FabSwingers.com forum: Signs of lost interest..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are the signs the obvious and the not so obvious and what to do you lot do when you spot or sense them?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

contact becoming less. Messages get shorter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry what was you saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages remaining unread despite being online

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Oh look @@ a balloon on a stick ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get as boring as possible in the hope it fizzles out as I'm bad at saying outright I'm not into it. Bad, but I can't help it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh look @@ a balloon on a stick ......"

Hahahaha

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I get as boring as possible in the hope it fizzles out as I'm bad at saying outright I'm not into it. Bad, but I can't help it. "

I recognise that

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Stop putting their cock in your inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they have empty balls and disappear, you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I move on to the next one

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By *eralPete1Man
over a year ago

marsworth

"What are the signs the obvious and the not so obvious and what to do you lot do when you spot or sense them?

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sorry , what was you saying? I was watching a radiator get hot

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

is this the guy your supposed to be meeting in a couple of weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can sense it

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I get as boring as possible in the hope it fizzles out as I'm bad at saying outright I'm not into it. Bad, but I can't help it. "

Same, if I ever answer with "lol" it's a sure sign I've lost interest

And if I get the vibe someone's lost interest in me, I just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buffing off any attempts to meet up, radio silence unless you message first, short responses or dead end responses making a conversation difficult

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Yeah, let's meet! How about in 6 weeks?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messages remaining unread despite being online"

I totally agree,

This is a favourite of mine and biggest pet hate. So many say they are not online and they just haven't logged off. Its complete rubbish. You show off line if your profile isnt active for about 5 mins. It only shows active when they are online. They deny this all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"is this the guy your supposed to be meeting in a couple of weeks"

No real world situation, my sister. I’ve told her all the signs. I know them all!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Block all access

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messages remaining unread despite being online

I totally agree,

I’m not sure about that. Someone said to me I was online all the time, I’m not, but I do forget to close my browser.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I get as boring as possible in the hope it fizzles out as I'm bad at saying outright I'm not into it. Bad, but I can't help it. "

A cracking sounding couple certainly fell off our radar when they managed to reply to a message with "1". Outside of "." I don't think there's a shorter possible reply! Yeah we're done...

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"Buffing off any attempts to meet up, radio silence unless you message first, short responses or dead end responses making a conversation difficult"

Exactly this.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Messages remaining unread despite being online

I totally agree,

Well fuck knows here. Been talking sporadically to the wife on a couple... Didn't read our last message here or on kik from a fortnight ago... A see them online and joke they've clearly found better options, and they immediately reply say "oh no, we miss you, we thought *you* were bored of us.... Blah blah blah...". No fucking idea what's going on there!

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

When they go to the bathroom for half an hour

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I kind of let conversation naturally fizzle. You can read the change in voice and interest generally *she types like has much experience in this*

Actually, it has happened once to me, and recently. More a mutual loss of interest. The conversation didn't have that energy and there wasn't any talk about meeting and just no... well spark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get as boring as possible in the hope it fizzles out as I'm bad at saying outright I'm not into it. Bad, but I can't help it.

Same, if I ever answer with "lol" it's a sure sign I've lost interest

And if I get the vibe someone's lost interest in me, I just move on. "

Lol

Just kidding, I like you

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I wait until they've stopped laugh, then i hear tumbles

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Going from messaging frequently and immediate responses to days in between replies, messages sitting unread.

No questions being asked because they're really not interested in my response anyway.

Never being available for Skype.

Not sure when they'll next be free to get together with not even a rough idea of timescale given.

Only contacting me when they're pissed up and just looking for a quick shag.

Breaking an arrangement with me only to post a veri from someone else the following day.

They get a restraining order against me (although I like to think of that as playing hard to get).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messages remaining unread despite being online

I totally agree,

I’m not sure about that. Someone said to me I was online all the time, I’m not, but I do forget to close my browser. "

Same, someone accused me off this recently and called me a liar when I had fell asleep logged in.

I wasn’t on for hours but he insisted I was.

I’ve zero reason to lie.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Messages remaining unread despite being online"

That's not always reliable though as some people's inboxes are overflowing compared to others.

A couple of people I message on here will always reply if they find my messages but can't always find them.

Miss Fucktress has got one from me that's days old somewhere in hers as it is, I know if she finds it she replies....unless she has lost interest too

Hahaa

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Once I’m sure I let people know that I’ve changed my mind. No point messing about and wasting people’s time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Messages remaining unread despite being online

That's not always reliable though as some people's inboxes are overflowing compared to others.

A couple of people I message on here will always reply if they find my messages but can't always find them.

Miss Fucktress has got one from me that's days old somewhere in hers as it is, I know if she finds it she replies....unless she has lost interest too

Hahaa"

My inbox is very busy. Also you’re my friend so I’m not gonna lose interest in you. I was on about sexual interest with potential meets.

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