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"im sure there is a post about this already but I'm just curious to know from people especially couples and single girls on here, what have asian guys done wrong on here? i know there are some genuine ones and some that just give us genuine ones a bad name i can understand 100% that couples and single girls get bombarded with messages from so many people..i respect that....i havent had any luck so far on here..just want to know what i can do to help myself better..i know im not the best looker on here...ive been rejected for that on here just want honest opinions...please dont kill me...just a genuine questions..i know some might get offended..but just be nice" Well we can only talk about our personal feelings we both grew up in West London and which is a very Asian heavy community and we found that alot if Asian guys tend to have a bad attitude towards women and treat women out of their ethnic group like pieces of meat I know that this is a bit of a generalisation as obviously this isn't the case but it's possibly a reason why as lot's may also feel the same way due to incidents over recent years may have tainted people's views. Also we find that Asian guys tend to be very pushy. That said it certainly wouldn't stop us meeting someone Asian based on our experience from 20 years ago in fact jools has met up socially with a couple of Asian guys not played but that's been nothing to do with their ethnic group. Hopefully this will help slightly and I hope this hasn't come across in anyway racist it's just our opinions based on life experiences. | |||
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"thank you for your opinion on this matter...much appreciated" Hi Caesar, message me privately. I’m an Asian British male who’s been on the scene for 5 years and know a thing or two about how to be successful swinging. Talk soon. | |||
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"it wont let me send you private message bud" Message now please. | |||
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"Would love some tips from you .... Have had no luck at all" Honestly I think Brit Asian guys (and guys in general) need to have friends that are girls. And stop thinking of every woman as a potential fuck. When moving here I noticed this is quite a strong view by most. And it’s pretty off putting. | |||
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"Would love some tips from you .... Have had no luck at all Honestly I think Brit Asian guys (and guys in general) need to have friends that are girls. And stop thinking of every woman as a potential fuck. When moving here I noticed this is quite a strong view by most. And it’s pretty off putting. " Well I can’t agree with you more.... but it still doesn’t help me with success on fab .... I tend to do well in clubs ... | |||
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"Would love some tips from you .... Have had no luck at all Honestly I think Brit Asian guys (and guys in general) need to have friends that are girls. And stop thinking of every woman as a potential fuck. When moving here I noticed this is quite a strong view by most. And it’s pretty off putting. " This is a great start (friends that are girls)..our general experience just in the communication and subsequent meet with asian men is pretty disappointing. Just being polite and we get the onset of we're desperate and need to feel honoured, or need to comply with what they want rather than something mutual. This is a recurring theme and eventually you tend to want to give up, although understand there are good guys out there. But we're not as patient and always sceptical. | |||
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"Would love some tips from you .... Have had no luck at all Honestly I think Brit Asian guys (and guys in general) need to have friends that are girls. And stop thinking of every woman as a potential fuck. When moving here I noticed this is quite a strong view by most. And it’s pretty off putting. This is a great start (friends that are girls)..our general experience just in the communication and subsequent meet with asian men is pretty disappointing. Just being polite and we get the onset of we're desperate and need to feel honoured, or need to comply with what they want rather than something mutual. This is a recurring theme and eventually you tend to want to give up, although understand there are good guys out there. But we're not as patient and always sceptical. " Having studied in an all-boys school run by catholic priest, I have always been an advocate for having girlfriends (friends). It’s not that I don’t have girl Friends, it’s just I tend to not talk about sex or sexual topics with them or in their presence, as I feel awkward. But I have to be honest, some of my girlfriends are hot, and even though I have never been disrespectful with them, or even entertained a conversation with them in a sexual nature, it doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t take the chance if it was given to me. Having said that, I am great at a conversation at clubs, and have had lots of luck. But I think fab is a different beast. One there are too many men here Two even if you are polite, couples and women are inundated with messages and my message usually gets ignored regardless of it being in polite language or rude language. | |||
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