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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It's happened. a great meet to be had by both with amazing times, both of you want to see each other again and boom.

A veri pops up from him/her explicitly describing your sexy fun times.

Do you A, show it as who cares who can see how you get your kicks...

Or B, keep it hidden and wish for a fab room 101...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Keep it hidden, as I do with all of them, explicit or not.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Any explicit ones or ones with my name on I keep hidden x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep them private. Maybe only show when I'm hoping to meet, to prove I'm genuine.

Personally I dont like the audit trail they provide! Keep it hidden.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have shown my explicit ones but it tends to send folk extra excited when they message you

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

It all depends if it's comedy gold really. Most of the people leaving me a sex veri would ensure that it reads like a mucky poem from Jack Duckworth to Vera in the 80s.

Anything less than that wouldn't deserve a display.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So offputting...and always end..treat her well guys! Like, okay, what a gent

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Keep it hidden, but I only show social veris anyho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep mine hidden, veris bring drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hide it, but I'd be grateful if everyone else can leave theirs public please as it's fun reading them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any explicit ones or ones with my name on I keep hidden x"

This.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No set etiquette. Do what works for you

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"I'd hide it, but I'd be grateful if everyone else can leave theirs public please as it's fun reading them "

Most definitely this

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

All my explicit ones stay hidden. God knows what kind of weirdos I'd have messaging me if they were public

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I'd hide it, but I'd be grateful if everyone else can leave theirs public please as it's fun reading them

Most definitely this "

That profile pic

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I keep the majority of my veris hidden anyway. I do enjoy reading them as they elicit fresh memories from the experience

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I've usually made it clear I'm not a fan of explicit veris before we've met and tend to avoid those that have a string of them and leave them anyway, so chances of it happening are slim - if it did though I'd probably hide it unless it was tongue in cheek and humourous in nature

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Whack em up for all to see, badge of honour style...

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By *niceguyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

To me there is no need for an explicit veri.

Keep them clean.

If you want to reminisce about a particular highlight with someone then message them. There's no need for everyone to know.

Whether you want to post them or not is down to personal preference. I did like reading mine to remember the fun though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s "

I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s

I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway "

No I’m here

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By *arksxMan
over a year ago

Leicester / London


"It's happened. a great meet to be had by both with amazing times, both of you want to see each other again and boom.

A veri pops up from him/her explicitly describing your sexy fun times.

Do you A, show it as who cares who can see how you get your kicks...

Or B, keep it hidden and wish for a fab room 101...

"

Discuss it with the person the person who wrote the veri?

Rather than illicit opions from people who were not at the meet or in the persons mind when they wrote it

As for displaying it... Do what makes you feel good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s

I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway

No I’m here "

Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s

I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway

No I’m here

Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding "
what’s Verdi got to do with it?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s

I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway

No I’m here

Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding "

Yeah she kept her Bach and Beethoven's hidden too

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s

I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway

No I’m here

Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding

Yeah she kept her Bach and Beethoven's hidden too "

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I show it for an hour then hide it. I would assume he'd written it in the after glow but be really embarrassed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s

I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway

No I’m here

Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding what’s Verdi got to do with it? "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one."

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro? "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s

I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway

No I’m here

Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding

Yeah she kept her Bach and Beethoven's hidden too

"

I don’t mind that I rather Ravel her Bolero and play with her Rachmaninov

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s

I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway

No I’m here

Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding

Yeah she kept her Bach and Beethoven's hidden too

I don’t mind that I rather Ravel her Bolero and play with her Rachmaninov "

Ooooooh I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro? "

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?"

He said borrow not have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep mine hidden.

I sometimes display my most recent for a while.

I dont often get left them or have mine displayed as I'm married and it would put others off playing with the guy!!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?"

Swap you for a shiny

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?

Swap you for a shiny "

Or if that's no good I've got a couple of Crap Cormorants going spare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?

He said borrow not have "

Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?

He said borrow not have

Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one "

Damn wish I could help with that but I obviously can’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?

Swap you for a shiny

Or if that's no good I've got a couple of Crap Cormorants going spare "

It’s ok I’ll go Robin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?

He said borrow not have

Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one

Damn wish I could help with that but I obviously can’t "

That’s what they all say

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

1:2:1 veris are hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?

He said borrow not have

Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one

Damn wish I could help with that but I obviously can’t

That’s what they all say "

I only have amazing shags but seems you’re only looking for a shit one. Shame

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By *lair101TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen, westhill

I don't think you should go into detail about the meet. I won't publish anything explicit.

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol

Verifications are helpful to hopefully enhance a profile... and show that you may be normal...ish

But they are also often a private thing and for your eyes only.

I would love a tripadvisor system which showed really crappy ones too...that would appeal to my sense of humour

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

I will show it then hide it later with my other veri and every once in a while display them.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Although if i give veri , I don't go into explicit detail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?

He said borrow not have

Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one

Damn wish I could help with that but I obviously can’t

That’s what they all say

I only have amazing shags but seems you’re only looking for a shit one. Shame "

Oh no missed out on amazing sex again

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

you guys crack me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened. a great meet to be had by both with amazing times, both of you want to see each other again and boom.

A veri pops up from him/her explicitly describing your sexy fun times.

Do you A, show it as who cares who can see how you get your kicks...

Or B, keep it hidden and wish for a fab room 101...

"
keep it private

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?

He said borrow not have

Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one "

You know you two could share, sharing is caring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhat wary of being in an inaccurate veri. Sometimes what is described is unrealistic or plain lies.

Also when getting the veri seems more important than the action, it can lead to some poor behaviour.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?

He said borrow not have

Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one

You know you two could share, sharing is caring "

Always more than happy to share in the right circumstances

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I know that verifications are there to prove that you're authentic but I find them a bit embarrassing, basically getting rated on how you are in the sac. Plus I never know what to write for someone else that I've met. It's just awkward personally

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By *irtySexyDawgMan
over a year ago

Welwyn

I don't see or feel the problem with explicit veris, way more interesting to read than some of the, 'she floated across the room as if carried by angels' bs some people spew out...yawn.

Im here to connect, but it's ultimately about sex for most here, so if I read a veri I don't want tons of tedious hyperbole...id like to know that they turned up, were friendly, funny, respectful, safe and sexy as hell...whyd you hide something about your sexual self when you're primarily here to find and meet people for sex?!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I don't see or feel the problem with explicit veris, way more interesting to read than some of the, 'she floated across the room as if carried by angels' bs some people spew out...yawn.

Im here to connect, but it's ultimately about sex for most here, so if I read a veri I don't want tons of tedious hyperbole...id like to know that they turned up, were friendly, funny, respectful, safe and sexy as hell...whyd you hide something about your sexual self when you're primarily here to find and meet people for sex?! "

Because sadly some people make more of a veri than there really needs to be - or make judgements about who people have met etc - ultimately the purpose of a veri is to verify that you are genuine and nothing more really.

I certainly don't want to read about someone's capabilities in bed - for starters if I'm interested in someone enough to want to meet them I'd rather explore and find out for myself, and just because someone was amazing with one person doesn't mean it will be the same with me - sexual chemistry and comparability vary from person to person and even individual encounters with the same person - so a veri that says "Gave the best blow job ever" is pretty pointless and irrelevant to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only show social veris. I had one guy leave a Veri that named the road I lived on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I display wether social or naughty, never had any dramas from them and some enjoy the naughty ones, it is a site that enables sex after all.

Each to their own though as is the way with everything on here

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By *hrista Bellend OP   Woman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I only show social veris. I had one guy leave a Veri that named the road I lived on! "

Oh my that's intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only show social veris. I had one guy leave a Veri that named the road I lived on! "

how does that even manage to be slipped into a veri?!

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Any explicit ones or ones with my name on I keep hidden x"

I've had a few who have put my actual names on veris... Discrete much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only show social veris. I had one guy leave a Veri that named the road I lived on! "

FFS Ash!

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By *irtySexyDawgMan
over a year ago

Welwyn


"I display wether social or naughty, never had any dramas from them and some enjoy the naughty ones, it is a site that enables sex after all.

Each to their own though as is the way with everything on here"

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Verifications are helpful to hopefully enhance a profile... and show that you may be normal...ish

But they are also often a private thing and for your eyes only.

I would love a tripadvisor system which showed really crappy ones too...that would appeal to my sense of humour "

That very wicked sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?

He said borrow not have

Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one

You know you two could share, sharing is caring "

Now that kind of sharing is very caring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.

Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?

Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?

He said borrow not have

Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one

You know you two could share, sharing is caring

Always more than happy to share in the right circumstances "

I wonder how these circumstances happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only show social veris. I had one guy leave a Veri that named the road I lived on!

how does that even manage to be slipped into a veri?!

"

I'd met him several times and this time he picked me up from mine. He had trouble finding my road and though he'd tell the funny story!

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"I only show social veris. I had one guy leave a Veri that named the road I lived on!

how does that even manage to be slipped into a veri?!

I'd met him several times and this time he picked me up from mine. He had trouble finding my road and though he'd tell the funny story! "

That really isn't funny at all, despite how funny a story it may have been, there is absolutely no need to put personal details into a veri like that.

What is funny is he probably thought you would actually choose to display it to all & sundry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only show social veris. I had one guy leave a Veri that named the road I lived on!

how does that even manage to be slipped into a veri?!

I'd met him several times and this time he picked me up from mine. He had trouble finding my road and though he'd tell the funny story!

That really isn't funny at all, despite how funny a story it may have been, there is absolutely no need to put personal details into a veri like that.

What is funny is he probably thought you would actually choose to display it to all & sundry. "

Exactly.

Iv never really had any other issues though.

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