FabSwingers.com forum: Manners cost nothing.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life. I agree

On fab, no. Imagine having to reply no to 500 messages a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no."

DUCK!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no."

Time is money though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no."

I would delete your status as well. Its not breaking rules. Just bad form

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Yes & no.

Some people don't take a no thanks well.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

No.

(I don’t agree dude but it’s frustrating I grant you)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the same way you send a 'Thanks but not interested' message to all those nice people who pop junk mail , sorry 'amazing offers' in your letter box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes & no.

Some people don't take a no thanks well. "

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God grow thicker skin and accept a delete as a no it saves time for both of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP. Just so you know. I have really, really tight filters concerning who can message me. I have also clearly said do not message me if your profile is a dick pic or action shot. I still get around 150 messages a day and most times I simply can’t be arsed. The solution? A mass delete without reading. Soooooo satisfying when all those dicks simply poof away....

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By *dinSon99Man
over a year ago

East Northants

I always reply politely, interested or otherwise, why be ignorant? A simple ‘thank you but you’re not for me’ takes no effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab should consider a

Delete with thanks but no thanks button to help the hot ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes & no.

Some people don't take a no thanks well. "
I totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes but on fab some think there superior hahaha on a fucking swingers site ffs

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no.

I would delete your status as well. Its not breaking rules. Just bad form"
my status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually reply with a no thanks but then receive a reply anyway.

You have to have a thick skin on here and that is for both sexes

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yes & no.

Some people don't take a no thanks well. " "

Yep, this.

Also, forum rules state that a delete should be taken as a simple 'no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey OP. Just so you know. I have really, really tight filters concerning who can message me. I have also clearly said do not message me if your profile is a dick pic or action shot. I still get around 150 messages a day and most times I simply can’t be arsed. The solution? A mass delete without reading. Soooooo satisfying when all those dicks simply poof away...."

This!

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

"Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no.

I would delete your status as well. Its not breaking rules. Just bad form

my status "

He means this:

'Saturday... A simple no thank you would be good...just deleting is just plain ignorance manners cost nothing...'

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

yes but on fab some think there superior hahaha on a fucking swingers site ffs

"On a fucking swingers site ffs"

Makes it sound like you have a negative opinion of that.

And no the subject. We don't reply to anyone. People who don't read our profile or ignore our age preferences don't deserve a reply.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"In the same way you send a 'Thanks but not interested' message to all those nice people who pop junk mail , sorry 'amazing offers' in your letter box."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always reply politely, interested or otherwise, why be ignorant? A simple ‘thank you but you’re not for me’ takes no effort. "
exactly what I have been thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes but on fab some think there superior hahaha on a fucking swingers site ffs

"On a fucking swingers site ffs"

Makes it sound like you have a negative opinion of that.

And no the subject. We don't reply to anyone. People who don't read our profile or ignore our age preferences don't deserve a reply."
no it is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You really should familiarise yourself with the site FAQ's OP.

Non-replies to messages are covered there and it is explained why it is not considered rude on dab and that you should take a non-response as a 'no thank you'

Seriously, would an inbox full of 'no thanks' messages make you feel any better?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I myself like most genuine guys on here take the time to read profiles and I always send more than a one line message maybe it is just me and I honestly get that females get hundreds of messages

This! "

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

A delete is just another way of saying no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab should consider a

Delete with thanks but no thanks button to help the hot ladies"
would be a well used option

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes but on fab some think there superior hahaha on a fucking swingers site ffs

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

yes but on fab some think there superior hahaha on a fucking swingers site ffs

This tells me you don't appreciate the difference between swinging and hooking up with strangers for a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab should consider a

Delete with thanks but no thanks button to help the hot ladieswould be a well used option "

Why not just take the delete as a "thanks but no thanks" would be the same amount of effort from the sender

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We reply politely to polite starter messages. Simply hi, or offering to come round and fuck me now or sending pics of cum squirting everywhere is just going to be ignored. No reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I usually reply with a no thanks but then receive a reply anyway.

You have to have a thick skin on here and that is for both sexes "
I never pester if I get a no if it's a no then I keep looking elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly its impossible to reply to evey message you get as a female, I mean physically impossible.

When you do you will either be met with abuse or repeated messages trying to convince you otherwise so whatever we do we will be slated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Firstly its impossible to reply to evey message you get as a female, I mean physically impossible.

When you do you will either be met with abuse or repeated messages trying to convince you otherwise so whatever we do we will be slated. "

Not to mention the men that want to know why we are turning them down

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

A friend of mine went on an etiquette course, in his case manners cost a wee fortune.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Firstly its impossible to reply to evey message you get as a female, I mean physically impossible.

When you do you will either be met with abuse or repeated messages trying to convince you otherwise so whatever we do we will be slated.

Not to mention the men that want to know why we are turning them down "

Yeap and that, forgot that one, like how dare you not want my magnificent penis tis glorious...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my filters on and hiden profile when I don't have the time, inclination or am not online and his controls the number of my messages nicely and I do reply to all my messages as a consequence

BUT OP you have to understand the amount of messages that some ladies get and the message content. Lots of messages don't deserve a reply (talking of manners) and noone has the time to reply to lots of messages. ALSO, again talking of manners, most guys simply don't have the decency to read a person's profile so are they entitled to a reply?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

I've never understood why guys want a load of messages that essentially say a load of women don't find them attractive. I can't think of anything more soul destroying.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no."

In public yes on the inter web I'm afraid the rules are a little different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no.

I would delete your status as well. Its not breaking rules. Just bad form"
if it's not breaking any rules then it stays it isn't put there to offend anyone in particular you might think it is bad form but it is there because that is what I was thinking at that moment in time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no."
yes but its not simple here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've never understood why guys want a load of messages that essentially say a load of women don't find them attractive. I can't think of anything more soul destroying. "
just one simple no thanks is more than enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no.yes but its not simple here

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its anything but simple.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I've never understood why guys want a load of messages that essentially say a load of women don't find them attractive. I can't think of anything more soul destroying. just one simple no thanks is more than enough for me."

Why do you require blunt rejection? Why not just accept that delete means no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no.

In public yes on the inter web I'm afraid the rules are a little different. "
a whole lot different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no.

I would delete your status as well. Its not breaking rules. Just bad formif it's not breaking any rules then it stays it isn't put there to offend anyone in particular you might think it is bad form but it is there because that is what I was thinking at that moment in time."

Ok, well, good luck

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no.

It is your status, you are allowed to put on it whatever you like within rules

What is against rules is people discussing your profile on the forum, so to the people who are doing that, you need to stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners don't cost anything.

A simple no would be so much better than just delete.

Yes or no.

It is your status, you are allowed to put on it whatever you like within rules

What is against rules is people discussing your profile on the forum, so to the people who are doing that, you need to stop"

Sorry, my bad

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP, some people reply, some don't, if you accept this happens you will probably enjoy the site more

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

For the people who may want to read the rules to save a ban

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