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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Need a kick up the arse.

Supposed to go gym, didnt get off my sofa. Need some food, cant be bothered to cook. Cant even be bothered to get a take away.

Hidden my profile, no interest in anyone at the minute. No interest in trying to meet anyone new.

Not feeling depressed or down or anything. Just cant be bothered.

Anyone else get like this? What do you do to pick yourself up?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

*whistles* always look on the bright side of life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Let me know when you find the answer

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By *he Little Fuck MachineMan
over a year ago

Co.Antrim

I’ve been feeling like this for months! Still “Waiting for Godot”, so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m adding my name to this select club

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yup.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Oh you're having an uff day. One of those where everything makes you go 'uff'

Best thing to do is to watch YouTube videos of penguins falling over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh you're having an uff day. One of those where everything makes you go 'uff'

Best thing to do is to watch YouTube videos of penguins falling over. "

More like an 'uff' month

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Get up off the sofa & go outside for a walk ideally in a green space. Say hi to passers by, someone will smile. It might be you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be a funny day for it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes. add into the mix a viral infection & sinusitis

my get up & go has got up & gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

add me to this club too but i do gym most days

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I just embrace it until my vagina starts clamouring for cock. It happens eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A severe case of the fuck-its, when that becomes the answer to everything?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"add me to this club too but i do gym most days "

I try and go at least 3 times a week. Think I've been once in the last 3.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A severe case of the fuck-its, when that becomes the answer to everything?"

Pretty much

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"Need a kick up the arse.

Supposed to go gym, didnt get off my sofa. Need some food, cant be bothered to cook. Cant even be bothered to get a take away.

Hidden my profile, no interest in anyone at the minute. No interest in trying to meet anyone new.

Not feeling depressed or down or anything. Just cant be bothered.

Anyone else get like this? What do you do to pick yourself up?"

I know just how your feeling I was about to put up a similar thread.

I just can't be arsed to do anything at the moment feel fed up & pissed off with everything and everyone, same thing day in day out it's getting me down and depressed yet I am unable to put my finger on what is making me feel like this. Will say I have had enough of this cold wet and shitty weather hoping it's just that getting me down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, about once a month

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Apparently you should do something you're really good at so you are filled with positive endorphins. Then approach things with a smile on your face and the knowledge that 'You can' rather than 'can't be bothered.'

But I just go to sleep then I've forgotten all about it.

Jo.Xx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes. It usually passes on its own. Sending hugs and willy rubs!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

PS4 - The Bioshock collection is free in the store at the moment

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

It's the 1st 2 months of the year. Have such a negative effect. You will feel better once you get a bit of spring sunshine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt a bit like that, on top of some other symptoms. Got checked, turned out to be vitamin D deficient. Feel much better now I'm, erm, "taking the D" every day...

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Yes and it’s normal. It will pass

Try and find one thing you do enjoy doing and focus on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently you should do something you're really good at so you are filled with positive endorphins. Then approach things with a smile on your face and the knowledge that 'You can' rather than 'can't be bothered.'

But I just go to sleep then I've forgotten all about it.

Jo.Xx "

I can't afford to do most of what I'm really good at, and the rest is illegal.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"add me to this club too but i do gym most days

I try and go at least 3 times a week. Think I've been once in the last 3. "

This is me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to the best of us pal.

I’d spend all my time relaxing if it wasn’t for one small, incredibly beautiful, nagging reason that I just couldn’t possibly live without...

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"yes. add into the mix a viral infection & sinusitis

my get up & go has got up & gone "

Aww Blue..I hope you feel better soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes. add into the mix a viral infection & sinusitis

my get up & go has got up & gone

Aww Blue..I hope you feel better soon x"

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I do this too at times and can never seem to figure a reason.

I think our bodies have cycles (women's are obvious) when our hormones fluctuate. I think also sometimes we just need rest.

Maybe your brain is forcing you to rest.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

POF...I think it happens to most of us. Just be good to yourself, don't be hard on yourself about stuff, like the gym. Just give yourself a break....I'm sure it will pass. The crappy weather probably doesn't help either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had the same loads of times.....as many have said, it will pass.

The only way I’ve found to speed up that progress is do the things you’re avoiding; they’ll be the hardest things to do at that time, but maybe that’s the point....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through this. Its just boredom. Tired of answering the same old same old and seeing the same old same old. Even my response is boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

COD and a greasy bucket should sort you out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go through this. Its just boredom. Tired of answering the same old same old and seeing the same old same old. Even my response is boring. "

Yep this is it for me too.

I'm ridiculously bored.

I feel like I'm boring too because my life is like Groundhog Day!

Same old shit day in day out.

I recently moved and thought this would change my life - don't get me wrong I love it

But my life is still basically the same.

Bored.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could offer some words of advice but unfortunately I feel the same as you Op. I just can't be arsed with anything. Maybe it's lack of sunshine known as S.A.D.?

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By *ilthy and ProudCouple
over a year ago

Stratford upon Avon


"Need a kick up the arse.

Supposed to go gym, didnt get off my sofa. Need some food, cant be bothered to cook. Cant even be bothered to get a take away.

Hidden my profile, no interest in anyone at the minute. No interest in trying to meet anyone new.

Not feeling depressed or down or anything. Just cant be bothered.

Yep. I do. Talking to my best friend usually helps E xx

Anyone else get like this? What do you do to pick yourself up?"

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