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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never know what to put in the subject section of a message.

I can write the most thought out message to try and start a conversation with some one but never know what to out as the subject so I tend to go with the hello or hi how are you

Sort of things which I think is kind of a cop out.

Does anyone else have this issue or am I over thinking the importance of the subject part???

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Possible the worst subjects are "hello" or "hi, how are you"

Something random that may pique interest and make them open the message is best ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats inside this message, will SHOCK you!"

Bitches love clickbait

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

No, I don't think you're overthinking that - after all, that's the bit that's got to stand out from hundreds of other messages in a woman's inbox

The pressure is immense, and real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fancy a fuck I’m the best here’s my amazing cock

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By *hom_1981Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Overthinking it....

I usual write something like - Local Bi Guy/Submissive Bi Man etc

Simple is best....

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Nigerian millionaire prince" might work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yer that's what I thought but I never know what to put as a subject and I'd never wanna come across crude rude or anything bad

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

FAF

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I am swayed by something original, maybe silly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to either put a couple of words relating to what intersted me and let to my message, or I'll write something ridiculously random that has nothing to do with the message content but might interst her enough to have a read

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Nigerian millionaire prince" might work "

I dont think my profile picture would match that though lol

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Read the cheese/chocolate thread and then use “free cheese/chocolate” as per user preference?

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Think you are over thinking it. If we get a message we dont focus on the subject title unless its offensive! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe I should just put I will supply cake and biscuits it may catch some attention lol

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I tend to read the start of the message that shows. I sometimes don't even notice the Subject title - only if the initial sentence is a continuation of the subject line, and I have to read it to make sense of what's written.

For me, it wouldn't make the blindest bit of difference what you put in there

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Think you are over thinking it. If we get a message we dont focus on the subject title unless its offensive! X"

Yeah, definitely ignore stuff like "wanna get fucked hard all night?"

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By *arah_tv999TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxford


"Possible the worst subjects are "hello" or "hi, how are you"

Something random that may pique interest and make them open the message is best ..."

Thanks, now I know where I'm going wrong xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think you are over thinking it. If we get a message we dont focus on the subject title unless its offensive! X

Yeah, definitely ignore stuff like "wanna get fucked hard all night?" "

That's not what you said when I offered you last night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there any way of sticking a cock pic in there? That'd work for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Cake picture inside'

Can help.

But now my phones full of cake pictures

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

I like ones that refer to something in my profile.

Shows they might have read at least part of it

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I don't mind what the message title is in general, except when they're plain rude. The last one I can think of was "stag do gangbang?" I mean seriously

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Maybe I should just put I will supply cake and biscuits it may catch some attention lol"

That would be good. Who doesn't like a good cake?! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't mind what the message title is in general, except when they're plain rude. The last one I can think of was "stag do gangbang?" I mean seriously "

Oh I bet that one got you very excited lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe I should just put I will supply cake and biscuits it may catch some attention lol

That would be good. Who doesn't like a good cake?! Xx"

Ok think I may try that then lol

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I put 'I saw your profile'

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By *zreal_rdgMan
over a year ago

Reading

I put something that jumps out. Different from the rest

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By *zreal_rdgMan
over a year ago

Reading

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I don't mind what the message title is in general, except when they're plain rude. The last one I can think of was "stag do gangbang?" I mean seriously

Oh I bet that one got you very excited lol "

To be fair it's a memorable message title lol

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Think you are over thinking it. If we get a message we dont focus on the subject title unless its offensive! X

Yeah, definitely ignore stuff like "wanna get fucked hard all night?"

That's not what you said when I offered you last night lol"

Shush

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think you are over thinking it. If we get a message we dont focus on the subject title unless its offensive! X

Yeah, definitely ignore stuff like "wanna get fucked hard all night?"

That's not what you said when I offered you last night lol

Shush "

Sorry did I give our secret away

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Think you are over thinking it. If we get a message we dont focus on the subject title unless its offensive! X

Yeah, definitely ignore stuff like "wanna get fucked hard all night?"

That's not what you said when I offered you last night lol

Shush

Sorry did I give our secret away"

I told you not to tell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think you are over thinking it. If we get a message we dont focus on the subject title unless its offensive! X

Yeah, definitely ignore stuff like "wanna get fucked hard all night?"

That's not what you said when I offered you last night lol

Shush

Sorry did I give our secret away

I told you not to tell "

Well I'm ok at keeping secrets but the people I tell are useless at it lol

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