FabSwingers.com forum: Do you ever feel

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like you can't click with anyone online?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like you can't click with anyone online? "

Nope.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Yes, all the time .. I must be shit at writing txts .. I r and m just to old, but fly and fat

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Sometimes yes sometimes no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like I can't click with anyone anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried to click with a woman online recently but the letter k on my laptop wasn’t working. She never replied when I said I want to spend the night licing her pussy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel like I can't click with anyone anywhere. "

I'm the same but more on here.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Nope. I've found I can definitely click online first. I love a wordsmith, so those are the ones that stand out to me.

It's not for everyone though, I can see why some find it hard.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Yeah at times

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not at all - but then I don't "try" to - you either click with someone or you don't - so I don't set out to do so, it just happens naturally if it's meant to

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Yeah at times "
this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it's quite difficult to click on line because you can never be sure who you're actually talking to. We try and meet in person if we can.

We do chat to one of two from miles away that we get along with quite well though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can click with a lot of people online. Obviously not everyone but I can tell within a couple of minutes if we are compatible

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Yes most of the time lately !!! Feel like Rhe invisible man

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Nope.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No.

It happens, not often but that makes it more special when it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont find it hard to click with people, they just tend to be the wrong ones

Some people are better face to face so maybe that's more your thing

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By *asilForty77Man
over a year ago

a hundred and sixty of us living in a small shoebox in the middle of the road

Yes definitely at times it can be difficult expressing thoughts and feelings through typing as it can come across totally in a different manor than one was intending

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No, it just happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I can click with some quite easily especially if they are good with their words. But I get to cautious to meet people or they are too far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

In person it’s different.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. I'd probably adjust my approach or expectations if I didn't. It's reasonable to remain mindful of your objectives whatever you do, so that you can evaluate your results and what you are doing. We can always change our objectives or how we do things.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Not at all. I'm friendly with everyone that sends me a nice message, made some great friends on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess yea. I used to be able to on here but I would be online a hell of alot more

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I can but alot of the time I can't be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm amazed how I instantly click with some people online, not many tbh but I can sometimes instantly feel a strong connection after a few back & forth mails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot, but I have 3 very special people that I do click with. Out of thousands I have spoke to I find 3

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I think some people are wary of me because I look a bit shifty

but once they actually meet me they're pleasantly surprised how laid back I am, always get told ppl feel comfortable around me which is nice

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I'll happily chat shit to people online all day and night. But it's not often that I actually click with someone. I'm the same in real life.

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

Not really I find I click with a lot of people I chat with, but I am crap at keeping in touch with people though.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We tend to click with people easily. We just chat and be ourselves and it happens naturally.

Hardest thing for us is finding time to meet in person.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"Not at all - but then I don't "try" to - you either click with someone or you don't - so I don't set out to do so, it just happens naturally if it's meant to"

This

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I click with a lot of people online, because I'm good at holding a conversation and I'm very entertaining, so I tend to attract messages from other chatty, witty types.

When it comes to taking it from online chat to a real life meet... that's when the majority of ghosting happens.

C'est la vie, I still enjoy the conversations I have going and I still have a lot of fun on here.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Like you can't click with anyone online? "

Can't say I have Op.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Generally I do ok. The issue is sorting the truth from the fiction, although this spills into real life as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you define click. I get on with a lot of people but actually click with very few. That’ll be me though not them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really I find I click with a lot of people I chat with, but I am crap at keeping in touch with people though."

Me too

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

"Not really I find I click with a lot of people I chat with, but I am crap at keeping in touch with people though.

Me too

its not intentional obviously, i just find ill have a really good chat with somebody and then wont log in for days and then it feels a bit weird trying to keep the conversation going after so much time has passed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love to chat but I guess I'm crap with conversation, because I just get ghosted

Online is hard work

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Nope, just have a laugh, have a chat and see where it goes. If doesn’t go anywhere, no biggie, not everyone gets on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the opposite. I often click with people on here but not in real life.

Very rarely do I click with anyone in the flesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to click in real life but get no love online

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

If you message first it depends on the other persons reply, one word answers and a lack of engagement make it hard to get to know someone...and a bit of a red flag tbh. On the other hand, if you have a bit of an unusual kink like myself then it can be easier to discuss things online..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you message first it depends on the other persons reply, one word answers and a lack of engagement make it hard to get to know someone...and a bit of a red flag tbh. On the other hand, if you have a bit of an unusual kink like myself then it can be easier to discuss things online.."

Absolutely this

There's someone I've got my eye on, who shares a particular kink, but I can't message her!!

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By *uicylucy19Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

I’m finding the further away someone is, the more likely I am to click with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m finding the further away someone is, the more likely I am to click with them

I don't know why but that kind of happens with me too! Though it's not more likely i'll click with them, it just so happens that when I do click with someone they always seem to be miles away!

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By *indkink82Man
over a year ago

Caistor

Certainly, I can't be anyone's cup of tea lol

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Absolutely this

There's someone I've got my eye on, who shares a particular kink, but I can't message her!!"

I have managed to get in touch with someone before using 'your status'

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Nope

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I’m finding the further away someone is, the more likely I am to click with them

Same here.... annoying xx

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

"I’m finding the further away someone is, the more likely I am to click with them

Absolutely this and for some reason they always seem to be in Plymouth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, what would be the point of being on FAB ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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