FabSwingers.com forum: How long

By *abat40x OP Woman
over a year ago

North Lincolnshire

Did it take you from joining fab to get your first meet. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was lucky .. just under two weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cpl of weeks I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a long time ago!! But I dont think it was long but I do remember who it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so easy for us guys to get a meet .

You ladies get flooded with messages and can just take your pic .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of years, if memory serves.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Couple of months if I remember correctly

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think it was a couple of months, we were really lucky

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I arranged a meet 2wks after i joined. He stood me up. At that point i thought i was maybe too old for Fab and was going to close my account. So glad i stayed as have since met lots of lovely people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which time

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne

I've been here a number of years and yet to meet someone I want to meet

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By *thena123Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

About a month, I wanted to see how things went before I jumped in the deep end lol.xxx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

2 months,

But I was worth the wait. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a month on my first profile, then about two on the next one, and bloody ages on my current one!

Seems harder to meet the older you get???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it before I joined fab.

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By *oldenskyWoman
over a year ago

london

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I joined, then I hid, then I watched, then I hid, then I looked for what I wanted

It was a while.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

A fabster introduced me to fab so officially - 6 months before I joined

After was 3 days

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

About a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of months id say, still not had many meets but you know what, im happy to be patient and make new friends along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few days, but I bumped into someone I used to know excluding that just over a week.

I’m quite easy going, life affords me the ability to be very flexible with days or evenings, that and everyone to have a coffee (tea for me) and meet new people!

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

2 or 3 weeks until my first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m still building up the courage,more nerve wracking than I thought

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

About a year. But we laid low when we first joined and just looked around and got info for clubs and socials.

Gem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But have spoke to some fantastic couples/women

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Quite a while due to not having the freedom & plucking up the courage to go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two days. But the bad news is now over 4 months from my last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 years... then I was spotted by a lovely lady on webcam who didnt live too far away... the rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few weeks

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

About 10 days

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I didnt use fab when I first joined for anything other than keeping up with friends I knew from elsewhere so I wasn't on here for meets.

Since joining the forums though was a different matter as that was when I started looking for meets so in that case it was less than a week....yep I got very lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2hours previous profile.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

A day I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First joined on another account a few years ago after being told about Fab by someone on a dating site.

Signed up, people watched for a few weeks then a couple approached me where the guy wanted to watch another guy with his wife. First meet and it totally blew my mind!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

About a week, I was sooooooo nervous!!!

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Couple weeks from memory was long time ago lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buffering.........

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Try the clubs

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"2hours previous profile."

Speedy Gonzales

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By *argaret James200TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

When I joined fab on my first day was contacted by a woman with no pic aged 25 for a meet two days later we went out sat night, first time I saw her was on pickup, she is an absolute stunner I was so self conscious an old cross dresser with this young model, she was fantastic great to talk to, great dancer, great looks, I couldn't relax till I'd had a few drinks, we had a great night dancing and chatting, turned out she was an airline stewardess and didn't want her bosses to see her on the site, fucked me silly back at the hotel. She left the site next day and never saw her again, been looking for that special meet ever since, hence will always chat even if no pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m still building up the courage,more nerve wracking than I thought "

It's not that bad!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m still building up the courage,more nerve wracking than I thought

It's not that bad!! "

I think I’ve built it up in my head for so long that’s the problem,but you could be right.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

About 18 hours

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

A few months, can't remember exactly. Joining the forums definitely helped me improve my profile enough for someone to take a chance on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Months, because I was a classic one line message knob head.

Once I understood that a little effort goes a long way, things improved quickly........ probably still considered a bit of a knob head by some though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years and it was a man. Just shy of 4 years until I met a woman. Still yet to meet a couple. I’m a bit slow on the up take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 months or thereabouts

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol

"I joined, then I hid, then I watched, then I hid, then I looked for what I wanted

It was a while. "

I love a game of sardines

Me...About 2months i think

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

A few false starts, ghosting and getting stood up and generally messed around, but about a month for my first social, 6 weeks to my first sex meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few false starts, ghosting and getting stood up and generally messed around, but about a month for my first social, 6 weeks to my first sex meet."

Same as us... First two meets were no shows and unlos... First real meet was with a bi guy that we met a few times..

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

3 years. Mind you, when I first signed up I never had the intention of meeting anyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged a meeting very quickly (first day) which happened a couple of weeks later.

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