FabSwingers.com forum: You can only choose one.

By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Would you rather have.

A loveing cearing loyal partner and have a really good and fun relationship with but you can never have sex ?

Be able to have sex on tap, when ever you want, but you can never have a relationship with anyone and no one loves or cears about you and no one will be loyal to you ?

You can only choose one.

No mix and match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loyalty over everything

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By *antrelWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham/Cardiff

Definitely the first option.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

A loving partner.

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Number ....drum roll......2

Just look on the site..loads of ppl cheating..sneaking to bathrooms to do pics..men and women. You can think loyalty but what is that..? Can be broke with words..actions aint needed.

Sex is ,what it is sex, to be enjoyed by all at that point in time..like life ..or sit and hope yr loyalty is being given back the same...?

I can get loyalty from a dog..

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Bump

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Definitely first one, Seeside, a loving , caring relationship is far more important to me than sex

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I'm currently enjoying number 2, given the chance I'd go for option 1 tho, I assume it means only no sex with a person, there are always toys & all the foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex isn't everything, some will realise when they grow older and wiser.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

1 easily.

Number 2 is a very lonely and sorry existence. Based on the question, it is permanent I assume. So not something you can just say "had enough now, let's change it"

Id hazzard a guess that anyone who says 2 does not truely know what that form of seclusion and isolation really is on an emotional and mental level.

Self pleasure is easy to achieve, but replacing that empty void is not easy and eventually takes its toll.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one at all with love or care about me if I go for the second one, or just the person I'm getting sex on tap from won't? I have plenty of friends and family so as long as I get to keep them I'm fine with no.2

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think either is fully sustainable long term.

Using the forum as examples nearly everyone says they need a connection to have sex. Then there are the people here because they're in loving but sexless relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely option 1 for me (her). I love and need affection even if it doesn't result in sex.

Option 2 would be lonely and I would become very sad without care being shown to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d have to know the reason why my partner who loves and cares about me wouldn’t give me the intimacy that comes from having sex.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

Option 1, option 2 just sounds a bit soul destroying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I currently have No2 but longing for even a little bit of No1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option 1.

Life would be incredibly lonely with option 2, so no thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

When you say can never have sex Seeside, what do you actually mean? No touching at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you rather have.

A loveing cearing loyal partner and have a really good and fun relationship with but you can never have sex ?

Be able to have sex on tap, when ever you want, but you can never have a relationship with anyone and no one loves or cears about you and no one will be loyal to you ?

You can only choose one.

No mix and match.

Option 1, every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option one always plus there's always toys xx

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"When you say can never have sex Seeside, what do you actually mean? No touching at all? "

Your alowed to hold hands, cuddle ect.

But that's about it.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

The first one without a doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah a good partner is far more fulfilling than a sex buddy.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I had that with my ex husband who ended up cheating so think sex is important

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Option 1 for me. I never would be able to have sex on tap anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you rather have.

A loveing cearing loyal partner and have a really good and fun relationship with but you can never have sex ?

Be able to have sex on tap, when ever you want, but you can never have a relationship with anyone and no one loves or cears about you and no one will be loyal to you ?

You can only choose one.

No mix and match.

I've lived both. Currently on B

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first option and just self love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the 2nd one

relationships are boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a long distance relationship that was practically number 2 after a while even the sex wasn't good. I'd choose number 1 any day

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’d take option 1, option 2 is ok in the short term but my soul craves the love of another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Number ....drum roll......2

Just look on the site..loads of ppl cheating..sneaking to bathrooms to do pics..men and women. You can think loyalty but what is that..? Can be broke with words..actions aint needed.

Sex is ,what it is sex, to be enjoyed by all at that point in time..like life ..or sit and hope yr loyalty is being given back the same...?

I can get loyalty from a dog..

That's the only true loyalty in this world ma man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can guarantee for many, that within several years, whichever option you chose, would seem like the wrong one!

Based on Fab content and comments that is!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

With option one is oral acceptable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loyalty can get right out of town! I have my reasons.

I’d rather have plenty of sex.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"With option one is oral acceptable?

Number 2.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Some interesting answers hear.

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over a year ago

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