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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would you do if you had to choose out of 2 options.

Option 1 - Stay as you are, comfortable but bored.

Option 2 - Take a massive risk that could change your life for the better - but you could fuck up your comfortable life.

Which would you choose?

Think hard - you could lose everything

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Easy number 1 unless I k ow the details around option number 2.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I don't have a comfortable life, so fuck it, let's go for option 2!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I am currently living option 1 which is shit. I will do option 2 soon, if it doesn’t work can I sleep on your sofa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option 1 unless option 2 was so compelling that realising the vision outweighed the risks. Losing everything is a massive risk for anyone to take though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both. Option 2. Nothing ever stays the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be option 1. I cannot take the risk of losing everything.

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By *musedforlifeMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Option 1 - Monday to Friday

Option 2 - The Weekend

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Option 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how option 2 would affect my kids. If there's a risk of fucking up their comfort then I'd choose 1. If it was only me affected then 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 years ago I took option 2. best thing I ever did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option 2 everytime

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)

Option 2 please. A calculated risk can and often has paid massive dividends for me and besides do you really want to be sat on your death bed thinking hmmmm what if.

Bladey x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I took option 2 working out so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am currently option 1, considering option 2...window is closing tho

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Option 1 - Monday to Friday

Option 2 - The Weekend "

this!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

At my age I would take option 1 but I’m never bored

If I was younger then option 2. I’ve done it and it worked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a comfortable life, so fuck it, let's go for option 2!"

That's exactly what I was thinking hahaha

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Number 2 what is life if you don’t take a risk now and then

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

My husband took 2, and it fucked all our lives...

Which is why I stay in 1.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

option 2 as it could lead to option 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both- the grass was definitely greener on the other side!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if you had to choose out of 2 options.

Option 1 - Stay as you are, comfortable but bored.

Option 2 - Take a massive risk that could change your life for the better - but you could fuck up your comfortable life.

Which would you choose?

Think hard - you could lose everything "
i dont have a boring life so I'd take a massive risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life is far from comfortable now so I'd likely go for it

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"What would you do if you had to choose out of 2 options.

Option 1 - Stay as you are, comfortable but bored.

Option 2 - Take a massive risk that could change your life for the better - but you could fuck up your comfortable life.

Which would you choose?

Think hard - you could lose everything "

If you asked me this a year or 2 ago it would be option 1 but now daughter has grown up and is quite settled I'd be sorely tempted with option 2

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Mines all just changed through no choice of my own so fuck it.

Option 2 if I can keep my job please

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

OP, which would you choose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comfortable can be boring and I like to take risks so option B please. Also, if it goes tits up at least I'll be anything but bored when trying to piece my life back together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option 2... Life is too short for playing it safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guck it number two would be thinking for the rest of my life what if and life’s always changing and is never comfortable for ever so grasp the nettle and pull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like wat u have to lose isnt worth having

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south


"My husband took 2, and it fucked all our lives...

Which is why I stay in 1. "

That sounds like an interesting (sad?) story ? X

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

If I'm comfortable then I'm happy with option 1. The greater the risk and uncertainty the less likely I am to consider option 2.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Option 1 is bore inducing and life is too short so I'd say fuck it and go for Option 2.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s the year of change so 2 it is

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Remembering that you are going to die is the best way i know of avoiding the trap of thinking you have something to lose.

2

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Option 2 has been accomplished. Comfort is over rated.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Option 2 everytime

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently taken option 2 - fingers crossed it works out.

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, which would you choose?"

I don't know - I'm torn

I recently moved house - which is what I wanted.

I love my own space but I'm still bored and lonely.

It's just another location to sit in my pyjamas on my own in

I have to change things before I eat and drink myself to death

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By *mileysimieMan
over a year ago

tewkesbury


"What would you do if you had to choose out of 2 options.

Option 1 - Stay as you are, comfortable but bored.

Option 2 - Take a massive risk that could change your life for the better - but you could fuck up your comfortable life.

I would choose option 2 without Hesitation and if I didn’t work out then at least I can say I have tried, But on the other hand it might work out okay, it’s good to take risks sometimes

Which would you choose?

Think hard - you could lose everything "

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Do a risk assessment on 2 first then decide if it’s worth the risk , but it sounds like a no brainier , option sounds like, to quote Roosevelt, a place “with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"OP, which would you choose?

I don't know - I'm torn

I recently moved house - which is what I wanted.

I love my own space but I'm still bored and lonely.

It's just another location to sit in my pyjamas on my own in

I have to change things before I eat and drink myself to death

"

Very little of my life is the same that it was 2 years ago. There are other avenues to help boredom. In a crazy delusional moment I joined a women's field hockey team recently. Why? I'm not really sure but I wanted something to do that would help me connect with myself as something other than mum, co-worker, daughter etc Apart from newly discovered shin splints, it was the best thing I've done for myself in ages.

I don't have a clue what you could see yourself doing but a leap of faith can sometimes work out really well.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I've fucked my life up enough. So, I'll take option 1.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Option 2, We did it moving here.

Best thing we could have done.

S

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Option one during the week.

Option two is on a Friday night when I'm getting my back doors smashed in !!

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Option one during the week.

Option two is on a Friday night when I'm getting my back doors smashed in !!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I waited for years to have comfortable and boring.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"OP, which would you choose?

I don't know - I'm torn

I recently moved house - which is what I wanted.

I love my own space but I'm still bored and lonely.

It's just another location to sit in my pyjamas on my own in

I have to change things before I eat and drink myself to death

"

Yup - new houses and places won’t bring true happiness , just another type of shopping. I just as just reading something about mental health and challenging work/projects and a network of friends seem to be the keys to good physical and mental health , depression is a much bigger killer than drinking and smoking so you sound like you do need to change things if you are doing all 3 of them

So what is your option 2 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could not be arsed with the risk. Comfortable and boring all day long....

There are obviously different levels of comfortable though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living this dilemma right now. Heart says option 2, head says option 1

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"What would you do if you had to choose out of 2 options.

Option 1 - Stay as you are, comfortable but bored.

Option 2 - Take a massive risk that could change your life for the better - but you could fuck up your comfortable life.

Which would you choose?

Think hard - you could lose everything "

Without a doubt 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy because I’ve already done it, Number 2, without fail, every time! Yeah things went south but not forever and I’d like to think I’m a better person for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, which would you choose?

I don't know - I'm torn

I recently moved house - which is what I wanted.

I love my own space but I'm still bored and lonely.

It's just another location to sit in my pyjamas on my own in

I have to change things before I eat and drink myself to death

Yup - new houses and places won’t bring true happiness , just another type of shopping. I just as just reading something about mental health and challenging work/projects and a network of friends seem to be the keys to good physical and mental health , depression is a much bigger killer than drinking and smoking so you sound like you do need to change things if you are doing all 3 of them

So what is your option 2 ? "

You're so right.

I have no friends locally, I have a dead end job and don't work with anyone I want to socialise with and I dont have any close family.

I travelled for years so I dont feel like strapping a backpack on at my age - I dont know what I want.

Option 2 is quitting the shit job and seeing what happens

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Why does it have to be one or the other OP. You’ve just achieved something you wanted (moving house), why can’t you make some assessments of what you might like to change for the better in your life and set about achieving them, whilst maintaining your comfort levels. That way you can experiment with what works for you and what doesn’t without compromising everything all at once.

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By *antrelWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham/Cardiff


"Why does it have to be one or the other OP. You’ve just achieved something you wanted (moving house), why can’t you make some assessments of what you might like to change for the better in your life and set about achieving them, whilst maintaining your comfort levels. That way you can experiment with what works for you and what doesn’t without compromising everything all at once. "

This

I’d choose option 2 but I’m lucky to have amazing family and friends that would be there for me if it all went tits up.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"OP, which would you choose?

I don't know - I'm torn

I recently moved house - which is what I wanted.

I love my own space but I'm still bored and lonely.

It's just another location to sit in my pyjamas on my own in

I have to change things before I eat and drink myself to death

Yup - new houses and places won’t bring true happiness , just another type of shopping. I just as just reading something about mental health and challenging work/projects and a network of friends seem to be the keys to good physical and mental health , depression is a much bigger killer than drinking and smoking so you sound like you do need to change things if you are doing all 3 of them

So what is your option 2 ?

You're so right.

I have no friends locally, I have a dead end job and don't work with anyone I want to socialise with and I dont have any close family.

I travelled for years so I dont feel like strapping a backpack on at my age - I dont know what I want.

Option 2 is quitting the shit job and seeing what happens

"

Cutting off your only income stream and leaving it to chance doesn’t seem like a good plan.

Very few people really know what they want, but it’s the journeying, adventure and finding out that counts. If you want some good friends , then start being a good friend, there are plenty of people in need of one - open your eyes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have very little to lose. Number 2.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does it have to be one or the other OP. You’ve just achieved something you wanted (moving house), why can’t you make some assessments of what you might like to change for the better in your life and set about achieving them, whilst maintaining your comfort levels. That way you can experiment with what works for you and what doesn’t without compromising everything all at once. "

I know you're right - but the irrational part of my brain wants to walk into work tomorrow and tell them to go fuck themselves

The joy would be short lived obviously - but I'm sure most people feel this at some point.

Then I would like to get on a plane to India where all my friends are and not spend every day either at work or alone.

But annoyingly we all have to make reasonable and do - able decisions.

I'm incapable.

I can only repeat the same shit over and over.

I'm a lost cause- I feel like it's all or nothing!

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By *lways sunshineMan
over a year ago

crawley

Option 2

Got nothing to lose

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"What would you do if you had to choose out of 2 options.

Option 1 - Stay as you are, comfortable but bored.

Option 2 - Take a massive risk that could change your life for the better - but you could fuck up your comfortable life.

Which would you choose?

Think hard - you could lose everything "

2, without a doubt.

A life with no regrets is a life half-lived.

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By *ottielayWoman
over a year ago

by the bay

What about taking a year out

Rent your house out and go to India

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Could you go for a holiday ? Then make your choice

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"What would you do if you had to choose out of 2 options.

Option 1 - Stay as you are, comfortable but bored.

Option 2 - Take a massive risk that could change your life for the better - but you could fuck up your comfortable life.

Which would you choose?

Think hard - you could lose everything

2, without a doubt.

A life with no regrets is a life half-lived."

Sounds like a quote from strictly ballroom ?

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Definitely option 2

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Option 2. I've done it before and I'll do it again.

Yes, you could lose everything. I have lost everything before. I've fucked up in spectacular fashion and been convinced I have ruined my life.

Turns out life is a resilient fucker - it's a lot harder to ruin than you could possibly believe.

I'm 45 now, which is a bit old to try to start from scratch again, but if I needed to I know fully damn well I could.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If it were a risk being in full possession of the facts to enable an assessment of that risk then Option 2 every time - have regretted not taking a chance far too many times to carry on not doing so any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option 1. Happy as I am.

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"My husband took 2, and it fucked all our lives...

Which is why I stay in 1. "

This

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

I’m midst option 2 now career wise. It’s slightly scary. You only live once though.

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By *offee and KinksCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby

Professionally speaking, I’m on the verge of option 2. The risks are massive but something needs to change.

Mr

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Option 2 and that's what prevents me from doing it sadly

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Once we sold our house in Essex & found one here in Wales I wound down a sole trader business for six months while we concentrated on packing, schools & all the other stuff.

By the time it was done & we were here & the workshop was ready we had zero income & next to zero left in the bank however no mortgage to worry about.

A year later I’m busier than I ever was in Essex & although I’ve had to drop my hourly rate a touch I’m still earning more here. In the early days though it was still “Is this going to work?” “Is there the work for me here?” “No we can’t put £30 in the car as it’ll leave us short with a car full of petrol we don’t need”.

It was worrying for a while but still the best thing we’ve ever done!

We’d say you need a plan, a vision of what you want, the self belief so you can make some tough calls to achieve it & just a smidgeon of luck helps too..

S

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Professionally speaking, I’m on the verge of option 2. The risks are massive but something needs to change.

Mr"

Often the risks of not doing it are just as big in the long run. Humans are very adaptable once you get over initial paralysis and start moving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to say option 2, boredom isn't a good place to be in life.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"A life with no regrets is a life half-lived.

Sounds like a quote from strictly ballroom ? "

I've been trying to find the source of it for (literally) years! I'm sure I didn't invent it, but I love it.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

J here.

I chose option 2, lost a lot of material stuff but gained so much more with B..

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"A life with no regrets is a life half-lived.

Sounds like a quote from strictly ballroom ?

I've been trying to find the source of it for (literally) years! I'm sure I didn't invent it, but I love it. "

It’s not.... it’s close, but different...keep searching

https://youtu.be/46keEUbWOIA

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could you go for a holiday ? Then make your choice"

I cant afford a holiday at the moment - moving house took every penny I had.

But maybe a holiday from work in April.

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Professionally speaking, I’m on the verge of option 2. The risks are massive but something needs to change.

Mr"

Yes this is exactly how I feel - what will you change?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Why does it have to be one or the other OP. You’ve just achieved something you wanted (moving house), why can’t you make some assessments of what you might like to change for the better in your life and set about achieving them, whilst maintaining your comfort levels. That way you can experiment with what works for you and what doesn’t without compromising everything all at once.

I know you're right - but the irrational part of my brain wants to walk into work tomorrow and tell them to go fuck themselves

The joy would be short lived obviously - but I'm sure most people feel this at some point.

Then I would like to get on a plane to India where all my friends are and not spend every day either at work or alone.

But annoyingly we all have to make reasonable and do - able decisions.

I'm incapable.

I can only repeat the same shit over and over.

I'm a lost cause- I feel like it's all or nothing!"

A few things jump out from what you said:

1. You could do, as others have said, option 1 during the week and option 2 during the weekend. There are lots of people in a similar position to you and the social side here is quite active.

You can get a group of similar people from here and go to each other’s places on weekends so you can socialise, get slightly too d*unk and laugh with other people.

2. You probably need something to aim for to choose option 2. Going to live in India is possible, especially if you know people there. Going anywhere is possible but you need to figure out what.

The reason for this is it gives you something definite to fight for; at the moment you’re just frustrated and want “anything but this”. That’s not a cause that will keep you going through the tough times.

It shows when you said you want to walk into work and tell them to fuck off. If you do that (I know it’s just a fantasy but let’s allow your brain to run with it) it forces you to do something next. Right now you don’t know what next, that’s why you need to do the thing that forces it to happen.

Life is tough so be kind to yourself. Rather than beating yourself up because you’re not doing anything, think that you have realised something needs to change and you’re already on that journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it recently....option 2! No regrets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does it have to be one or the other OP. You’ve just achieved something you wanted (moving house), why can’t you make some assessments of what you might like to change for the better in your life and set about achieving them, whilst maintaining your comfort levels. That way you can experiment with what works for you and what doesn’t without compromising everything all at once.

I know you're right - but the irrational part of my brain wants to walk into work tomorrow and tell them to go fuck themselves

The joy would be short lived obviously - but I'm sure most people feel this at some point.

Then I would like to get on a plane to India where all my friends are and not spend every day either at work or alone.

But annoyingly we all have to make reasonable and do - able decisions.

I'm incapable.

I can only repeat the same shit over and over.

I'm a lost cause- I feel like it's all or nothing!

A few things jump out from what you said:

1. You could do, as others have said, option 1 during the week and option 2 during the weekend. There are lots of people in a similar position to you and the social side here is quite active.

You can get a group of similar people from here and go to each other’s places on weekends so you can socialise, get slightly too d*unk and laugh with other people.

2. You probably need something to aim for to choose option 2. Going to live in India is possible, especially if you know people there. Going anywhere is possible but you need to figure out what.

The reason for this is it gives you something definite to fight for; at the moment you’re just frustrated and want “anything but this”. That’s not a cause that will keep you going through the tough times.

It shows when you said you want to walk into work and tell them to fuck off. If you do that (I know it’s just a fantasy but let’s allow your brain to run with it) it forces you to do something next. Right now you don’t know what next, that’s why you need to do the thing that forces it to happen.

Life is tough so be kind to yourself. Rather than beating yourself up because you’re not doing anything, think that you have realised something needs to change and you’re already on that journey."

Your so sensible Adam!

Can I just come and live with you please and you can organise it all for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option 2.

What’s life without risk? No one would be where they are without taking some form of a risk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 2 too, but you need something that's going to interest of in place of the shit job. Would you go to college/uni? Learn something new, challenge yourself, meet new people and hopefully find a new career path you care about. Good luck whatever you go for x

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By *urlyCatzWoman
over a year ago

Blackpool

Currently in the midst of option 2 and it's all tits up. But hey ho as the song says "Things can only get better"

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Have you decided ?

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

Option 1. I have everything I could ever want and wouldn't do anything to fuck that up.

Gem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been with 2 in the past and was a terrible choice..

Stick with 1 now

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Option 2. I've done it many times and I'm not dead yet.

I get bored of comfortable, bring me the excitement and the memories!

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By *ampant Lion34Man
over a year ago

East Midlands

I took option 2 was best thing I've done.

I had a comfortable job good money etc and left it for less money to start with but after probation more than was on. But was hard graft and if failed would of been left with nothing but got through and now a AFO in the police.

So yes comfy is good but sometimes you need to come out that zone for bigger and better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you decided ? "

I'm looking for a new job.

Hopefully I'll meet some new people and feel better in my new home.

It takes time to get used to a place I haven't even been here 2 months yet.

I think I was expecting instant happiness- I'm looking in the wrong place for it.

I'm also debating on deleting Fab once and for all and maybe go for some vanilla dating

New things and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2. I love fucking up things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option 2. Rip it up and start again

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Have you decided ?

I'm looking for a new job.

Hopefully I'll meet some new people and feel better in my new home.

It takes time to get used to a place I haven't even been here 2 months yet.

I think I was expecting instant happiness- I'm looking in the wrong place for it.

I'm also debating on deleting Fab once and for all and maybe go for some vanilla dating

New things and all that "

Good luck with it all x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you decided ?

I'm looking for a new job.

Hopefully I'll meet some new people and feel better in my new home.

It takes time to get used to a place I haven't even been here 2 months yet.

I think I was expecting instant happiness- I'm looking in the wrong place for it.

I'm also debating on deleting Fab once and for all and maybe go for some vanilla dating

New things and all that

Good luck with it all x"

Thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in 1, have no choice but to stay in 1.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I seem to be choosing option two in some areas of life, one in others

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"What would you do if you had to choose out of 2 options.

Option 1 - Stay as you are, comfortable but bored.

Option 2 - Take a massive risk that could change your life for the better - but you could fuck up your comfortable life.

Which would you choose?

Think hard - you could lose everything "

It's not a possible question

Risk is vastly variable

If you suggest the risk is the roulette wheel on black or of any equivalence then I'm staying

However if at any point the risk is based upon my person performance be that my judgement then I'm taking the risk

Money where mouth is I'm hoping to do just that in near future

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"What would you do if you had to choose out of 2 options.

Option 1 - Stay as you are, comfortable but bored.

Option 2 - Take a massive risk that could change your life for the better - but you could fuck up your comfortable life.

Which would you choose?

Think hard - you could lose everything "

If I really wasn't happy with option 1 I'd definitely go with option 2.

When you say "lose everything" what do you mean? Material things or your health/sanity?

Material things can be replaced .

I think life is too short to sit on your arse whinging about something that's in your power to change.

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