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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

that somebody fancies you? I mean whether at work, in the horizontal scene or wherever? What signs are you looking for and equally how do you know they dont? Only serious answers, please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"that somebody fancies you? I mean whether at work, in the horizontal scene or wherever? What signs are you looking for and equally how do you know they dont? Only serious answers, please

Its all in the face...the smile...looking a moment to long...a little blush...but mainly the eyes...you see it there.... xxx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I wish i knew

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I wish i knew

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well, in your case the question is superfluous really.. cos everybody does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fancy ye Aphrodite!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lingering glance, the leaning in to listen, or if they are not so subtle they send a mate up to tell you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either I'm totally oblivious to it or my hubby reads far too much into people's behaviours, cos I never see it and he always tell me people fancy me. He also says I give the impression to everyone that I fancy them, possibly cos I'm quite naturally flirty and hold eye contact. Personally I need people to be blunt and tell me outright.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I fancy ye Aphrodite!!

well thanks - and how would I know that if I met you?;-)

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"The lingering glance, the leaning in to listen, or if they are not so subtle they send a mate up to tell you!

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"that somebody fancies you? I mean whether at work, in the horizontal scene or wherever? What signs are you looking for and equally how do you know they dont? Only serious answers, please

Its all in the face...the smile...looking a moment to long...a little blush...but mainly the eyes...you see it there.... xxx

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I think you are right - it in the eyes, unless its Mushy - there it is the Avatar...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body language, if they are facing you eyes wide open hands that sort of thing, and look out for the bulge in the trousers if its a bloke thats a dead give-away

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"The lingering glance, the leaning in to listen, or if they are not so subtle they send a mate up to tell you!

That works in reverse too

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

fancy a shag love that usually is a tell tale sign....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eyes. cuz more often than not they`ll be on you when you glance over at them or vice versa

pretty juvenile but its always the case. i know i cant keep my eyes off someone i like and when its mutual can be fun cuz you both dont wanna give too much away too soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't often spot it unless it is scary obvious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Either I'm totally oblivious to it or my hubby reads far too much into people's behaviours, cos I never see it and he always tell me people fancy me. He also says I give the impression to everyone that I fancy them, possibly cos I'm quite naturally flirty and hold eye contact. Personally I need people to be blunt and tell me outright."

I gaze into peoples eyes too and get myself into trouble lol ...... but I just can't tell them I'm blind without me specs for seeing up close.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

So I have been told

Making excuses to talk, see you etc

Flushing of face, ears and chest

Touching of arms

Messing with their own hair

Eye contact

Open arm gestures

Sitting down cross legged pointing toes at you

Licking of lips(theirs)

Long long list

But above all this is usually wasted on the male of the species, better off just saying.

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By *obinhood-maidmarionCouple
over a year ago

Benidorm

they stalk you!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

But above all this is usually wasted on the male of the species, better off just saying.

In CAPITALS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh its easy…… they start giving out subliminal clues ,ya-know, like starting threads like this one….

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"fancy a shag love that usually is a tell tale sign....

West brom blokes real smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea, must be why I'm still single

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

But above all this is usually wasted on the male of the species, better off just saying.

In CAPITALS"
ITS THE ONLY WAY WITH YOU

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no clue. I never notice it or I interpret it wrong. That's why I never pick guys up when I go out. I'm useless haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh its easy…… they start giving out subliminal clues ,ya-know, like starting threads like this one….

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"So I have been told

Making excuses to talk, see you etc

Flushing of face, ears and chest

Touching of arms

Messing with their own hair

Eye contact

Open arm gestures

Sitting down cross legged pointing toes at you

Licking of lips(theirs)

Long long list

But above all this is usually wasted on the male of the species, better off just saying.

Yep all that ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest with you i wouldnt know someone was flirting with me if they jumped up and slapped me in the face with a neon sign saying i fancy you lol

im really shit and picking up signals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to be honest with you i wouldnt know someone was flirting with me if they jumped up and slapped me in the face with a neon sign saying i fancy you lol

im really shit and picking up signals "

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"to be honest with you i wouldnt know someone was flirting with me if they jumped up and slapped me in the face with a neon sign saying i fancy you lol

im really shit and picking up signals "

Naughty you have pulled get your coat

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"So I have been told

Making excuses to talk, see you etc

Flushing of face, ears and chest

Touching of arms

Messing with their own hair

Eye contact

Open arm gestures

Sitting down cross legged pointing toes at you

Licking of lips(theirs)

Long long list

But above all this is usually wasted on the male of the species, better off just saying.

Yep all that ..

And here's me can not see any of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if its guy the bulge in his pants gives it away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well if its guy the bulge in his pants gives it away lol"

but that could just mean he has his phone set to vibrate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well if its guy the bulge in his pants gives it away lol

but that could just mean he has his phone set to vibrate lol"
last guy must have had a huge bloody phone then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well if its guy the bulge in his pants gives it away lol

but that could just mean he has his phone set to vibrate lol last guy must have had a huge bloody phone then lol

lmao... send him round here so I can check out the size of his....phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well if its guy the bulge in his pants gives it away lol

but that could just mean he has his phone set to vibrate lol last guy must have had a huge bloody phone then lol

lmao... send him round here so I can check out the size of his....phone

xx"

you want to play with his Dialer then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well if its guy the bulge in his pants gives it away lol

but that could just mean he has his phone set to vibrate lol last guy must have had a huge bloody phone then lol

lmao... send him round here so I can check out the size of his....phone

you want to play with his Dialer then lol"

As long as he promises to push my buttons after

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"well if its guy the bulge in his pants gives it away lol

but that could just mean he has his phone set to vibrate lol last guy must have had a huge bloody phone then lol

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Might be an old dicta phone...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well if its guy the bulge in his pants gives it away lol

but that could just mean he has his phone set to vibrate lol last guy must have had a huge bloody phone then lol

lmao... send him round here so I can check out the size of his....phone

you want to play with his Dialer then lol

As long as he promises to push my buttons after

xx"
he always pushes the right buttons lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience women tend to make sure a guy knows she fancies him, but men are a bit more reserved and most don't make it known unless he's sure it'll be reciprocated.

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By *exual enjoymentMan
over a year ago

warwick

Hi I don't think there are any set rules as all people are very different. I think you have to take each person as they come and also how you feel about the person. R

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

"So I have been told

Making excuses to talk, see you etc

Flushing of face, ears and chest

Touching of arms

Messing with their own hair

Eye contact

Open arm gestures

Sitting down cross legged pointing toes at you

Licking of lips(theirs)

Long long list

But above all this is usually wasted on the male of the species, better off just saying.

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i can see all that, never notice it though, but how do you know if someones got a long long 'list', and wouldn't a lady with a long long 'list' be a bit scary

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

oh, and they keep mentioning visiting tewkesbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont know, but i think i know when they dont fancy me. when i meet a man who i find attractive, we seem to get on, i think maybe they can tell i dont really fancy them, even if i dont say anything.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"So I have been told

Making excuses to talk, see you etc

Flushing of face, ears and chest

Touching of arms

Messing with their own hair

Eye contact

Open arm gestures

Sitting down cross legged pointing toes at you

Licking of lips(theirs)

Long long list

But above all this is usually wasted on the male of the species, better off just saying.

i can see all that, never notice it though, but how do you know if someones got a long long 'list', and wouldn't a lady with a long long 'list' be a bit scary"

Most of this happens without them even knowing, it's a evolution thing, like women with big breast and wide hips

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i never know...its part of why i like swinging they just come out and say fancy a fuck and i don't have to do that body language signals stuff...cos i'm crap at it

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"oh, and they keep mentioning visiting tewkesbury

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haha not there for that much longer...lol, moving north

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish i knew

Same here

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

"oh, and they keep mentioning visiting tewkesbury

haha not there for that much longer...lol, moving north

bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"that somebody fancies you? I mean whether at work, in the horizontal scene or wherever? What signs are you looking for and equally how do you know they dont? Only serious answers, please

I usually donate portraits of the queen, you know the ones with a purple or red frame!!

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