FabSwingers.com forum: How long can you go with out any sex ?

By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I'm currently at 32 years and still counting.

Self help not included.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I did 4 years, never again.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not that long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 really _eeside - age of consent and all that

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm currently coming up to 3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtaf two weeks and I’d b absolutely gagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think getting hung up on sex and times scales with or without. Everyone is different. I have so many ways to get the satisfaction I need.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"16 really _eeside - age of consent and all that

Well I suppose if you're going to be that technical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had nearly 10 years at one point not including unsatisfactory fumbles once every 3 years.

And I was in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never gone very long probably two weeks at most but at a week and a half porn viewing was becoming ever increasingly regular

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I think sex is one of those things that - the more often you’re getting it - the more often you want it!

I had great sex last weekend and will hopefully be having equally great sex again this weekend.

However - I’ve had periods whilst on fab of not meeting/having sex for 2-3 months - and far longer periods pre-fab!

The first month or so without it is frustrating - but after that, not having sex becomes a habit and finding people to have great sex with is less of a focus!

That’s me though - no idea if that’s typical of others on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 18 months currently.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I think sex is one of those things that - the more often you’re getting it - the more often you want it!

I had great sex last weekend and will hopefully be having equally great sex again this weekend.

However - I’ve had periods whilst on fab of not meeting/having sex for 2-3 months - and far longer periods pre-fab!

The first month or so without it is frustrating - but after that, not having sex becomes a habit and finding people to have great sex with is less of a focus!

That’s me though - no idea if that’s typical of others on here!

Sounds exactly like myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (her).... during an unhappy marriage I went without sex for a year, plenty of self love in private.

During this relationship (3.5 years) we haven't gone more than 48 hrs, unless he has been abroad and then phone sex, pics, videos to each other to use during self love moments often help. The reunion sex is always very passionate and exciting x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

7 years without when in a relationship.

Outside of that 1-2 months can pass. Do I have to wait that long, no I don’t, but I know what I like and I’ll wait for when the time is right.

Always something to look forward to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You still with your girlfriend _eeside?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Five years and never missed it.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

A couple of years when in a relationship.

I could get it whenever I feel like it, but I'd rather do without than not have who and what I want.

I'm fussy.

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I went without for 2 years in an unhappy marriage, and a year by elective celebacy as a single.

Now I'm a liberated being, if I had the opportunity (with persons of my choosing obvs) more than daily would be my preference

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Think of a number, times it by 5 and you're probably still not there.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I've never gone without since loosing my virginty. Don't actually think I could. Does that make me a nymph?

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

It's over 3 weeks now and my penis is definitely feeling very needy

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Six years towards the end of my marriage and at the moment it has been two years, time flies when you’re not having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decades without sex

About half a day without orgasm, self loving is fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never gone without since loosing my virginty. Don't actually think I could. Does that make me a nymph?

Not at all. It means you are lucky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have some form of sexual activity daily , been like it for years longest we gone is around 48 hours and that was only due to an operation but even then we still fumbled just very slowly and carefully

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I find the first few months difficult but then it gets easier after a certain point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start to get cranky after 6 weeks, assuming I'm well in every other regard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Till tea time

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

I think 4 months.... I cannot go without, god knows how people go years on end...

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By *enn68Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

16 months 3 days 14hrs and ....18 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A full year was the longest I've gone, that also included no wanking.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

However long it takes really. I have learned not to let my vagina make decisions for me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"However long it takes really. I have learned not to let my vagina make decisions for me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s been 7 hrs and 15 days

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Nine months at the moment after an injury last year.

However, just had corrective surgery last week; all being well, I might be able to resume Meets in about 6 weeks.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I go as long as the women or woman takes to take a fancy and fuck me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About three years but I averaged sex every 471 days for 19 years. It’s a touch less now because I had sex 3 times last year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years while receiving hormone medication/treatment. the idea of sex turned my stomach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s been many years, I’m at that point where I think....... am I really that bothered about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over ten years for me thanks to my love of chocolate and being a twat that didn’t listen to the doctors and nurses but at least I still have my chocolate.

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm currently at 3 months and can feel my virginity coming back! Taking myself to a club within the next 2 weeks

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I was celibate from 25 to 35. No sex, no wanking, nothing.

I figure I'm now just making up for lost time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since being on here a year ago

Left and came back but still waiting

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I don’t even know. that how long it’s been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longest I've been without it was 9 months. But I still used my toys so not quite a dry period.

Currently it's 2 months. Feels like years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year longest, currently 59 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm officially a monk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maximum 2 weeks for me...I am a very horny man..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite ironic that a lot of members of a swinging site have less sex than the general public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am on my 3rd year without it and I find it very easy

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

3 days and we are antsy.

Happily it's a rare ocassion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average, I have sex once every six months, has been that way for the last 8 years

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Anyone want to take the _eeside change and try to go without longer than me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm at about 9 years now, without penetrative sex.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

The longest I went without was one year. It was the best thing for me at the time(Oh ahem, I might have had a little thingy thing somewhere in the middle but nothing significant).

Sexual energy is still potent and creative when not being spent on actual sex with a partner. I needed and enjoyed that year. Now I'm lucky to have regular intimacy.. from a much better place as a result!

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

A year was the longest. Never again!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I could do incredible things, if motivated. I'd struggle with a month but could probably go a year, if I needed to.

Would you consider a compromise if you had gone without for an incredibly long period, whilst increasingly gagging for it?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Genuinely no idea. We've been together 16yrs since we were at 6th form so never really had to test the theory. We consider ourselves very lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week max bit even then my vibrating friends battery are dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been around 2 years so far.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I've never gone without since loosing my virginty. Don't actually think I could. Does that make me a nymph?

Not at all. It means you are lucky x

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By *ouch69300Man
over a year ago

beaconsfield

At least 4 months after break up... just went flat out at work lol

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

10 months apparantly

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

16 years, between the ages of 0 and16.

Dry spells include around a year long break from sex, I try not to do that anymore.

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Not long but then can’t really decide by myself only! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your whole life if you choose to

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I went for two years. I was married at the time!

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