine curiosity. "
Not to me. Your profile is intriguing and your pics are stunning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus, the OP asked a genuine question and the profile assassination wolf pack are out offering their profound judgement.

I’d feel honoured with your comments FFS. "

Nice to hear you sticking up for those that need it. Will you do the same when this happens many times a day to single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus, the OP asked a genuine question and the profile assassination wolf pack are out offering their profound judgement.

I’d feel honoured with your comments FFS.

Nice to hear you sticking up for those that need it. Will you do the same when this happens many times a day to single guys?"

Of course not. He only knocks them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intimidating? Does my profile?

Genuine curiosity. "

It gives a pretty clear sense of who you are and what you're looking for, it isn't so long that it's a pain to read on a phone, good job overall.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Fabulous photos btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only 34 more comments to go to the thread closes and disappears.

Keep going.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Jesus, the OP asked a genuine question and the profile assassination wolf pack are out offering their profound judgement.

I’d feel honoured with your comments FFS.

Nice to hear you sticking up for those that need it. Will you do the same when this happens many times a day to single guys?

Of course not. He only knocks them "

She doesn’t need my help as she’s already stated that up there ^^ have read. It’s interesting to see that it’s the same profiles that seem to offer their hierarchical approval and only do it in unison. The later 2 supplement my argument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus, the OP asked a genuine question and the profile assassination wolf pack are out offering their profound judgement.

I’d feel honoured with your comments FFS.

Nice to hear you sticking up for those that need it. Will you do the same when this happens many times a day to single guys?

Of course not. He only knocks them

She doesn’t need my help as she’s already stated that up there ^^ have read. It’s interesting to see that it’s the same profiles that seem to offer their hierarchical approval and only do it in unison. The later 2 supplement my argument "

Unlike the ones who sugar coat things with the forum ladies to try and get a shag you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP your photos are awesome and your profile is your place to say whatever you like.

Are you happy with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only 34 more comments to go to the thread closes and disappears.

Keep going. "

Some interesting responses here..

Adding to the comment score

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I fancy you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I fancy you"

Metoo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I fancy you"

Already restrained and waiting I see!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Jesus, the OP asked a genuine question and the profile assassination wolf pack are out offering their profound judgement.

I’d feel honoured with your comments FFS.

Nice to hear you sticking up for those that need it. Will you do the same when this happens many times a day to single guys?

Of course not. He only knocks them

She doesn’t need my help as she’s already stated that up there ^^ have read. It’s interesting to see that it’s the same profiles that seem to offer their hierarchical approval and only do it in unison. The later 2 supplement my argument

Unlike the ones who sugar coat things with the forum ladies to try and get a shag you mean "

And that your honour is the case for the defence

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Love a filtering thread, cheers OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a filtering thread, cheers OP "

Yes it's been useful.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Ah this place never changes...

I like your profile op. The main thing is you do too.

All we can be is ourselves. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazed that people think it is too long? It reads well... Photos are great.

Don't understand why so many men seem unable to concentrate / focus long enough to read it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love a filtering thread, cheers OP

Yes it's been useful. "

Hasn't it just!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a filtering thread, cheers OP

Yes it's been useful.

Hasn't it just!!! "

Brilliant public service you have have offered OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love a filtering thread, cheers OP

Yes it's been useful.

Hasn't it just!!!

Brilliant public service you have have offered OP. "

Glad to be of service. Again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a filtering thread, cheers OP

Yes it's been useful.

Hasn't it just!!!

Brilliant public service you have have offered OP.

Glad to be of service. Again "

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We think it's a great profile. Well written and clearly describes what you are looking for.

Doesnt come across as intimidating or to long to us, but then we dont have the shortest profile in world either lol.

As said above your pics are fantastic too.

Just what we look for in a profile.

If you think it describes you perfectly then I wouldn't put to much faith into what others think just be who you are, can't imagine for a minute you are short of offers to meet lol

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile reads well and is very clear about who you are and what you're looking for. If it's too long or too demanding for anyone, they're obviously not who you're looking for. Don't worry about them. The last thing you should be doing changing it to suit everybody.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

OP - I have the benefit of knowing you a little, so I know what a lovely lady you are.

And sexy as fuck. Xxx

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Great pics and profile descriptive.... I’m not sure there’s not much to worry about tbh

I’m guessing you get a message or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great pics, great lady.

Enough said. Never be anything other than who you are! If others don't like it then stuff 'em

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Why ask for advice then get the hump and start blocking those who were honest? You might as well start a thread asking people to validate your ego.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Why ask for advice then get the hump and start blocking those who were honest? You might as well start a thread asking people to validate your ego. "

Maybe giving some actual constructive advice instead of tearing people down may actually be more productive.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Why ask for advice then get the hump and start blocking those who were honest? You might as well start a thread asking people to validate your ego. "

Also if you don’t like it then don’t comment on it so it won’t fracture your ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman asking a mans question you will be saying next you can’t get a meet

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Why ask for advice then get the hump and start blocking those who were honest? You might as well start a thread asking people to validate your ego.

Also if you don’t like it then don’t comment on it so it won’t fracture your ego"

My ego is perfectly fine thankyou my liege.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why ask for advice then get the hump and start blocking those who were honest? You might as well start a thread asking people to validate your ego. "

I really don't have an ego at all. If I did would I have bothered asking for advice? Surely not? Surely I'd be that up myself I'd have thought it was a masterpiece and not even thought to ask.

And in fairness I'm well within my rights to block anyone who said its too long to read as they won't bother to message.

Still reading this or is it too long?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Why ask for advice then get the hump and start blocking those who were honest? You might as well start a thread asking people to validate your ego.

Also if you don’t like it then don’t comment on it so it won’t fracture your ego

My ego is perfectly fine thankyou my liege. "

You seem very defensive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And at what piunt did I get the hump??

I'm still looking for one aren't I?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

4 more to go. Who's gonna have the last word??

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"And at what piunt did I get the hump??

I'm still looking for one aren't I? "

Why block for saying your profile is too long? How fragile are you?!

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"And at what piunt did I get the hump??

I'm still looking for one aren't I?

Why block for saying your profile is too long? How fragile are you?!"

But they wont read it so why not block them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And at what piunt did I get the hump??

I'm still looking for one aren't I?

Why block for saying your profile is too long? How fragile are you?!"

Read above???

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Why ask for advice then get the hump and start blocking those who were honest? You might as well start a thread asking people to validate your ego. "

Oh the hypocrisy of it all.

Don’t you and your gang block when you too receive honest responses and feedback.

This just backs up what I said earlier that you hunt in packs

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"And at what piunt did I get the hump??

I'm still looking for one aren't I?

Why block for saying your profile is too long? How fragile are you?!

But they wont read it so why not block them"

Doesnt make sense to keep them unlocked really

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