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So the time has come

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

for me to close this chapter on my life.

A couple of months ago I met a wonderful lady in the vanilla world, although she has been up for trying so many things that's she's never done before and we've formed a fantastic dynamic in our relationship, I had decided against removing my profile from fab until I was sure it was going somewhere and also, partly because we have been so totally in tune with each other sexually, just the outside chance that she might express some curiosity about the scene when I finally shared with her the fact that I have, shall we say, dabbled.

For all of those out there in single- but-not-really man land who come on here with single profiles asking how to get the wife into swinging, the answer is, you don't. She'll either be curious or interested or definitely not. And if she's not, that's where it ends.

As we've been totally honest and open with one another, as we were having a chat yesterday over something else, I found an appropriate opportunity to drop it into the conversation.

And it very nearly broke us.

She was shocked and I felt awful, mortified that I had misjudged it so badly. When I have been so good at picking up on her desires and fantasies normally.

And so, good people of fab, this is why I must leave.

I always knew that if I were in a relationship with someone, any continued involvement in the scene would have to be with full knowledge and consent of any partner and preferably with her joining in.

It's not something I would ever consider doing behind a partners back.

To those of you who have interacted with me, debated with me in the forums, disagreed with me, blocked me, fabbed me, or even just vaguely recognise my user name, I thank you and I wish you all the very best for the future.

Farewell friends

Horny_DJ

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Best of luck to you

You'll be missed.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I wish you the absolute best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh all the best, so glad you have found happiness ... That for me is what life is all about xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwww, I’m so happy for you. Have fun in the real world and take care.xxx

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"for me to close this chapter on my life.

A couple of months ago I met a wonderful lady in the vanilla world, although she has been up for trying so many things that's she's never done before and we've formed a fantastic dynamic in our relationship, I had decided against removing my profile from fab until I was sure it was going somewhere and also, partly because we have been so totally in tune with each other sexually, just the outside chance that she might express some curiosity about the scene when I finally shared with her the fact that I have, shall we say, dabbled.

For all of those out there in single- but-not-really man land who come on here with single profiles asking how to get the wife into swinging, the answer is, you don't. She'll either be curious or interested or definitely not. And if she's not, that's where it ends.

As we've been totally honest and open with one another, as we were having a chat yesterday over something else, I found an appropriate opportunity to drop it into the conversation.

And it very nearly broke us.

She was shocked and I felt awful, mortified that I had misjudged it so badly. When I have been so good at picking up on her desires and fantasies normally.

And so, good people of fab, this is why I must leave.

I always knew that if I were in a relationship with someone, any continued involvement in the scene would have to be with full knowledge and consent of any partner and preferably with her joining in.

It's not something I would ever consider doing behind a partners back.

To those of you who have interacted with me, debated with me in the forums, disagreed with me, blocked me, fabbed me, or even just vaguely recognise my user name, I thank you and I wish you all the very best for the future.

Farewell friends

Horny_DJ"

Awe this is so nice to read

Sending you both all the love and luck in the world.

Take care of each other.

Jo.Xx

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Have fun and good luck to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very best wishes for the future, a thoroughly heartening story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s lovely. Good luck

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

That's lovely, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good man.

Hope you both have a great relationship

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

Dont know you but always nice when somone finds what their heart desires good luck for the future xx

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Later dude. Wish you both all the best

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

That's great news DJ, you take care and be true to your heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad to hear your talk never broke you guys up and I applaud your honesty pal. Wish you all the best with life, love and everything in between

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Take care and all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck DJ

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Good luck all the best

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Good luck DJ, I hope it all works out for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the best dear chap I hope you both have a fantastic time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very positive flounce

Very happy for you and all the best

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Good luck OP!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

This was a lovely read op, best of luck

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"for me to close this chapter on my life.

A couple of months ago I met a wonderful lady in the vanilla world, although she has been up for trying so many things that's she's never done before and we've formed a fantastic dynamic in our relationship, I had decided against removing my profile from fab until I was sure it was going somewhere and also, partly because we have been so totally in tune with each other sexually, just the outside chance that she might express some curiosity about the scene when I finally shared with her the fact that I have, shall we say, dabbled.

For all of those out there in single- but-not-really man land who come on here with single profiles asking how to get the wife into swinging, the answer is, you don't. She'll either be curious or interested or definitely not. And if she's not, that's where it ends.

As we've been totally honest and open with one another, as we were having a chat yesterday over something else, I found an appropriate opportunity to drop it into the conversation.

And it very nearly broke us.

She was shocked and I felt awful, mortified that I had misjudged it so badly. When I have been so good at picking up on her desires and fantasies normally.

And so, good people of fab, this is why I must leave.

I always knew that if I were in a relationship with someone, any continued involvement in the scene would have to be with full knowledge and consent of any partner and preferably with her joining in.

It's not something I would ever consider doing behind a partners back.

To those of you who have interacted with me, debated with me in the forums, disagreed with me, blocked me, fabbed me, or even just vaguely recognise my user name, I thank you and I wish you all the very best for the future.

Farewell friends

Horny_DJ"

Well played fella

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)

Best of luck.

Bladey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is the best policy, sounds like you have what you both want so good on you and all the best. Hope you dont come back - unless it's for the right reasons!

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"for me to close this chapter on my life.

A couple of months ago I met a wonderful lady in the vanilla world, although she has been up for trying so many things that's she's never done before and we've formed a fantastic dynamic in our relationship, I had decided against removing my profile from fab until I was sure it was going somewhere and also, partly because we have been so totally in tune with each other sexually, just the outside chance that she might express some curiosity about the scene when I finally shared with her the fact that I have, shall we say, dabbled.

For all of those out there in single- but-not-really man land who come on here with single profiles asking how to get the wife into swinging, the answer is, you don't. She'll either be curious or interested or definitely not. And if she's not, that's where it ends.

As we've been totally honest and open with one another, as we were having a chat yesterday over something else, I found an appropriate opportunity to drop it into the conversation.

And it very nearly broke us.

She was shocked and I felt awful, mortified that I had misjudged it so badly. When I have been so good at picking up on her desires and fantasies normally.

And so, good people of fab, this is why I must leave.

I always knew that if I were in a relationship with someone, any continued involvement in the scene would have to be with full knowledge and consent of any partner and preferably with her joining in.

It's not something I would ever consider doing behind a partners back.

To those of you who have interacted with me, debated with me in the forums, disagreed with me, blocked me, fabbed me, or even just vaguely recognise my user name, I thank you and I wish you all the very best for the future.

Farewell friends

Horny_DJ"

That’s very interesting and a valid reason to be leaving Fab.

I’m in a very similar situation and been so close to telling her about Fab. I have mentioned an interest in visiting a club together and she wasn’t shocked at the idea.

Hope it works out well OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw I’m happy for you

Enjoy your relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's so nice! Best of luck to you both x

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

All the best

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Very honourable of you. Best wishes and happy guitar-playing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'll miss you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck for the future and hope it all works out.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

All the very best to you and I shall miss you in the forums.xx

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I wish you all the very best and every happiness

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