FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By *ector 70 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

Best way to deal with them? Site seems to be plagued by them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree but Mayb they loose their nerve I do t know but it is annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few lately so know the feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just forget them and move on, I get them too all the time!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Their loss

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By *ector 70 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

"Their loss

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agree never had a complaint, so guess your right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best way to deal with them? Site seems to be plagued by them"

What’s your definition of a time waster?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Best way to deal with them? Site seems to be plagued by them

What’s your definition of a time waster?"

Someone who says they want to meet you suggest a day/time in keeping with the other person's schedule but they never reply and now the day/time has passed. Messages read but not replied to. Only time wasted is in chatting but still... Then there's people who don't turn up to agreed meets.....

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By *ector 70 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

"Best way to deal with them? Site seems to be plagued by them

What’s your definition of a time waster?"
someone who agrees to meet then just goes off line is one, countless questions saying they want to meet, the list is endless really.

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By *ector 70 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

Exactly that, fantasist is what I call them, loads on here,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What can you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I make a suggestion op take the cock shot off your profile pic

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"What can you do?

Block and move on...

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By *ector 70 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

"Can I make a suggestion op take the cock shot off your profile pic "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sucks... But hey ho thats human nature for you!

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By *ector 70 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

"Can I make a suggestion op take the cock shot off your profile pic "
tried that, just seems people want to mess others around, sad really, but like people say what can be done??

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

It's especially irritating when you have to arrange and perhaps pay for childcare to allow the meet. I'd rather just a straight "no".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A time waster is someone who arranges to meet and doesn’t turn up and doesn’t give a reason why.

Stopping talking online is not a time waster.

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By *ector 70 OP Man
over a year ago

Hastings

"A time waster is someone who arranges to meet and doesn’t turn up and doesn’t give a reason why.

Stopping talking online is not a time waster."
like I've explained when they arrange to meet exchange details then nothing that's wasting someone's time..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What is a time waster to you op?

If you have a fully agreed date, time and place for meeting, after an agreed final contact between you and they don't turn up, use the report button on Fab, to notify Admin.

Take full responsibility yourself for communicating and agreeing final checks for confurmation.

Don't unduly pressure people to meet, but offer an open ended invitation. Too much perceived pressure can mean that their reluctance and uncertainty is not noticed.

Have reasonable expectations. Most people you talk with will not meet you ad you are not mutually matched. It's vital to understand this.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

That's exactly why I only arrange to meet very well verified people now and only ever make same day arrangements. It's not 100% effective but does cut down on the timewasters

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

There’s shit loads, either humour them or block em

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"A time waster is someone who arranges to meet and doesn’t turn up and doesn’t give a reason why.

Stopping talking online is not a time waster.like I've explained when they arrange to meet exchange details then nothing that's wasting someone's time.. "

people have other priorities.

They are also open to alter their interest and want something different. Swapping contact information allows further communication but is not a 100% agreement to have sex.

It is unrealistic to assume that everyone who chats here or offsite is compatible and right to meet, let alone have some form of sex. People also have differing sexual needs, so you will get people who are not matched or who have different needs afterwards, possibly as they will often have other partners and not just you who is potentially providing some sexual interaction. If they decide someone else is their choice for something, you become persona non grata. And, as longer term partners are in great sopply, they will have priority over you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waste their time first

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