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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all have those pitiful poor me moments, where you feel taken for granted, then wise up and get back to reality.

What do you think people take you for granted most?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lubricated holes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their health.

It infuriates me.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

My kindness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My kindness and my lubricated anus."

There there there x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My loyalty.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

My forgiveness.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

My ability to listen

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"My forgiveness. "

Oh this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My easygoing nature

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

My willingness to fix issues that I've seen coming and have repeatedly warned about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My generosity and forgiveness

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"My forgiveness.

Oh this too."

I think sometimes I should put all my walls back up but then I'd not be me? You know? Xx

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

People presume I'm tough, I am but doesn't mean their actions don't hurt me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"My forgiveness.

Oh this too.

I think sometimes I should put all my walls back up but then I'd not be me? You know? Xx"

Oh I know all too well. It's a hard balance. Being yourself, being kind, being understanding, bending over fucking backwards again and again.

I've just accepted that sometimes I'm going to get burnt occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My forgiveness and that I will accept anything without question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kindness, my willingness to help others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their health.

It infuriates me."

Completely misread the OP....d'oh...sorry.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North of Okehampton, South of Bideford

confusing me with someone that gives a toss

(Yes i am joking)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My compassion and listening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I am as innocent as my big blue eyes suggest

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Oh I know all too well. It's a hard balance. ....... bending over fucking backwards again and again.

I've just accepted that sometimes I'm going to get burnt occasionally

It would be hard not to take advantage of these qualities

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"My forgiveness.

Oh this too.

I think sometimes I should put all my walls back up but then I'd not be me? You know? Xx

Oh I know all too well. It's a hard balance. Being yourself, being kind, being understanding, bending over fucking backwards again and again.

I've just accepted that sometimes I'm going to get burnt occasionally

Absolutely. I'm me, I'm going to get hurt, I know that so ill deal with it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

the only one person who takes me for granted is a particular friend who imagines that I will continue to put up with her cancelling dates.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I'm nice, probably too nice. People take advantage of my accepting nature.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"My forgiveness.

Oh this too.

I think sometimes I should put all my walls back up but then I'd not be me? You know? Xx

Oh I know all too well. It's a hard balance. Being yourself, being kind, being understanding, bending over fucking backwards again and again.

I've just accepted that sometimes I'm going to get burnt occasionally

Absolutely. I'm me, I'm going to get hurt, I know that so ill deal with it

xx"

Sigh

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"My forgiveness.

Oh this too.

I think sometimes I should put all my walls back up but then I'd not be me? You know? Xx

Oh I know all too well. It's a hard balance. Being yourself, being kind, being understanding, bending over fucking backwards again and again.

I've just accepted that sometimes I'm going to get burnt occasionally

We get burnt & we learn, sometimes for the better sometimes not. It's hard sometimes to not let things change you as a person

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

" We all have those pitiful poor me moments, where you feel taken for granted, then wise up and get back to reality.

What do you think people take you for granted most?"

I am far too suspicious and actually selfish to be taken for granted, yes I help people but it is because I gain something from it, which is mainly pleasure.

My walls are where I want them to be and my inner circle friends love me too much to hurt me and

everyone one else is at arms reach where they belong.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

" We all have those pitiful poor me moments, where you feel taken for granted, then wise up and get back to reality.

What do you think people take you for granted most?

I am far too suspicious and actually selfish to be taken for granted, yes I help people but it is because I gain something from it, which is mainly pleasure.

My walls are where I want them to be and my inner circle friends love me too much to hurt me and

everyone one else is at arms reach where they belong.

I'm actually quite envious of having that ability. My mum always said to me that not everyone has the heart you do and feels like you.

I think she was trying to tell me I feel too much, that I give myself too freely to people. I consider them friends or close and so far bar 1 friend I've a 100% success rate of being trampled over.

I need to learn how to give less fucks

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"My forgiveness.

Oh this too.

I think sometimes I should put all my walls back up but then I'd not be me? You know? Xx"

I know that feeling x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

My work ethic... I go the extra mile time and time again, and it just becomes expected after a while

I don't take any shit in personal relationships, I'm quite happy to walk away if people think they can treat me like crap

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

My children take me for granted sometimes. I know they don't mean it but it does get to me every once in a while. I am expected to be wonderwoman by doing everything. I know a lot of Mums feel the same way too.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"My forgiveness.

Oh this too.

I think sometimes I should put all my walls back up but then I'd not be me? You know? Xx

Oh I know all too well. It's a hard balance. Being yourself, being kind, being understanding, bending over fucking backwards again and again.

I've just accepted that sometimes I'm going to get burnt occasionally

We get burnt & we learn, sometimes for the better sometimes not. It's hard sometimes to not let things change you as a person "

I hear that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My good nature

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"My children take me for granted sometimes. I know they don't mean it but it does get to me every once in a while. I am expected to be wonderwoman by doing everything. I know a lot of Mums feel the same way too."

Its easy to take our children for granted at times too

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

My kindness, even to people that don't deserve it at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My honesty

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"People presume I'm tough, I am but doesn't mean their actions don't hurt me. "

Oh yes, I very much agree and associate with this

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"My work ethic... I go the extra mile time and time again, and it just becomes expected after a while

I don't take any shit in personal relationships, I'm quite happy to walk away if people think they can treat me like crap"

This too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kindness.

Though I did man up the other day. A girl at work keeps asking for lifts into work, fair enough. Done it for a while, the other week cheeky cow is sat in my car adding up how much money I am saving her

I just said "wow are you seriously taking the piss??? Saving you how much??? You seen the cost of diesal mate"

Last week she left £20 in the ashtray

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

My kindness and humility they seem to judge me based on my age and not the person that I am. Or make assumptions that are completely wrong but only see me that way. A number of my exes have done that and quiet a few people on here have done that as well. People don't see me for me they see me as something that i'm not and will never be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kindness.

I'm definitely too nice, which makes me vulnerable to being walked all over.

I am trying to be a bit more selfish at times though, when needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My forgiveness and that I will accept anything without question."

Preach.....

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Nothing no more as I left that all behind, work, colleagues, friends

This year is about me and I’ll be stubborn about it. The friends I want in my life, I’ll be there for them 100%, the others (the leeches, the me, me, me people) are forgotten and it feels great.

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