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Saying "I love you" when in the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you continue to have the most amazing sex with a FWB and all of a sudden, while you're still at it, you say "I love you" while you're in the moment.

I've done it few times and FWB have said the same back. We've laugh and joked about it afterwards confirming we were caught up and blurted it out. I guess it's one of those things but for some reason it makes me hornier.

Had this happened to any other Fabsters?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No we use other words of endearment, nicknames mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a guy who I’ve only been speaking to and messaging for almost 3 years now (he lives far away) he tells me he loves me all the time! I just think it’s sweet.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Depends on how it was said. It would be fine if said in a fun way but if said seriously i would freeze and panic.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

No! Never said it to the fwb and wouldn't...I say it when I mean it xx

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

A lady friend if mine once wrote to say that I'd said "I love you" in my sleep.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it to a sex worker I used to see regularly and thought why did I do that, now her rates are going to go up.

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By *hamCouple30Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We've had this a few times. It's very nice to hear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on how it was said. It would be fine if said in a fun way but if said seriously i would freeze and panic."

Depends on how well you know the other person. Me and my FWB had been playing with one another regular for over two years.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Someone once said to me in the moment, not once but twice! I found it kind of creepy esp as the guy sort of clung to me that night, I've avoided him since & not gone there again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t say it, even in the moment.

Once I was fucking a guy, casually, for the first time and he kept on saying it “God, I love you [my name]” over and over. I had to tell him to stop haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an intense FWB relationship a few years ago, he said it to me mid fuck once, I pretended not to hear it.

Thing was I would of had a proper relationship with him in a heartbeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Only ever said it when I meant it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has happened to me. Luckily for me we progressed from FWBs to a couple

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have a friend here, we've sort of evolved to that. We're not and will never be a couple, it's not like that, but it's a deep, comfortable, enduring affection. So yes we do say it from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a friend here, we've sort of evolved to that. We're not and will never be a couple, it's not like that, but it's a deep, comfortable, enduring affection. So yes we do say it from time to time."

Totally agree as that's how we are. And it makes for amazing sex as there's a whole heap of passion there.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've had someone say it the first time we met once, I think it was just the heat of the moment and I'm sure he was very embarrassed, I pretended I hadn't noticed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a rule that during or immediately post coital doesnt count.

As it turned out, his never counted cos he was a cheating lying scumbag, but hey ho!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We had a rule that during or immediately post coital doesnt count.

As it turned out, his never counted cos he was a cheating lying scumbag, but hey ho! "

Uh oh! He's a fool. You're gorgeous!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Love is subjective, so if you felt it and thought it right to say it, that's your choice. I might be concerned if someone said it to me but could accept it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent had this happen and I'm kind of glad, in the moment or not I still feel like it could plant a little idea in someones head and the next thing Bam! You've got a ball and chain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell friends and loads of people I love because I do love them at that moment in time with no connotations at all ... I say it and have had it said to me and just except as it is - in the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it in the moment twice ( different people) awkwarddddddddd I meant I love it fml

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only declare love to my boyfriend, I may say things to guys such as "I love it when you....." but never as a term of endearment, simply because I can always walk away from them. I am emotionally detached from a meet, but that doesn't stop me being passionate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not. I've said it when I felt it. Not because I was caught in the moment

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By *lair101TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen, westhill


"I've said it to a sex worker I used to see regularly and thought why did I do that, now her rates are going to go up. "

Lol.. Should have slapped her bum and said. See ya next week darlin

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