FabSwingers.com forum: Replying to messages

By *essie. OP Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

If someone messages and you aren’t interested. Do you always still reply and do you tell them why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your choice!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It depends, but most of the time I'll just delete the message rather than getting into a conversation with someone I don't want to meet, it just wastes both of our time.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

It depends what the message is. If it is someone being nice I always reply. If it is someone expecting me to drop everything and meet them straight away then no I do t reply

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By *heshirefungirlWoman
over a year ago

ammanford

"It depends what the message is. If it is someone being nice I always reply. If it is someone expecting me to drop everything and meet them straight away then no I do t reply "

I'm like that sometimes I read a message and think IL reply to them, other people I think we'll you clearly didn't bother to read my profile so why waste my time replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a guy so yes, for women different kettle of fish

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

When visible my profile clearly states what I'm looking for and offering. It also states I won't respond to anyone outwith what I'm looking for: and I don't!

There's more of my life behind me than ahead and I certainly don't intend wasting a minute repeating myself to people I've already made clear I wouldn't be meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above we try to put in our profile what we are looking for but 80% of men don’t read it so when I reply and I always reply I just thank them tell them that they are not a good fit for us and wish them luck!!!!

By me doing this it frees my wife up to reply to only the blokes that she wants to and stops her getting the jump with fab.

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By *ilverfox2936Man
over a year ago

Prescot

Messages on here are like the flyers you get through the door from takeaways.

You wouldn’t phone every takeaway to say that you’re sorry you don’t like pizza or that they’re too far away, so why would you do it for every unsolicited message on here?

People get far too butthurt at not getting a reply, no answer is an answer, just accept it and move on.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We reply but don't feel the need to go into a detailed explanation. We simply say we don't feel we are compatible and we wish them happy swinging.

It costs nothing to be polite.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I hardly ever reply to anyone unless they're already friends or it's to do with forum chat. It's blatantly obvious when people haven't read my profile or even the header, so I'm not going to waste my time.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I hardly ever reply to anyone unless they're already friends or it's to do with forum chat. It's blatantly obvious when people haven't read my profile or even the header, so I'm not going to waste my time. "

Is it true that for every message, you reply by sending loads of sexy pictures back to them and a guarantee to fuck whenever they happen to be passing?

How many messages will you get today?

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hit the delete button, to many times I’ve tried to be polite and had a load of abuse back.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Hit the delete button, to many times I’ve tried to be polite and had a load of abuse back."

We don't receive many messages from single guys or we think we may well just hit the delete button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to virtually all my messages and have no issues!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Polite messages get a polite reply, whether we are interested in them or not. Crap messages with zero effort put in get jack shit from us. Occasionally a message is so bad they get a lecture.

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By *lackspiceMan
over a year ago

"If someone messages and you aren’t interested. Do you always still reply and do you tell them why ? "

I always reply but do not always explain why

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If they have read my profile i do

Otherwise i just delete the message.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

Is it true that for every message, you reply by sending loads of sexy pictures back to them and a guarantee to fuck whenever they happen to be passing?

How many messages will you get today?

Oh yes, absolutely

4 messages so far today, it's a slow one. All deleted with no reply, 3 I've blocked. Fucking people.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Men - no

Women - usually yes

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The only messages I get that require an "interested/not interested" decision are from blokes looking to "meet now for a BJ" or similar - they get a straight delete

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Working in a new area so have had 6 today, all instant deletes...

The level of effort is abismal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone messages and you aren’t interested. Do you always still reply and do you tell them why ? "

No, sometimes I just delete.

It would take ages for me to reply to everyone.

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