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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.. the future?

Does it excite you or scare you a little? Do you have a lifetime plan? or are you a one day at a time person?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Virtually every second i breathe.

eg what song do i play next, shall i go for a piss now or a bit later, check on my greenhouse etc.

When i stop having any reason to think ahead even slightly, i'll expire. Easy really.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


".. the future?

Does it excite you or scare you a little? Do you have a lifetime plan? or are you a one day at a time person? "

I was told plan for tomorrow and live for today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been to a funeral today and makes me realise that every day counts stop feeling sorry for myself no planning just make every day count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think about the day my kids will move out all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think about the day my kids will move out all the time "

lol i jokinly worked out how long before i can give squidge some suitcases for a bday pressie

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I think about today.. I do think about where I'd like to be when I am 35... who knows what is around the corner...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think about the day my kids will move out all the time

lol i jokinly worked out how long before i can give squidge some suitcases for a bday pressie "

dont bother, my eldest is 20 and she told me other day shes never moving out cause its cheaper to stay here

if there was a crying icon id be using it now lol

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

one day at a time what will be will be

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"i think about the day my kids will move out all the time

lol i jokinly worked out how long before i can give squidge some suitcases for a bday pressie

dont bother, my eldest is 20 and she told me other day shes never moving out cause its cheaper to stay here

if there was a crying icon id be using it now lol"

Just tell her it's always cheaper for everyone when they go halves

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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The future does scare me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no good at planning anything! Best laid plans and all that. I try to make good choices with a view to how it might effect my future, but will go with the flow if it takes a different course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just take everyday as it Comes, best way we find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The future does scare me"

to be honest it dont me

I spend years in a marrage i didnt want im now single, my kids are growing up and not at the age they need me 24/7 and for the first time every im free to live my life as i want to

Things can only go up in my eyes

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

i try not to think of the future,i once thought i had it all sorted for life and how wrong was i

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

The future depresses me and scares me a little. We're childless (not through choice), so there'll be no family get togethers or Grandchildren to have round at the weekend for us. We'll grow old alone, albeit together.

Who knows, maybe one day that thought won't seem so bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

racing toward 60 scares me. we have put the house on the market and intend touring around in our motorhome when it sells.dont want to say wish we had done that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Theres so many what ifs and different routes to take in my life.. but im often curious about how my little one will grow up

as any parent knows they grow up exceptionally quickly and it scares me a little, wonder if things i do with her will influence her life and if they are good things or bad. I hope i don't make mistakes and she grows up to be a well rounded polite and respected young lady.

Id just love to be around to watch her get married.. to know she is safe and loved by someone.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"i think about the day my kids will move out all the time "

Twice this week, and it's only Tuesday my kids have ruined my play plans. Thankfully my daughter phoned to say she was finishing uni early. Good thing as therapist would have featured in my future.

I'm financially set for the future, but every time someone I know dies I wonder how long I've got.

Think that's why this year I'm embarking on a voyage of discovery, visiting countries that interest and excite me.

Can't wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my plans change from day to day

one day i might want randy orton ( wwe wrestler) or kelly brook LOL

how can i make plans for the future when i know im indecisive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive only recently started thinking about the future, kind of tried to keep a hold of a mis-spent youth as long as i could!

but since becoming a single dad last year, ive really had to focus myself in everything i do, ive even met myself a girlfriend its still early days, and have been weaning myself off fab, slowly but surely!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ive only recently started thinking about the future, kind of tried to keep a hold of a mis-spent youth as long as i could!

but since becoming a single dad last year, ive really had to focus myself in everything i do, ive even met myself a girlfriend its still early days, and have been weaning myself off fab, slowly but surely!"

im in the same boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

remember life is what u make it dont think about regrets and mistakes just have fun live for today

so what if you dont know what is around the corner. some see it as glass half full half empty

i see it as a challenge x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I used to plan for the future, I dont now as life has certainly taught me one thing which is ...Life changes while you are making plans.

Kinda feel that accepting what s thrown at you is so much less stressful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ...Life changes while you are making plans. "

sounds like john lennon that '. . . life is what happens while your busy making other plans . . . '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive only recently started thinking about the future, kind of tried to keep a hold of a mis-spent youth as long as i could!

but since becoming a single dad last year, ive really had to focus myself in everything i do, ive even met myself a girlfriend its still early days, and have been weaning myself off fab, slowly but surely!

im in the same boat "

i'm glad your in the same boat, at least if it sinks i can grab on to your bouyancy aids

but on a more serious note, i think that when kids are involved, its important to have some sort of plan ready, tho kids are one sure fire way to make plans go out of the window!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend not to think!

It hurts too much!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In about 30 seconds out of the blue a RTA made me a single Dad a long while back, learned that day to not expect tomorrow, kids have grown and left home and I had a solid plan for that day from shortly after that time, now after surviving cancer twice I am remarried, making all those plans nul and void as they were all for one person only.

So nope enjoy today and maybe plan a holiday for 6 months or so in advance. but always enjoy NOW.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have started to plan for my 50th year, which is less than 3 years away.

I know what I would like to do when I retire.

It is good to plan for the future, IMHO.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


".. the future?

Does it excite you or scare you a little? Do you have a lifetime plan? or are you a one day at a time person? "
Some things i plan ahead but i mostly just each day as it comes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am now married but 6 yrs ago my girlfriend was tragically killed and it was like my whole world had ended.

My experience made me look at life in a whole different light and to appreciate every day.

One thing I did learn is do not end the day on bad terms, appreciate family and friends as you never know when they are going to be taken from you.

So enjoy, be pleasant and don't allow things to annoy you xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment, all the time as my job has become insecure and I am in a quandry as to what action to take.

I am a one day at a time person but bills gotta be paid.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


".. the future?

Does it excite you or scare you a little? Do you have a lifetime plan? or are you a one day at a time person? "

Depends some things I plan for but in general I take things as they come day by day....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In about 30 seconds out of the blue a RTA made me a single Dad a long while back, learned that day to not expect tomorrow, kids have grown and left home and I had a solid plan for that day from shortly after that time, now after surviving cancer twice I am remarried, making all those plans nul and void as they were all for one person only.

So nope enjoy today and maybe plan a holiday for 6 months or so in advance. but always enjoy NOW. "

nice to see you have rebuilt you life

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