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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have had a couple of messages lately from couples profiles but from the 'guy' of the couple, the femme is never even mentioned... so I wondered,

When couples message people, do they usually message 'as a couple' using the word 'we' ? or is it normal for it to be so one sided?

Is it more likely to be one of those 'fake profiles' I keep hearing about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I = common man.....we = the queen and poshies!

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By *istress ValeporcaCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

to me if I'm on couple profile it depends if I'm speaking about me or us. For instance 'I' like tall men, whereas 'he' isn't bothered how tall the lady is. However 'we' prefer to meet at chams.

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

we say if its only the one of us on or if we both there, so people know from the start who is talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If on this profile it's I as this 1 just for me deb, if on other profile it depends on who talking to if it's someone from forums it's I cos it's deb if it's about meets then its we or I depending again on what talking about and with who. Confused yet cos I am Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh righto, so it's not neccessarily a fake then? I didn't wanna be naive about it and look like a tit... well, any more than usual

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If on this profile it's I as this 1 just for me deb, if on other profile it depends on who talking to if it's someone from forums it's I cos it's deb if it's about meets then its we or I depending again on what talking about and with who. Confused yet cos I am Lol "

um......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am mostly on here in mail and chat (bex) But I always have husband next to me so he is fully aware of all mail I send.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I or we should never be used in correct circles Fia ......... I always enquire ...... How is one? Is one doing okay m8 ? Does one want to partake of some light hearted banter by jove ?

Classy eh ?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i message as me, unless it is to another couple and we are trying to arrange a foursome n which case we are both looking at pics...

messaging as we is just a bit unnatural...i tend to assume i am talking to one person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh righto, so it's not neccessarily a fake then? I didn't wanna be naive about it and look like a tit... well, any more than usual "

Lack of pictures on a profile that's a couple especially if its a lack of fem pictures I look out for. Been on for over a yr and not verified then we wont respond. But if your unsure its not uncommon to ask for msn or phone chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen this subject arise before. A lot of the time it is just a male. If you are worried that it is not a genuine couple, ask them to go on cam to prove it is a couple and not a singleton! I understand that their partner may not be there at the time but arrange a time for when they are both there to prove to you. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Classy eh ?"

One always suspected you might be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Lack of pictures on a profile that's a couple especially if its a lack of fem pictures I look out for. "

The most recent only had big hairy blokey pics in ladies frilly undies...I'm pretty sure sure it was bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Lack of pictures on a profile that's a couple especially if its a lack of fem pictures I look out for.

The most recent only had big hairy blokey pics in ladies frilly undies...I'm pretty sure sure it was bloke "

Dam shame your in Leeds Genuine fem here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Dam shame your in Leeds Genuine fem here "

I'm actually straight was just trying to suss if the messages were from fibbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Dam shame your in Leeds Genuine fem here

I'm actually straight was just trying to suss if the messages were from fibbers "

Was still worth a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i dont know them its generally we, if i do its i cos they already know its me (molly) thats the fab addict.

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"Oh righto, so it's not neccessarily a fake then? I didn't wanna be naive about it and look like a tit... well, any more than usual "
with us its mostly the male on here as i donot like useing pc but he shows me all the mail we get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had a couple of messages lately from couples profiles but from the 'guy' of the couple, the femme is never even mentioned... so I wondered,

When couples message people, do they usually message 'as a couple' using the word 'we' ? or is it normal for it to be so one sided?

Is it more likely to be one of those 'fake profiles' I keep hearing about?

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Possibly ..if you use the chatrooms or msn ask to see both on cam or ask to speak to both on phone then you will know if there genuine or not.

just an after thought but when i was a cpl on here majority of couples profile only showed pics of the fem and never the bloke even on there friends only pics ...bit odd

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

It's either the Royal we, or they are into watersports.

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